How to have a good "popularity"?
1. Be tolerant.
In interpersonal relationships, conflicts, grudges, and estrangements sometimes occur. The complexes are constantly cut and confused, so how should we deal with them? One way is to "enemies meet in a narrow road", and to hold grudges in one's heart; the other way is that it is better to resolve enemies than to make them - "when we meet, we will forget all the grudges with a smile". There is no doubt that when dealing with interpersonal relationships, the latter method is better. The attitude is commendable.
2. Be kind.
When dealing with interpersonal relationships, you cannot be harsh or petty. Don’t be envious or jealous when others have success; don’t gloat about others’ misfortunes, add insult to injury, and don’t “put on someone else’s shoes.”
3. Be humane when dealing with others.
Care about people, love people, respect people, and understand people. When people get along with each other, they should reduce the "smell of gunpowder" and increase the human touch.
4. Treat others with sincerity.
Honesty is the first virtue of human beings. You need to be honest, and you also need to be chivalrous, upright, and open-minded, making people feel like a spring breeze. Only in this way can you have good popularity.
5. If you want to be popular, you must be close to "good popularity".
When you choose friends and build a network of relationships, it is best to choose people who are well-liked. And the closer you can have a relationship with this kind of person, the better. Why?
First of all, everyone knows the truth of "when you are close to vermillion, you are red, and when you are close to ink, you are black";
Secondly, it will bring you many benefits:
< p>① A popular person must have many friends. If you become close friends with him, then his friends will naturally become your friends. This is a great way to quickly build or expand your network of contacts.② A "popular" person has many friends and a good mass base, and the greater his energy. Sometimes you will feel that it is better to find this kind of person to help with a task than to find other people. Much easier and much faster.