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Beware of villains:
1. It is not advisable to be close to villains and far away from gentlemen, or to be close to gentlemen and far away from villains. Colleagues must have a certain standard in getting along with each other. Don't be too close, leak privacy, and avoid Villains hurt you for their own gain.
2. If you offend the villain, be careful of being framed by the villain;
3. If the matter is directly or indirectly related to the interests of the villain, you must also be careful of the villain. People framed. Especially the vicious villain, he will frame and implicate the important things around you. The villain is good at using the important people around you to take revenge and frame you, and even cause you to die. So be careful of the villain's tricks. Because in the face of self-interest, villains have no concept of being a human being.
4. Your various passwords (such as computer passwords) must be kept absolutely confidential.
5. If you are "harmed", you should seize the opportunity to prove your innocence and do not just tolerate it to prevent being framed by the villain again.
6. Observe more people and things around you, and try to nip problems in the bud.
7. Don’t tell others your private matters, lest villains get hold of your "handle" and blackmail you.
How to have sex with someone who hides his secret in his smile?
It is not difficult to deal with such colleagues who smile but hide their knives. On the surface, you maintain a friendly relationship with him, but secretly you have to guard against him. All official decisions and reports related to him must be held at a meeting and relevant people must be invited. Attendance; all other official information will be avoided. At the same time, interactions with him are limited to official matters. Personal privacy and even other colleagues' rights and wrongs will be kept secret. As long as everything is reserved, he will not be able to attack you. !
How to love someone who stirs up dissension?
As for those who love to sow discord, the best way is to keep a distance from them outside of working hours, and remember to be cautious in your words and deeds to avoid any "sore feet" for them to grab. If possible, you can Together with other colleagues, he was isolated and made weak.
What should you do if you encounter a troublesome colleague?
This kind of people are prone to trouble, often get angry over something, and make small things bigger. When encountering such things or discussions that have nothing to do with you, do not offer opinions or make rash judgments; if the incident is related to you It is also advisable to keep a low profile, and all official documents must comply with formalities. If you want to report, report the incident in black and white to your superior, and let him decide whether it is right or wrong. Of course, don’t forget to maintain your demeanor. Afterwards, Silence should also be maintained.
Beware of small-minded people - narrow-minded people who love to hold grudges
Small-minded people cannot tolerate things. They will keep the smallest things in their hearts, and even hold grudges for a long time until there is something wrong. One day he finally has a chance to retaliate against you, and you still don’t know why you offended him. Small-minded people are very jealous and don’t see others as better than themselves. Moreover, the more good friends you have and the more colleagues you have contact with, the less he wants you to mess around. Well done, well done. Small-minded people like to haggle over everything. They will either argue with you about everything, or they are always sulky and idle. Small-minded people are like glass men, which break when touched. Beware. There is only one good trick for such people: keep a distance.
The following is what I have painstakingly summarized after reading a book. I hope it will be helpful to you.
I have to. 14 types of people to guard against
Both-faced
This kind of people tend to follow the crowd, bully the weak and fear the hard, are snobbish, and only seek profit. Their way of dealing with others is one word: profit. They can betray their conscience for the sake of "profit". They may treat you well today, but they may kill you for the sake of "profit" tomorrow.
This kind of people will do anything to win "profit", flatter others, be selfish, take advantage of others, be dishonest, sow discord (especially by belittling others is the most abhorrent.) and so on. . .
Don’t have any interests or relationships with this kind of person, lest he come to you for trouble.
When you are framed, you should treat the villain in his own way and expose the villain's face and behavior in person, so that he will not dare to harm others again.
Remember, you can hate the behavior of villains, but you should never hate others. When you oppose their villainous ways, you must not hurt their self-esteem.
The Braggart
The nature of the Braggart is to brag and lie.
But in real life, they are far from what he says. They like a vain and luxurious life, but they are often teased by smart people.
To judge the liar's tactics, you can observe his mouth. When people lie, most of them will feel that their lips and throat are dry, so they often use their tongue to fill their lips and swallow hard. You can also observe his hands and feet. When a person feels uneasy about lying, he will tap his fingers on the table or the armrest of the chair. The same goes for tapping your feet on the ground. You can also observe the eyes. When your friend is lying, his eyes often dare not meet yours, which is the strongest hint. In addition, liars often unintentionally pull wrinkles on clothes that do not exist, or flick dust that does not exist. This avoids eye contact with the other person and the liar is constantly adjusting their tie or necklace. This action can only indicate that the other person is mentally uneasy. In addition, it is also important to observe the legs. When a person is lying, the legs are constantly raised and separated, separated and raised again, so as to relieve the uneasiness in the heart.
When dealing with such people, we only listen to their stories. We must not believe them to avoid being deceived.
Unlocked mouth
A person with unlocked mouth is like a little radio, and he also likes to visit the house, and at the same time broadcast the so-called gossip, secrets and privacy. Otherwise, the East family is normal and the West family is short. You should be cautious about this kind of person, because even if he is not a "bad person", he will mess up a lot of things because of his mouth.
People who are open-mouthed like to spread rumors, slander, spread private information, gossip, gossip, slander others, and betray friends. . . . . .
