If you have a large circle of friends, you will spend a lot of time communicating. I have a roommate with a large circle of friends, because she has joined many clubs, such as photography club, student union, volunteer association and so on. In addition, she is very lively and cheerful, so she has good interpersonal relationships in these clubs. Although I envy her occasionally, I don't envy her very much when I see her going out early and coming back late every day.
She spends every day maintaining interpersonal relationships with these friends. She often goes out to attend various parties. At these parties, she always smiles, pushes a cup for a change with other people and plays some brain-burning games with them. Even in the dormitory, she has been holding a mobile phone. She wants to chat with those people and rack her brains to maintain their relationship. She also wants to play games with her various friends. /kloc-I hardly saw her sleeping before 0/2 o'clock.
Because she spends too much energy on interpersonal communication and has no other time to study. Her homework is always finished on the last night. She often does it all night. The quality of this kind of work is certainly not particularly high. I am also listless in class. I usually sleep on my stomach and my academic performance is not very good. Because of her poor grades, she also missed the opportunity to go to graduate school. She has always regretted that her circle of friends is too big.
Therefore, if the circle of friends is too large, you need to spend most of your time and energy on interpersonal communication, so that your work, study and communication will be unbalanced, and your work and study will even lag behind others.