Enfj's self-worth comes from helping others. When they help you when you are in trouble, I hope you can sincerely thank them for their help. If you don't do this, they will have a sense of impaired self-worth and become indifferent to you.

They all have grand and beautiful wishes for the world and expect the world to be harmonious. From this, a series of great morals have been derived. If you agree with their views, they will take you as their own side, because you are on the same side.

Matters needing attention in making friends with enfj

If you really need ENFJ's help, you can accept one third. Just because Enfj tells you to be honest, don't lie doesn't mean they will be honest with you, don't lie! The most important thing to get along with enfj is honesty. Even if you are selfish, even if you have evil thoughts, if you want to establish a close relationship with enfj, don't try to cheat him when facing enfj.

Enfj will not despise you because you have bad or dark ideas. Their high degree of empathy will understand you and thank you for telling them what you really think. Their most disgusting people use them as guns.