Modern people are very concerned about their physical and psychological needs. They are no longer victims of feudal society. They all think very openly. A very popular saying is, just do what you want to do and be happy. So now the ideological concepts of men and women have also changed. People are becoming more and more indifferent to the concept of chastity, and the cheating rate of men and women is getting higher and higher. But there is a big difference between men and women cheating. What are the differences?
Judging from the current social atmosphere, social progress and the development of the Internet have provided people with many foundations for extramarital affairs. Now everyone’s social circle has become very large and broad, becoming the cornerstone of men and women. , increasing the probability of cheating between men and women. Many family cheating starts from the Internet. Nowadays, there are more and more chat software and chat tools, and many people think that this is an indispensable way of life, which leads to today’s men and women having extramarital affairs. , sexual partners are no longer the objects of contempt, and cheating men and women are becoming more and more unscrupulous.
A man cheats physically first, while a woman cheats mentally and spiritually first. Men tend to be dissatisfied with the old and are dissatisfied with their wives at home. If a beautiful woman throws herself into her arms at this time, many men will cheat. It's impossible for a man to stay pregnant, so he will cheat on her body first. Women are relatively conservative in their thinking. They may love sex first and choose to cheat mentally first, and then cheat physically.
Why do men cheat? Some people are looking for excitement. They say that men are animals that think in the lower body. Since ancient times, no man can resist the temptation of women, unless he has physical obstacles. There is also his vanity. Home flowers are not as fragrant as wild flowers. Other men will taste them, but he will not taste them in vain. It's just a show, and the lies come true. I think you are in love with me, as long as nothing happens. There are also some men who are born with a love of cheating and can't change it.
Why do women cheat? Most of the cases where women cheat are due to emotional discord between husband and wife. Of course, there are also cases where women cheat because they cannot meet their physiological needs. This situation is rare. When it comes to sex, most women have stronger restraint than men. She belongs to someone else, she has fallen in love with another man from the bottom of her heart, and she is also accustomed to playing with her feelings, without any bottom line, being indulgent and dissatisfied with her desires.
After a man cheats, most of them do it for fun and still have family in their hearts. Under normal circumstances, they will not let a third party affect their family, especially a man who is a father. When faced with an affair, he will clearly distinguish between family and extramarital affairs. If it is because of a third party that will cause the family to break up, the man will decisively choose to avoid trouble and abandon the mistress. There are also some women who are submissive. In this case, the man You will be content with having a family and having an extramarital affair.
After a woman cheats, she basically lets go of everything. Even if a woman has an affair at first just to seek spiritual or physical benefits, but as time goes by, the deeper she becomes involved, she wants a result and an end. , once women have an extramarital affair, they will invest in it. They will spend exponentially their time, care about their lover very much, think about him all the time, and fantasize about everything. Therefore, many women will be willing to let go of everything if they have an extramarital affair.
This is the difference between men and women. Men have sex first and then love, while women have sex first after love. It can be said that most men cheat on impulse, for the so-called Freshness means cheating simply to satisfy physical desires. Once a woman cheats, she cheats mentally first. Therefore, many women who cheat are stubborn and will not reflect or repent. It is because of her My heart is gone!