When dealing with such a person, we should not tell him our privacy or psychological truth. Leave no clues.
When this kind of person judges others in front of you, don't nod your head in agreement, otherwise you are likely to be involved in right and wrong. It's best to smile and take it calmly.
Don’t interact too much, otherwise you will hear words about yourself and sow discord from such people. At this time, you need to keep a cool head and suppress the anger in your heart. You can answer like this: "Ah, really? Thank you for telling me this news. Don't worry, I won't care." Let the other party have no holes to exploit. Don't just listen to or believe this kind of people.
If you are framed by such a person and cannot clarify the facts, you should clarify the facts to the third party as soon as possible, confront the perpetrator in public, make the whole story public, and expose his face.
It is best not to associate with such people. Ignore them, and don't confide in them.
Random promises
People who make free promises can proactively promise to do anything for you, but never deliver. Such people cannot get things done, but will make mistakes.
The obvious characteristics of this kind of person are inconsistency between words and deeds, betrayal of trust, unrighteousness for profit, and lack of sense of responsibility.
Be careful with this kind of person, never believe in his promises, and don’t have too high expectations for him, otherwise you will be disappointed. Especially not entrusting him with important things.
Wolf-hearted and dog-lunged people
People with wolf-hearted and dog-like lungs are treacherous, unjust, ungrateful, unkind, unfaithful and unjust, and only seek profit. This kind of person is impersonal. On the surface, he is very friendly with you, but one day he may suddenly fall out with you for profit. In their eyes, it doesn't matter if their conscience is lost, but they can't bear if their money is lost. This kind of person is full of tricks and tricks, so beware of this kind of person at every turn.
There are no friends in the shopping mall and no brothers in the workplace. Even friends who don't know each other very well can cheat.
This kind of person is profit-centered, jealous, unscrupulous, scheming, unfaithful, unjust, and sinister.
For such people, you should show weakness skillfully and hide your edge. Especially when you have good things going on, don't get carried away. You should be modest and prudent, not arrogant; deal with it calmly and calmly and generously.
The Masked Man
The Masked Man is a very sophisticated person. They always hide themselves deeply, not letting him know their past, family, classmates, or their opinions on certain things.
This kind of person is dull, unsociable, sometimes very insidious, and it is difficult to get along with this kind of person.
Duplicity
Duplicity has a sweet mouth and is good at compliments. It will coax you all over and make people feel unprepared for them, but it is often you who fall in love with him as soon as you are intoxicated. Of course.
This kind of person is good at complimenting, bullying others, and sowing dissension.
You must be vigilant when dealing with such people, keep an appropriate distance from them, and reduce your interactions so that you can have the opportunity to observe them carefully.
The lecherous ghost
The lecherous ghost cannot lift his legs when he sees a beautiful woman and forgets who he is. It's understandable to be lustful when you're young, but you're still lustful when you get married. Such people are bound to be unable to concentrate on their career, and will often miss work due to lust.
For this kind of person, keep a distance from him to avoid unnecessary involvement.
Smiling Tiger
This kind of person seems to have no temper, he is a nice person, he never fights back or scolds, he always greets them with a smile. But this kind of person is likely to be a person who has a sweet sword in his mouth and a sword in his smile.
You should be cautious with this kind of person. Do not tell him your inner secrets, let alone discuss private matters with him.
Alcoholic
Drunkards are unable to control their human shortcomings and often make mistakes.
Stay away from such people, no matter how good they are, they will harm you one day.
The disobedient son
The disobedient son behaves badly and perversely, without family affection or morality. Such people are extremely selfish and use any means to achieve their goals. They are accustomed to burning bridges and adding insult to injury.
You have to make a clean break with such a person, because he can even abandon his parents and even abuse them, let alone others.
The housekeeper
The housekeeper likes to be nosy, gives orders, loves to be critical, and takes care of everything.
Keep a distance from such people because it is difficult to be friends with such people.
Unreasonable reasoning
The characteristic of a person who is unreasonable is that he has a tough mouth. It’s not that he usually speaks harshly, but that he refuses to admit his mistakes, and the facts are obvious. In front of him, he still wanted to argue forcefully and unreasonably. The issue is very one-sided. And such people will not be brave enough to make mistakes. It's very painful to deal with such people.
With such unreasonable people, we do not have to conflict with them, and we cannot treat each other rudely. Otherwise it will cause a lot of trouble. Never oppose others easily, no matter how small it is.
If it is someone close to you, you can bring it up tactfully and calmly explain to him that you feel his hurt. If he continues to embarrass you, you can further express to him that you will lose your trust in him, but your attitude should still be calm and don't go too far, lest he won't listen and the result will be counterproductive.
If it is your boss, you must turn to him in a roundabout way to make suggestions, not opinions, or give inspiration and inspiration.
If it is someone else, it is best not to argue with him. Stay away.
Gambler
Gambler just likes to go to the card table. As soon as the cards are played, the sky becomes dark and the earth becomes dark, and he does not know how to get off the table.
You should have reservations about people who are known as gamblers, otherwise, one day they will borrow money from you and miss your important event.
A person lives a lifetime, half drunk, half awake and half floating. If you like someone, you should try to express your feelings in such sentences. Do you know any