1 Positive:
The rich and colorful university life gives college students a wider space for activities in addition to classroom study, and various social activities are frequent. Along with this comes a discussion of the pros and cons of extensive socializing. Before discussing with the opposing debate partner, let us first clarify a few concepts together. The so-called extensive socialization means that after completing the classroom learning tasks, actively participate in various social activities and expand the scope of communication as much as possible. Pros are advantages, disadvantages are disadvantages, and the comparison between advantages and disadvantages is to see which one is more mainstream and which one has greater influence. We believe that the advantages of extensive social interaction among college students outweigh the disadvantages. We will demonstrate this from the following three aspects:
First of all, university education is different from high school education, and the advantages and disadvantages cannot be judged simply based on subject performance. University is the transitional stage for students from campus to society, and university education is to prepare students for their future life development. It focuses on the improvement of comprehensive abilities rather than just the accumulation of knowledge. Therefore, the evaluation of pros and cons cannot only be based on pure subject performance, but should be evaluated based on the improvement of comprehensive abilities, the ability to cope with emergencies, and whether it is beneficial to future development.
Secondly, social skills are an extremely important part of university education, which is related to students' future development. Social ability is an important part of comprehensive ability. The level of social ability has a great impact on college students' future participation in society. The most direct and important way to cultivate social skills is students' practice, that is, extensive participation in various social activities. Therefore, extensive social interaction among college students not only cultivates their social skills, but also accumulates benefits for their own development. Therefore, the benefits of extensive socialization outweigh the disadvantages.
Again, extensive socialization does not mean unlimited socialization. What we call extensive socialization means that after completing the classroom learning tasks, we actively participate in various social activities and expand the scope of communication as much as possible. It does not mean that you should completely abandon classroom study and use all or most of your energy on social activities, that is, excessive socializing. There is an essential difference between the two. Extensive social interaction has a positive effect on the cultivation of college students' abilities and their future development.
To sum up, we believe that the extensive socialization of college students plays a positive role in terms of the nature of university education, the evaluation standards of university education, and the development of college students themselves. Therefore, we believe that the advantages of extensive social interaction among college students outweigh the disadvantages.
2 Opposition:
The richness and variety of university life gives college students a wider space for activities in addition to classroom study, and various social activities are frequent. Along with this comes a discussion of the pros and cons of extensive socializing. Before discussing with the opposing debater, let us first clarify a few concepts together. The so-called college students are students who are continuing their studies in universities. And socializing refers to social interaction activities, and extensive refers to many and wide, so extensive socializing means participating in many and wide social interaction activities. Advantages refer to the benefits to students' development, while disadvantages refer to the adverse effects on students' development. As for the extensive socialization of college students, we think it will do more harm than good. We will make the argument from the following three aspects:
First of all, college students are students first, and as students, the most important thing is to study. Although learning also involves many aspects, the most basic one is the accumulation of classroom knowledge. The cultivation and improvement of various abilities are also based on the accumulation of knowledge. If the cultivation of abilities through extensive social interaction is overemphasized and the accumulation of basic knowledge is ignored, the foundation for the existence of various abilities and knowledge will be broken. Without basic ability training and various affairs, it is like water without a source and a tree without roots, which cannot achieve the desired results.
Secondly, people’s energy is limited. If too much is used for socializing, it will definitely affect learning, making the grasp of knowledge unstable, and the gain outweighs the loss. Human energy is like a piece of cake, the total amount is fixed and limited. People have to spend a certain amount of energy to do anything, because the total amount is fixed, so once people spend too much energy on one thing, the energy invested in other things will inevitably decrease. To achieve extensive socialization, you must invest a lot of energy and time, which will inevitably reduce the energy invested in knowledge learning. Without the guarantee of time and energy, the effect of learning will inevitably be affected, making the grasp of knowledge weak, thus shaking the foundation of everything, and the gain outweighs the loss.
