Many kindergarten teachers are almost "afraid" of their parents. Because many parents don't play by the rules. In this way, how can we have a good chat?
What is the "correct way to open the class group"? What problems should be avoided in the process of using class groups? The class group's "what to do and what not to do" helps you answer!
Class group, let me almost become a "fine score"?
When parents are in a hurry, text messages drop.
"My son went to kindergarten for the first time and wanted to watch his live broadcast in the garden" and "My child left his family for a whole day for the first time, and I wonder if he cried at school …" Many new parents feel this way. In order to reduce parents' worries, many primary schools and kindergartens have opened parents' WeChat groups to communicate with each other. However, in addition to convenience, some WeChat groups frequently send hundreds of messages every day, which makes parents unbearable.
As soon as school started, Ms. Wu, who lives in downtown Zhangzhou, became nervous. Parents' WeChat group is very lively. When the mobile phone rings for a while, there are dozens or even hundreds of unread messages in a short time. "I'm afraid the teacher will inform me that something is lost, and I have to check it one by one. Really tired. "
Follow the trend and praise, in fact, I refused
Ma Qingqing (a pseudonym) said that a few days ago, a mother sent a WeChat in class, saying that her child came home and sang an English song she learned at school. This is really a surprise. Thanks to the teacher. After the teacher gave a thumbs up, it triggered a wave of collective praise. "The children in Class Three are all great", "The teacher is very hard" and "The children always say that they have learned a lot of new knowledge today when they come back" ... But Qingqing's mother said frankly: "I am actually quite entangled in watching parents follow suit. We are also very busy at work. We really don't have so many emotions to express, but if we don't follow the crowd, we will be too indifferent and unsociable. "
The class group has become an exposure platform, and parents' faces are going to hang up.
"Today, students in the class ate Chinese food, XX students poured the food, and everyone else ate it." "XXX talks with his deskmate in class." In Ms. Chang's QQ group chat record, the class teacher often leaves comments in the group, who pours the food and who plays with the ruler in class ... Ms. Chang said that she understands the teacher's good intentions, but a little mistake will be put in the class group for all parents to see, which makes the child very hurt. I hope that the teacher will inform parents and children privately, instead of publicly naming and criticizing them in the group.
It is difficult for teachers to move housework to the class group.
Recently, a large class in kindergarten complained to the teacher every day. Grandpa rushed to pick up the children every day, but he didn't communicate with the teacher, didn't help the teacher to send a message, and sheltered the children, which led to the children's poor performance in kindergarten recently, but the parents didn't know anything. Although he has communicated with grandpa many times, he still "goes his own way" and even fights with grandma to grab people from her early every day. Mother let the teacher get involved in this matter every day, and she can't let her go until grandma comes. Don't give the child to grandpa.
Class wechat group code makes your class group easy to manage.
What kind of parents are the most annoying in WeChat group?
1, please swipe the screen.
The teacher clockwork very important information, which was quickly blocked by useless chat, and the important information was submerged.
Second, the group quarrels.
Children have minor disputes at school, and parents are eager to protect their children and often fight with each other.
Type 3: like, vote, sell things.
Some parents keep up with the trend, from collecting gifts to canvassing for their children, they are all given to their parents.
Fourth, show off your wealth.
In addition to showing off your children's achievements, you should also take photos of various trips abroad.
Parents, we shouldn't do this:
1. Ask teachers and children n times a day in the class group for fear that children will have new "situations" at school.
2, a child, three generations have to join the class group, just because everyone wants to see a little change in the child.
3. From time to time, paste the small stickers your child has got, the homework you have finished, and the well-written words. Please praise them proudly, and most importantly, I hope the teacher will pay attention.
4. As soon as the teacher opened his mouth, he immediately responded: "You have worked hard, take care"; As soon as the teacher announced that he needed help, he was robbed immediately, and he was extremely anxious if he didn't get it.
5, praise, buy, vote ... The class group has become a "market", which is mixed.
6. If you say yes, I will say yes. You say no, I'll step on it. Dozens of people will reply to the same content, and soon an important message will be "submerged".
Parents, we should do this:
1, do a good job of self-regulation, believe in the child's adaptability and have confidence in the class teacher.
2, benign communication, forming a good group chat atmosphere.
3, the sunshine should be moderate, after all, the class group is a public communication platform.
4. Treat the class group rationally, only pay attention to the information related to yourself, and avoid blind praise.
Try not to talk too late in the group at night, so as not to affect others' rest. You can contact the teacher directly if you have something important.
Kindergarten teachers shouldn't do this!
1. Criticizing children by name in the class group will hurt their self-esteem and make parents feel uncomfortable.
2. Only the photos of good children are released at a time, and some parents will never see the photos of their children appear in the class group.
3, relying too much on the class group, children's daily movements should be posted to the class group for parents to read, but forget that face-to-face communication is actually the best communication.
4. "Raise money" in the class group, ranging from school supplies for children to prizes and costumes for performances. ...
5. Forwarding online information at will without textual research, causing unnecessary worries to parents.
6, "giving orders" style of speaking, after explaining the parents, let go.
Preschool teachers should do this:
1. Individual students can communicate with their parents alone if they have problems, and they can communicate with their parents in the class group if they have common problems.
2. When taking photos in the class group, we should pay attention to treat every student fairly, praise more and criticize less.
3. Try to add "no need to reply" or similar words after each notice to avoid the harassment of a lot of unnecessary information.
4. Pay attention to the way you speak and spread positive energy.
5. Be a guide in the class group, and learn to politely remind some content that is not suitable for publishing in the class group.
With this "class group code", we no longer have to worry about being disturbed by a lot of redundant information every day, and we no longer have to be kidnapped by such a small class group.
In the Internet age, class groups are indeed an important channel to strengthen communication at home. But now, how can this "stale" communication platform return to the right track and play its due role? Preschool teachers need to strengthen their own new media literacy, and parents should also think and judge independently and grasp the discretion.