It doesn't matter if you don't have a face, you have to rely on your ability to eat
When you enter the workplace, especially in state enterprises or units, all kinds of complicated relationships are intertwined, and you will see some invisible or high-profile connections hanging around you
Most of the time, most people cling to it inexplicably, even regardless of seniority or age difference. I call them "brothers"
just because they are so-and-so led by so-and-so, but the relatives are also human beings, and if they are human beings, their personality will be flawed
I think everyone still likes to get along on an equal footing, and with the improvement of their quality, so are the relatives.
no one doesn't like others' flattery, but too much flattery will appear hypocritical, and no one likes hypocrisy.
how to get along with related households? What is the trick to get along?
The best and simplest way to get along with each other is to respect each other, but everyone's personality is different, and the quality of related households is also
different. For that small group of people, of course, they are interested in their own interests, but their attitude should never be too low, and they should never be too close or too far away. Think from each other's point of view
2. Birds of a feather flock together.
Nowadays, many related households are not as offensive as they thought.
Obviously, they can eat by relationships, but they have to rely on their strength.
Many people are unwilling to accept the arrangement at home and become related households. It seems that everyone looks at them with colored glasses.
Even the related households I know are working very hard. Because they all know very well that
the core of the relationship is his own
relationship is indeed a part of his ability, but it depends on how he uses it.
He won't use the relationship, at best, he will ensure that he has no worries about food and clothing, but he can use the relationship, and he can really make a successful career.
"The market doesn't believe in tears, and the workplace can't pour chicken soup"
No matter how big the relationship is, Even with the assistance of a famous minister like Zhuge Liang, Liu Adou is still lost. What's more, this ability-based society
If there are large-scale connections, you are good enough, and you will get along well. If there are no large-scale connections, what's the point of trying your best to get along?
"As long as you are strong, you can understand the rules, and you can also look down on the related households."
3. How does the poor Bai Ding surpass the related households
"The most terrible thing in the world is that people with connections and backgrounds who are very good work harder than you".
Ability is very important, but what is more important than ability is the way you conduct yourself.
Today's society is a society in which people compete for resources, and ability can only make you worry about food and clothing.
Don't make excuses for being idle, let alone make connections an excuse for not making progress.
"Making good use of contacts is also one of the most effective means for young people from poor backgrounds to get ahead."
I have repeatedly said before that a high EQ is just thinking from the other person's point of view. Speak your thoughts after thinking, so that you can listen.
The size of life pattern is the process of your cognition of things. Some abilities are born, or influenced by the small living environment, but most of the time they can be trained.
People who think that they have no talent are just making excuses for themselves, because most of the time they don't need them at all. More importantly, we should learn to make more friends. The important thing is to gain people's hearts. The core is to treat people sincerely and keep making progress.