My boyfriend and I live together. When we have nothing to do during the holidays, we invite friends to our house to play. After dinner, we chat and play for a while. When the time is about the same, my boyfriend sends his friends out.

My best friend was watching TV on the sofa. I looked at the time and it was almost 10 o'clock. I kindly reminded her that if she didn't take the subway, she would be gone. She said that she would wait until she finished watching the TV episode. Just go and find a hotel nearby. I was embarrassed to say it again, and because I was on holiday the next day and I was afraid of getting up late in the morning, I went out to buy something.

When I came back, it was almost 11 o'clock. I thought my boyfriend was also back. When I got home, I found that my boyfriend and my best friend were the only ones at home, so I asked her why she hadn't come back yet. When we got back, she said she wouldn't look for a hotel and would sleep with me at home because she was afraid it would be unsafe outside.

My house only has one bedroom. If my best friend and I sleep together, my boyfriend will have to sleep on the sofa.

I was also very tired at the time, and I had to clean up their leftover dishes and chopsticks on the table, and then I quickly took a shower and went to bed. I glanced at my boyfriend and told him that it was inconvenient for my best friend to stay alone at night, so I should let her stay here first. My boyfriend is also impatient and says that his back hurts when he sleeps on the sofa. Your bestie is not a child, so what are you afraid of living outside?

Later, my best friend stayed one night, because I have a really good relationship with my best friend. We met when we first worked. She is a few years younger than me. I often took care of her. We used to be together. She slept in the same bed, so I didn’t think much about it; then she came to stay at home several times one after another. My boyfriend and I didn’t sleep well because of this, and my boyfriend always slept on the sofa, which is our sofa. It's relatively soft and my waist hurts when I sleep on it.

I just feel very embarrassed. She always wears my slippers and pajamas. I am also quite mysophobic and don’t like other people’s smell on my clothes.

Although we had a very good relationship before, as if she were my biological sister, I don’t live alone. I also have my boyfriend, and she walks around the house wearing my pajamas. , it’s not good to be seen by your boyfriend. I can't always let my boyfriend sleep on the sofa.

It would be okay if it was just once in a while, but she has almost developed a habit and comes to my house to sleep more and more frequently. She said that she had just changed her job and was under a lot of pressure and could not sleep alone. I took her in for a few nights just because I thought it was not easy for a girl, and then she kept coming. I felt that after she came a few times, she could more or less feel the rejection in my heart.

I didn’t doubt what would happen to my boyfriend, but I just felt that it was very inconvenient most of the time. My boyfriend was also very unhappy and a little bit disgusted with her. If I hadn’t always said good things about my best friend, He will probably kick my best friend out.

My best friend and I have complementary personalities, so we have a really good relationship. When I met my current boyfriend, I also took my best friend with me. I hope she can help me act as a strategist and give me some advice. A sense of security. When he chases me, he will also contact me through my best friend.

Later, she broke up with her tall boyfriend, which was only about three months due to cheating in a long-distance relationship. Then she came to me crying. I was very angry when I heard that, and even called him. Scolding him: You are a bad man and a scumbag, stay away from her from now on, and get as far away as possible.

So after saying so much, I just want to say that I have never thought about guarding against my best friend before...

She was really pitiful when she fell out of love, and she stayed in bed. She didn't go out all day, so I asked her what she was doing. She was just listening to those sad love songs. I took off her earphones and said that the more she listened, the more uncomfortable she felt, and she would fall into a feeling of self-pity.

She shook her head and said nothing, ignoring what I said. Seeing her desperate look, I didn’t know what to do, so I asked her to go out for a walk to relax. She didn’t want to, so I downloaded a lot of dating apps on her phone and asked her to chat with others. I don’t know you, just talk to me more. Among them, she prefers Yue Ye APP, saying that the little brothers in it are very gentle and know how to take care of others.

I still remember the last time she had her period and had stomach discomfort. The three of us were shopping outside, and then I asked my boyfriend to take her home. I was alone in the milk tea shop waiting for my boyfriend to come back. The distance back and forth was only half an hour, but I waited for more than an hour. My boyfriend saw that I didn’t look good, so he tried to coax me in various ways, so my anger subsided. I really don’t know if I should consider guarding against my bestie. ……