Thirdly, without excellent knowledge accumulation, no matter how good social skills are, it cannot make up for it, but the lack of social skills can be made up for by excellent knowledge. Excellent knowledge is the foundation and most essential condition for people's development, while social skills are an auxiliary condition. On the basis of excellent knowledge, it is indeed beneficial to the development of college students if they have good social skills. But if the two cannot *exist, the first thing to master is knowledge. Because knowledge is the foundation for college students to succeed in their future development, and it is the most essential and powerful weapon to solve problems. The lack of social skills can be made up for by excellent knowledge. This is reflected in many scientists. However, without the support of knowledge, relying solely on good social skills cannot achieve the goal.
To sum up, we believe that the foundation and prerequisite for the development of college students is the accumulation of knowledge, and extensive social activities will affect the mastery of knowledge, that is, shake the foundation of college students’ development. Therefore, we believe that college students generally Socializing can do more harm than good.
I support the positive side: the advantages of extensive social interaction among college students outweigh the disadvantages! First of all, the extensive socialization we are talking about is not promiscuity, it is based on certain choices; secondly, college students have gradually developed strong book learning abilities before going to college. After they get to college, they have to learn more than just The knowledge in books is more about combining the knowledge in books with reality. This is not enough. We must also take the initiative to contact the society outside the school to learn knowledge that cannot be learned from books in the protective environment of school and family. And the knowledge we are talking about now includes not only book knowledge, but also various abilities. If we want to exercise our abilities in all aspects, it is obviously based on extensive social interaction. Also, although we will encounter some bad things in extensive social interactions, just like we may choke when eating, we cannot stop socializing extensively because of these bad things!
I think the advantages outweigh the disadvantages! We have been learning knowledge in school before, but what we learned were very rigid rules and regulations! But times are different now. The knowledge we have learned for more than ten years may have been eliminated by society when we leave school! I support students to actively participate in social interactions while studying! This is not only to strengthen your own communication skills, but also to integrate into society step by step!
After all, we are all social beings, and no one will become an outstanding person without group interaction!
As for the advantages and disadvantages of extensive social interaction, I think what our college students pursue is meaningful, selective and moderate social interaction:
First, only by recognizing the disadvantages of extensive social interaction can we face up to it. Social life of college students. Taking off the rose-colored glasses, today on campus, "everyone has his own way of dressing and wearing hats, smoking and drinking in his own way, eating high-end, dressing fashionably, having enough fun, and using famous brands. This kind of scene can be found everywhere. Some college students go to restaurants, go to dance clubs, visit scenic spots, have spring outings, autumn outings, celebrate birthdays, and meet friends. There are many and varied things, and they have achieved true "extensiveness"! Ignoring my own time and financial foundation, I am exhausted just to maintain a social network. It can be said that college students are not yet clear about the meaning and purpose of social interaction, their thinking is not mature enough, and they do not have the ability to socialize extensively. Conditions. We all eat one bite at a time, and the same goes for socializing. If college students don’t control their social interactions, they will definitely be stuck in their throats. Even if they are lucky enough to swallow, it will probably be indigestion, which will be accompanied by a flushing toilet sooner or later. With a loud noise, we are farewell. There must be a measure of caution in everything. It is not too early for college students to socialize widely. Extensive socialization will only bring unimaginable consequences.
Second, Only by recognizing the disadvantages of extensive social interaction can we college students choose a path of growth that is more suitable for us. Especially for freshmen, who are not deeply involved in the world and unfamiliar with the situation, we need to combine our own abilities, personality, and characteristics, use our strengths and avoid weaknesses, and develop a plan that suits us. Our development plan is based on a more practical basis. Our life is like a tree, and knowledge is the root. The solid foundation ensures that it stands between heaven and earth without falling; social interaction is like the branches and leaves. , extending upward and outward, if the tree blindly branches out and spreads its leaves as it grows, it does appear to be lush and prosperous (the so-called "widespread"), but in fact it has laid a hidden danger for itself to be blown down by strong winds one day. .
Acquiring knowledge and cultivating learning ability are the most beneficial weapons for college students' future development. Only by letting us show our talents without fear of strong winds and waves after leaving campus can we turn the tide, support the building before it falls, and let our branches and leaves Open it more "broadly and broadly".
