There are always people complaining that others do not reply to them in time, or even do not reply at all. Regardless of the possibility that someone really does not want to pay attention to you, many times they really do not have time to reply to you.
Why do you use V-xin and QQ? Maintain relationships with relatives and friends or follow subscription accounts and service accounts for information? Or even socialize through Shake, People Nearby, etc.?
With the rapid development of mobile phones and other mobile devices, more and more people use V-Message and QQ as social tools. However, their original function is instant messaging. In the application market category, they are It is subdivided into chat tools, and most of the dating software under the social category are Momo, Tantan, and Blued. Weibo, Zhihu, QQ Space, etc. are divided into communities. If Moments has an independent client, I think it is possible. will also be placed here.
In my impression, Moments is like a more private QQ space. After all, only *** friends can see all interactive content. QQ Space has a client, but Moments does not. Sometimes I really hope to have an independent channel to post to friends, so as to avoid being criticized and blamed by others when they see that I have posted to Moments but failed to reply.
From this point of view, I prefer Weibo. To make an inappropriate metaphor, compare Weibo to another circle of friends, but the initiative lies with you. You can choose to follow or unfollow, or even classify the people you follow in detail, which is more comfortable than setting the permissions of the circle of friends. I logged out of the client after posting a Weibo post, and I didn’t have to think about whether I would be blamed for not replying to a private message at the same time.
Who said that since you have time to post on Moments, you have time to reply to messages? Yes, it’s okay to reply one or two times, but I can’t stand it when I encounter someone who can chat for an hour or two but can’t reply to the other party’s constant bombardment. There are also some people who just want to kill time by themselves, and send a message like “Are you there or what are you doing?” Well, I really don’t know how to reply.
I might be tired of doing homework, take a few minutes at work, or see something interesting and want to share it, or even record a short video, then put it aside and continue with the original post after sending it to Moments on my phone. I have done something, but you use this as an excuse to grab my pigtails and complain that you are not important to me and I don’t even reply to your messages. I am rude and even have a problem with my character.
Dear, what is the difference between this and the teacher finding out that you were playing with your phone for five minutes in class, and then he said that you had been playing for one class and wanted to confiscate your phone?
I don’t deny that I saw unread messages when I opened WeChat. I will reply to those particularly urgent messages. Even if we are not familiar with each other at all, I will tell the other party the answer directly. If I encounter a sentence or two, I will say no. It's clear, I will tell the other party that I am busy now and when will we discuss this matter again.
But there is no key point in "Are you there, have you eaten, what are you doing?" I really don't want to and don't know whether I should reply. Because this kind of news makes me feel that you come to me to kill your time, but I am not as idle as you. Since I can't enjoy the pleasure of having enough time with you, I'll simply reply later, or not reply at all.
I’m really afraid that if I reply you “I’m studying” and you say I’m showing off, then I’ll just roll my eyes and you’ll throw a lot of emoticons at me. Once the fight starts, it’s hard to imagine how to stop. Come on, if the party who terminates the conversation first is going to be blamed for being impolite, then it is better not to start it. Anyway, I will end up being an impolite person, so why should I waste so many seconds of my time by accommodating you.
Out of politeness, I basically reply to all the questions, and the time is relatively extended. Of course, there are also some who forget to reply, because I thought I had replied when I opened the dialog box. Say sorry. There is no need to say more about the key points when sending messages. If we are not so familiar that we can share breakfast and dinner, or post selfies to make each other laugh for a long time, I hope that every message you send me will be useful. of.
Maybe you are a polite person who is unwilling to communicate with others directly and uses roundabout ways to show off your high emotional intelligence. You may even want to gradually guide others to accept or adopt the information you want to express. But I'm not, I want to live a simple life.
Of course, if I reply to the emoticons you send me every time even though it is very late, you are really important to me. The establishment of any relationship is based on mutual understanding. You have the confidence to send me emoticons, and I am sure that I will not be blamed no matter how late I reply. This is the relationship I want. Although it is difficult, I will always find it.
In addition, if you have any complaints to say, it is probably not that you are not important to me, but that I am not important to you.
Would anyone always blame someone who is important to them? I don't know if you can, I don't. He has always been tolerant and understanding of the people he cares about and who are important to him. He will think about the problem from the other person's point of view immediately instead of complaining without reason.
If you insist on forcing me to be the kind of person you say, then so be it. Well, you are indeed not important to me. This is the whole reason why I have time to post on Moments but have no time to pay attention to you.
I guess I’m not the only one who has time to post on Moments but no time to reply.