So, how to make new friends quickly after arriving in a strange city?
After graduation, I worked in two strange cities. In these four years, I have made many new friends, and even a few girlfriends I can talk to.
Now, I will tell you three small ways to make new friends quickly. I hope it works for you.
Some people say it's too difficult to meet new friends in a strange city. I can't catch a cute girl on the street and ask, sister, how about making friends and having dinner together?
Personally recommend QQ group. You can delete the group you want to join according to the city and personal hobbies, or you can delete the group according to keywords.
Wechat community is also a good choice. The advantage is that you can meet more people with the same hobbies. The disadvantage is that there may be fewer people in the same city. If you can't keep studying or actively participate in group activities and exchanges, this group is meaningless to you.
Joining a group doesn't necessarily mean that you can make friends, but it means that bad people may become friends in your address book through group chat.
What we need to do at this time is to actively participate in offline activities and online communication within the group. Online communication can deepen others' impression of you, and offline activities can get to know real people and get in close contact.
It is worth mentioning that if you participate in offline activities, it is best to organize them by group owners or administrators.
Although I personally became best friends with a girl through a private appointment, I still don't recommend meeting group members in private.
Bad people on the internet often wear hypocritical masks. Don't be lucky enough to make an appointment or accept an invitation from others without being familiar with them.
A good group, the number of participants in an offline activity is basically not less than 10, and the number of people who often speak online is not less than 20. Can we make friends with all these people?
The answer is of course no, our time and energy are not allowed.
It is a very important question whether the three views are consistent when friends get along. Let's lengthen the timeline, get to know more about it, and then decide who to make friends with.
It's better to talk to one person for one night than to mix with ten people.
Don't be in a hurry to make friends, but walk with people with the same view.
To sum up, there are three steps to making new friends: casting a net in a large area, tail fishing and careful selection.