University is a place full of talents, stimulating competition and intense learning. It is also a place where we can get in touch with society and learn to socialize. The social interaction of college students also presents a situation where the purposes are diversified, the methods are gradually changing, and there are many difficult factors. In the chaotic and noisy environment, we must analyze calmly. In order not to bring unnecessary trouble to ourselves and irreparable regrets in the future, students, remember to socialize widely and embark on a path of no return. road. Today we are heading towards the 21st century together. The times have given us opportunities and challenges. We must cherish every minute and every second now and not spend them on meaningless extensive socialization.
The night gave me black eyes, but I have to use them to find light. The disadvantages of extensive social interaction allow us to fully understand the primary task of our college students and improve our understanding of social interaction.
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There are still many difficulties: lack of time and energy, unable to find a suitable partner
New communication methods are booming, and interpersonal communication is getting closer and closer. As a member of society, what is the social situation of college students? What are the changes, needs and problems faced? The Youth League Committee of Fudan University in Shanghai recently conducted a survey on campus that combined questionnaires and interviews. The results showed some new changes in social interactions and interpersonal interactions among contemporary college students.
Diversified social purposes -
“Make more friends and enrich college life.” More than half of college students chose this traditional answer when answering their social purpose. However, researchers found that with changes in society, college students are becoming more "rational" in their social purposes. 18% of students regard "conducive to future career development" as the primary purpose of socializing, and 30% of students believe that socializing is "to exercise their social skills."
In addition, by comparing grades and departments, researchers found that junior students mostly aim to enrich their college life, while senior students are more inclined to seek opportunities that are beneficial to their future career development. social resources.
The way of socializing is gradually changing——
About 50% of the respondents believe that the most effective and realistic way of socializing is dormitory-centered socializing. Among the other half of the students, "social work" and "emerging online social networking sites such as BBS and QQ" accounted for 26% and 18% respectively, which was much higher than the "small circle dominated by good friends" at 6%. Type” traditional way.
The researchers believe that this result reflects the change in college students' concepts of communication. Most students no longer have a narrow concept of making friends, and instead pursue the establishment of broader and more diverse interpersonal relationships.
Although emerging social networking methods such as BBS and QQ are gradually being accepted by college students and penetrating into their lives, the role of emerging social networking is not favored by students. In this survey, only 8% of students chose BBS and QQ as their first choice for social networking, and 52% of the respondents believed that online social networking is just a pastime and will not become mainstream. The researchers learned that emerging online social networking is mainly for students to seek a role change in order to relieve the pressure of real life, seek relief or satisfy curiosity. However, due to the virtual nature of online social networking, the degree of reliability is not high. Therefore, students lack real emotional communication during the communication process, and the level of communication is too superficial. During the survey, many students interviewed said: "Online communication never feels as friendly and real as face-to-face communication." Therefore, although online social networking is booming, most people still think that it has more recreational functions than practical significance. .
There are many factors for social difficulties -
Lack of time and energy, unable to find a suitable partner, introverted personality, financial difficulties... Research shows that college students have many social difficulties. factor.
41% of students believe that lack of time and energy is the main reason for college students’ social difficulties. What caught the attention of the researchers was that another 28% of students believed that the main reason was "cannot find a suitable partner."
It is understood that "wide but not deep" and "increased awareness of prevention" have become a phenomenon in students' social interaction. There are many social circles among college students, but many students interviewed believe that this kind of communication is often only broad but not deep. There are more "nodding acquaintances" and "relational friends", but true good friends are difficult to find. At the same time, because most college students today are only children and have a strong sense of self-protection, they are usually more cautious when interacting with classmates. In addition, the survey also found that many students do not rate their social skills highly. One student interviewed said, “I like making friends, but I just don’t know how to make friends well.”
Fudan University Youth League Committee believes that college students come from a wide range of sources, with significant differences in living habits, cultural backgrounds, and regions. In addition, students’ self-awareness and awareness of private space have strengthened, making college students face many difficulties in social interactions. Guidance is also needed on how to enrich students' social knowledge and improve social arts.