Almost 90% of marriage relationships are attributed to long-term ineffective communication, each saying his own words. No matter how well-matched a couple is, they can't fully capture each other's thoughts. Don't be fooled by the 100% tacit understanding on the screen. If you want to be as happy as a couple on TV, you must make 200% efforts. If you want to improve your relationship with your husband, you should boldly tell the other person your annoying problems, your anxiety and needs.
In fact, it won't destroy your goodwill in the other person's heart, as long as you pay attention to the way you speak. For example, the sentence "I am very unhappy" makes the other person more willing to reflect and adjust than "you make me very unhappy".
2. Know how to listen to each other
Husband and wife are not only lovers, but also friends. You don't just ask for it, you also need to listen to each other's voices. When your husband talks to you, no matter right or wrong, listen first. Don't rehearse the rebuttal lines in your head. Maybe you should think more about why he thinks so. Your understanding and empathy may make you see a different husband and make your husband see that you are cuter.
3. Don't be stingy to express your love.
China people are deeply influenced by Confucianism, and they are all subtle, but in fact, expressing their love clearly helps to warm up their feelings. When you express your love to each other, you are actually telling them that you love them. A little more intimate behavior and some love agreements may be better.
4. Be good at sublimating leisure time.
There is no way to give each other more company on weekdays, so you must not go about your own business on holidays, which is extremely unfavorable to your feelings.
After starting a family, it's not enough to just put it there. People are social animals and need the company of their relatives.
Planning some activities and outings and spending happy time with your most important people can rekindle romance and remind you of why you fell in love in the first place.
If your marriage is in big trouble, consider taking a second honeymoon. Flirting with your partner at an unexpected moment will enhance his self-esteem and add icing on the cake to your romantic flame.
5. Constantly improve yourself
When repairing a broken relationship, the importance of self-improvement is self-evident, and secondary attraction is the most stable way to save the relationship. Many people will say, how can there be so much energy to improve themselves in marriage? In fact, because your life is completely occupied by your husband and children, you forget yourself. If you want to change a state, especially if you can't change the external environment, you should start by changing yourself. Reading, traveling, making friends, exercising ... when you are full of charm, is there any reason why your husband doesn't want to possess it? The important thing is that you don't have to worry about nothing but marriage.
Marriage management is a compulsory course for everyone's life. It is not difficult to save the marriage. As long as you have firm confidence and use the right methods, you can not only find yourself in the process of saving, but also gain better yourself and happiness!