The most beautiful thing in the world is to have a few friends who are upright in mind and heart.

Many times, some words are due to certain concerns, and relatives may not be able to fully share them, so high-quality friendship is often the best escort in our lives.

However, the human heart is a very complicated thing. We all know the preciousness of friendship, but we ignore the importance of maintaining friendship.

Have you ever had such an experience? You were good friends who talked about everything, but for some reason, you gradually became estranged and drifted apart, and finally parted ways.

Therefore, no matter how good the relationship is between friends, you should also pay attention to some unspoken rules. Getting along with people is often not a single choice, it is not about you or him, but multiple choices. Choice can be a win-win situation.

There are also unspoken rules for interactions between people. Understanding these ten ways to get along will help you get along better with your friends.

Cultivation: It is important to know a little about the world.

No matter how strong your relationship is, don’t forget etiquette.

Human relationships are fickle, and there are many cruelties in real life. To live well and make a name for yourself, you must understand a little about human relationships.

Friendships also involve a lot of etiquette. If completely ignored, friendship will be destroyed.

The etiquette when interacting with the other person in depth, especially when dealing with the other person's family, must be done with respect to the other person's family. Otherwise, the friendship will be inexplicably damaged without even realizing it.

Whether it is etiquette or sophistication, it is very important. This is not only a question of respect for others, but also reflects a person's cultivation and your moral character.

People who do not pay attention to the sophistication of others are prone to arrogance and arrogance. While hurting others, you will also end up hurting yourself.

Liu Bei, the Zhaolie Emperor of the Three Kingdoms, avenged his brother and despised the young scholar Lu Xun who was in charge. As a result, he was defeated by fire in Yiting, which ended tragically.

Integrity: Be careful when borrowing money or things.

Some people think that friends are indistinguishable from each other, and some people make friends widely, but turn friends into functions, so they often ask for services, borrow cars, and borrow money. In fact, these are purely functional The idea of ????changing people is very harmful to friendship. In other words, it's not really a friendship at all.

Friendships tend to become more difficult when money is involved.

If you borrow money from a friend, you must pay it back as early as possible within the agreed period. Reputation is the most basic rule of life. The relationship between people is maintained by the word "sincerity". If You broke the contract again and again. You destroyed not only your friendship, but also your reputation.

"Yu Ion" records a story of someone who lost his life due to breach of trust.

There was a businessman in Jiyang when his boat sank when he was crossing the river. He grabbed a hemp stalk and shouted for help.

A fisherman heard the sound and came. The businessman hurriedly shouted: "I am the richest man in Jiyang. If you can save me, I will give you 100 taels of gold."

After being rescued ashore, the businessman turned his back on his account. He only gave the fisherman 10 taels of gold. The fisherman blamed him for not keeping his word and going back on his word.

The rich man said: "As a fisherman, you have never made much money in your life. Are you not satisfied with suddenly getting ten taels of gold?" The fisherman had to leave in dismay.

Unexpectedly, the rich man capsized again in the same place.

Someone wanted to save him, and the fisherman who had been deceived by him said: "He is the one who doesn't keep his words!"

So the businessman drowned. It was accidental that the businessman capsized and met the same man twice, but the bad news for the businessman was to be expected.

Because if a person is not trustworthy, he will lose the trust of others.

Therefore, once he is in trouble, no one is willing to come to his rescue. Those who break their trust will have no choice but to sit back and wait for death if they are in trouble.

If two people are involved in buying or selling, it is even more important to make it clear in advance to avoid disagreements in the future and making it impossible for friends to become friends.

Business is not a matter of benevolence and righteousness. A deep friendship is often more important than business.

Humility: Don’t show off in front of your friends.

A big tree attracts the wind. If you have something to do, don’t show it off every day. Just know your own happiness. If you show it off, it’s vanity and showing off.

You bought a new car, you bought a new house, you made a new couple, try to avoid showing these things in front of your friends.

Everyone knows that it is not appropriate to show off their wealth in the circle of friends, and the same is true in front of friends.

You can share your joy in front of your friends, but if it goes too far, it means showing off.

If you make friends with a superior mentality, what you get will not be the envious eyes of the other party, but the distance between you and your friends.

Distance will not produce beauty, but estrangement.

Understanding: When dealing with things, you should treat the situation and not the person, and let the past be settled.

Conflicts will inevitably arise when friends get along. In addition to handling the scale, you should also try to be right about the situation and not the person.

Let the matter pass, don't hold grudges, don't pursue it, leaving room for others to turn around will also give yourself a broader sky.

When Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya were doing business together, Guan Zhong's family was poor and the capital he paid was not as much as Bao Shuya's, but he got more when it came to dividends.

Bao Shuya’s men were very unhappy and scolded Guan Zhong for being greedy.

But Bao Shuya explained: "Why is he greedy for this money? His family has a difficult life, and I deliberately gave it to him."

Guan Zhong did it three times Bao Shuya didn't think Guan Zhong had no talent, but he didn't meet anyone who appreciated him.

Guan Zhong once led his troops to fight. When he attacked, he hid behind him, but when he retreated, he ran at the front. All his soldiers looked down upon him, but Bao Shuya said: "Guan Zhong has an old mother at home who protects him." I am just serving my mother, so I am not really afraid."

After hearing this, Guan Zhong sighed: "You know me, Bao Zi!"

In the end, Guan Zhong became the generation that helped Qi to dominate. Prime Minister.

Respect: Avoid making comments about friends of friends.

No matter how stupid you think something a friend of a friend is doing, don’t judge it lightly.

Everyone has his own circle of friends and his own way of doing things. Appropriate silence is also a kind of respect for friendship.

A truly mature person will not easily judge the quality of others, let alone a friend of a friend.

There are no young or old people in a life-long friendship, so why should we first agree with each other when talking about friendship?

You have your choice, and your friends also have their friends' choices. You need to know how to respect other people's choices.

Whether it’s out of respect or out of kindness, you should remember that it’s better to say less.

Distance: Don’t spend too much time with your friend’s partner.

This is a very sensitive matter. Even if you can guarantee that you will not have any problems, you can guarantee that others will not have any thoughts about you.

Getting along with friends and being with friends’ partners may be just the plot of a TV show, but it’s better not to interact with each other alone.

Some people say "fire prevention, theft prevention, girlfriend prevention", although it has the connotation of acne, it is not unreasonable.

Just be yourself and stay in your own circle. Friends are friends, and distance must be maintained. This distance will not alienate you, but will maintain the friendship.

Friendship should be as pure as the morning fog, and friendship can only be consolidated with loyalty.

Peace of mind: If it’s not a treat, don’t let your friends foot the bill.

For casual dinner gatherings among friends, it is best to have an AA system. Maybe a meal or two is nothing, and it doesn't cost a lot of money, but it will inevitably make your friends uncomfortable.

You only want to have peace of mind when dealing with others. If you often ask your friends to settle the bill, it will inevitably make others think that you are a person who likes to take advantage of you, and you will not feel at ease in your heart.

Be honest: Sometimes the truth hurts, don’t be afraid to tell the truth.

Even if the truth sometimes hurts a friend, honesty is the foundation of a strong friendship.

Don’t be ashamed to admit your mistakes, face the mistakes you have made, ask for forgiveness from your friends, and be candid in dealing with them.

"When you see good things, move on, and when you make mistakes, you correct them." This is the teaching of our ancestors, and it is something we should always keep in mind. People will inevitably make mistakes, and some people choose to face them, while others People choose to hide.

What can be hidden for a while can never be hidden forever. If you don’t tell your friends frankly, when the truth comes out, how can you maintain your friendship?

Since your friend has chosen you as a friend, he will definitely accept your shortcomings and faults, and accept the reality calmly, which is more magnanimous than racking your brains to whitewash it.

Gentleness: Even if you are a good friend, don’t use too harsh words.

Not everyone will accept harsh advice.

Many people always misunderstand that the harsh words you say to your friends are out of concern for your friends and for the sake of the other person. Why can’t the other person understand?

Many people always misunderstand that they are careless by nature, and shouldn’t friends be outspoken and take pleasure in hurting each other?

Friend, if you think this way, you are really wrong. Don’t use "loyalty may be offensive" as an excuse. To others, it will sound mean.

There is no need to be secretive between friends, the only thing left is how to express it.

A mean person will inevitably leave others with prickly misunderstandings, but a kind-hearted person will be easier to get along with.

The problem lies with your friends, and how to remind your friends is your choice. For a kind-hearted person, the ending will not be too bad.

Gratitude: Think from others’ perspective and know how to be grateful.

The world is always wonderful for people who know how to be grateful. People who know how to be grateful always see the beauty of others and are more understanding and tolerant of others.

Therefore, you must remember your friends' kindness and help to you, and repay kindness with drops of water, and kindness and love will flow between each other.

When a friend refuses your request, you should put yourself in others' shoes, be considerate of others' difficulties, and empathize with others.

Only by practicing and cherishing can we have a beautiful friendship.