Happiness at first sight can't always appear. In reality, it's more cruel. It's very unlikely that a man and a woman will look at each other from the beginning. However, with the gradual contact, I found that the other person's personality is very good in the process of getting along, and the three views are also close to myself. In this process, I gradually found that the two are quite suitable, so I gradually became dependent on him and became lovers. This process may be more in line with the process that most men and women know. Although love at first sight is happy, it is also a manifestation of deep affection over time.
when you were young, you wanted to find a girl who could make people look at you for thousands of years, but you didn't know until you searched hard for many years, so you may have been waiting for you for a long time. We may have no feelings for a boy around us at first, but when we get along further, you find that this is the most suitable person for us. Love at first sight needs fate and feeling, and love for a long time needs opportunity and running-in. If you want to be in love for a long time, don't miss these three methods. 1. If you have an average face value, you should show more personal charm in the process of communication < P > Some people may ask if the other party doesn't feel anything about me gradually, then does it mean that I have no hope in the future? In fact, the real scene is not like this. If you are personality problem, you will still be confident in your daily life. Remember that a large part of the reason for falling in love at first sight is that the other party looks like his own "dish", which can make the other party feel like first love at once. In fact, it takes time to verify whether the two are suitable or not.
Many people start from the happiness of love at first sight, but in the end they are forced to break up for various reasons, which is enough to show that love at first sight is changeable, and after all, there are still some practical problems waiting for you to deal with in life.
If you are average-looking, or you are not what the other person imagined, then you might as well show your personal charm in your communication. For example, if you are cheerful, you can show it confidently in the process, so that he can notice that although you are average-looking, you are kind-hearted and patient, and you are sincere and honest with your friends. Then I still have some chances to make him fall in love with you with the deepening of communication. 2. Don't refuse the opportunity to get close to him alone, be confident and believe in your charm
Many people leave as soon as they see that the other person doesn't feel anything for themselves, and they don't even want to express themselves when they give themselves a chance to show themselves. This is actually wrong and outrageous. For boys, if we don't feel anything for a girl at first sight, but we find that this girl is lively and generous in her relationship, especially her likes and dislikes are very consistent, and sometimes she is willing to touch it again.
I advise girls not to think that the boy you like ignores his love and you just abandon him. Sometimes love needs fate, but it also needs to constantly create an atmosphere. If you have a chance to be alone in a room, don't miss it. Have confidence in yourself. Even if you don't have a hot figure or an angel's face, everyone has some colorful advantages. Showing it at a critical moment can also bring many touches to boys.
For example, if the cooking skill is very good, you can invite him to sit at home, and unconsciously bring a few local specialties on the way to make sure that he can change himself again. All in all, we must be confident, and we should not begin to doubt our charm just because one denies it. 3. Don't refuse physical contact. Proper intimacy can gradually eliminate the rejection of the other party. < P > It may be that in many years of school or making friends, you had someone you didn't like at first, but later you became very good friends. At that time, it was almost impossible to play together, but you felt reluctant to part. Emotion is sometimes very subtle, and it will change your heart unconsciously. A person who was obviously disapproving before, I don't know when to live in your heart.
one of the most important factors of growing love over time is that you are close to the other side, and you have a natural advantage of "being close to the water, getting the moon first", which is also incomparable to some people who are far away. Sometimes being close means that you are likely to make him fall in love with you, especially when two people touch each other inadvertently, which will directly warm up the emotion between them.
When two unmarried men and women get closer physically because of a tryst, they can hear your encouragement, or get your relief when they are unhappy, then the true feelings are what he wants to grasp. In short, everyone likes to be accompanied when they are sad, and some people share their joy when they are happy, which is why foreign love is difficult to maintain.
Maybe after experiencing too many things together, you will find that the person next to you may be quite suitable for you. After all, no matter how beautiful others are outside, the person who will give you a shoulder when you are tired is only yourself. Have you ever been in love for a long time? Did you get together later? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to share your story and experience with everyone.