Why do people have a low opinion of couples they know on social networks? Because the network is virtual, you don't know whether the person sitting on the other side of the network is male or female, tall or short, fat or thin, and you don't know which words he said are true or false. Everything can be fabricated, and everything has great uncertainty.
If you haven't met your wife, or had face-to-face contact, and don't know much about her, but you are husband and wife through the Internet, I don't think it's very reliable. Liars are everywhere, especially emotional liars.
It has been exposed on the Internet that many scammers cheat netizens' feelings with fabricated identities, and finally achieve the sinister purpose of cheating money. My own alumni have experienced it personally. He met a girl on the Internet. She has beautiful photos and is good at chatting. Soon, he ruined my alumnus, a college student with higher education, and his vigilance and vigilance were broken. So the two of them spent a sweet time online, and my husband and wife called her super sweet. The alumnus also spent a lot of money to buy her an Apple mobile phone, an Apple computer and a SLR camera, and spent 20,000 to 30,000 yuan inside and outside, which was very generous. I have never seen him before. When meeting him, the other party faltered, either caring about him or making excuses to shirk. Everyone said that he was cheated, but he refused to believe it.
Maybe he didn't doubt it, but he was sad about it and didn't want to face the reality that he was cheated. Needless to say, he was the victim of being cheated.
If you have met each other, got to know each other better, met each other's parents, visited her home, got to know her to some extent, and have deep feelings, then I think three years old is not a big age gap, and it is not unacceptable. Imagine French President Macron, who admired his teacher in middle school and his father forced him to transfer to another school. But he is a persistent and devoted person, inheriting the romantic feelings of the French. When he grew up, he resolutely married a teacher who was ten years older than him. Now his love career is a double harvest.
Female junior, holding the golden brick, the distance difference of three years old is not a problem. The real concern is her personality and whether she gets along with you.
Of course, we should not cling to the past, but the past is indeed an important reference for evaluating a person. If there is a prodigal son who doesn't change money, there will naturally be green hills that don't change! Knowing her past can not only help you know her better, but also avoid being cheated.
Everything will be fine when you are in love, but all the problems will be exposed after marriage, so whether two people's personalities and outlook on life and values are similar also determines whether your love can last long.
If she has no problem with her personality, is a woman who can live, is successful, has a mature plan for their future, has a topic that you can get along with, and the two people will not have serious differences in their views on one thing, and can understand and tolerate each other, then I think we can still go on.