Friendship in Jin Lan: Friendly and close friends like brothers.
A friend in need: a friend in need.
Forget the turn of the year: friends of different generations and ages.
Friends of the opposite sex who grew up together.
Cloth friend: a friend who associates as a civilian.
A friend in need: a friend formed in adversity
therefore ...
You have a wizard, and I am not poor. -(Qing) Zheng Banqiao
Know yourself in the sea, and heaven is still our neighbor. —— (Tang)
We were all unhappy until the end of the day, when we met. We understand. What is the relationship between acquaintances? . -(Tang) Bai Juyi
Mochow has a vast road ahead, and everyone knows you. -(Tang) Gao Shi
There are no happy friends and no happy friends in the world. -(Qing) Pu Songling
Know each other, know each other, know each other, know each other. -(Spring and Autumn Period) Mencius
A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, but a friendship between villains is as bitter as cucumber. -(Warring States) Zhuangzi
If you live with the lame, you will learn to limp. -(Western Jin Dynasty) Fu Xuan
Life is a matter of life, so why use gold and money? -(Tang) Li Bai
Make friends and keep your word. -(Spring and Autumn) Midsummer
Never forget the friendship between cloth and clothes. -(Tang) li yanshou
Gentlemen and gentlemen take Tao as their friends, and villains and villains take fun as their friends. —— (Song) Ouyang Xiu
Life is about getting to know each other. -(Song) Wang Anshi
The enemy should reconcile, not reconcile, and turn around. -(Ming) Feng Menglong
Heroes in adversity. -(Qing) Wei Xi
Two thousand gold is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find. -(Qing) Cao Xueqin
For my heart, for your heart, we will know each other and remember each other deeply. -(Song) Gu Xia
Zhong Ziqi died, and Boya never played the piano again. Han Shu
The mountains and rivers are not heavy enough. It is important to know yourself. -Bao Rong
Be a gentleman and a hero in the world. Shu Shu and Liu Ba in Romance of the Three Kingdoms.
A gentleman does not slander when he makes it, and he does not blaspheme when he makes it. -Zhouyi
If you know that all the seas are brothers, where can you meet an old friend? -Chen
Friends, those honest people. -(Song) Zhu
Clothes are not as good as new ones, and people are not as good as old ones. -Han Yuefu
Concentric and economical, consistent. —— (Song) Ouyang Xiu
Once you die, you know your friendship. Poverty and wealth are a state of knowing each other. One is expensive and the other is cheap, and friendship can be seen. -Historical records
I got drunk without saying anything, and I won't have another drink. -(Jin) Tao Yuanming
There is no distinction between old and young in life. Why should we get along first? -(Tang) Du Fu
Soul mates, not face to face, from now on. -(Tang) Bai Juyi
Making friends in life begins and ends, not for ups and downs. -(Tang) Helan
Have fun today, and don't forget each other in the future. -(Three Kingdoms) Cao Zhi
Friends in the world, know yourself and know yourself. -(Ming) Feng Menglong
Teenagers know each other happily, but miss their old friends at dusk. -(Tang) Han Yu
One is expensive and the other is cheap. -(Tang) Luo
It is no good getting to know each other in an emergency. -(Tang) Li Bai
Throw it out with papaya and hold it with Qiong Yao. It is always good to repay bandits. -The Book of Songs
The most important thing in life is to know yourself. We are all flesh and blood in the whole world. -Yanmen
Friendly friends never tire, but close friends speculate. -(Ming) Feng Menglong
If two people are connected, their sharpness can cut metal. -"hey. Cohesion "
Baby, it makes a harsh sound and asks for its friendly voice. -The Book of Songs. Xiaoya
Happy, happy, new friend -(Warring States) Qu Yuan
Friends in trouble. -"Han Zhuge Feng Biography".
People who have affairs are not our kind. -(Tang) Meng Haoran
My friend is eager to think. -The Analects of Confucius. Luz
Courtesy is reciprocated. -Book of Rites. Qu Li
A gentleman makes friends with words, and helps others with kindness. -The Analects of Confucius and Yan Yuan
Pay with money, pay with money; People who pay with color fall in love with Chongqing. -Warring States policy
The luxury of pine and cypress can only be known when the husband's frost and snow fall. -"Huainanzi"
Those who combine strength are exhausted. -Historical records
A man knows his companion in a long journey and an inn. -"Selected Songs of Yuan Dynasty". Try to be grateful. "
Knowing each other far and near, Wan Li is still a neighbor. -(Tang) Zhang Jiuling
Just met a smile, and sending turned into sobbing. —— (Tang) Wang Wei
Even if the Peach Blossom Pond is deep, it is not as deep as Wang Lun's sending away my love. -(Tang) Li Bai
Old friends are closer. -(Tang) Du Fu
Although there are brothers, it is best to be friends. -"Bao Puzi". Communication "
A gentleman is as light as water, the older he gets, the truer he is. The population is as small as honey, and it is an enemy in an instant.
2. I want to know the poems between people.
The mountain has no edges, and heaven and earth blend together, but dare to break with you! I am full of thinking that if I marry a person with a heart, I can love each other and be happy forever. Han; Zhuo Wenjun's "White-headed Song" won the competition, so why did he quit?
I would rather be a mandarin duck than a fairy. Tang; Lu Changan's ancient meaning, although I don't have Cai Feng's wings on me.
The mind acts on the mind. Tang; Li Shangyin's Untitled said, we hope to fly in the sky, two birds become one, and grow together on the ground, two branches of a tree. ..
The earth endures, and the sky endures; One day both will end, and this endless sadness will last forever! Tang; Bai Juyi's "Song of Eternal Sorrow" was once a sea of water, and it was forever amber.
Hurried through the flowers, lazy to look back; This reason is partly because of the ascetic monk, and partly because of who you used to be. Tang; Yuan Zhen's "From Thinking" is sunny in the east and rainy in the west. Tang; Liu Yuxi's Zhuzhici is full of flowers.
Even this bright flame of love will only have ashes? . Tang; Li Shangyin's "Untitled" candle thoughtfully bid farewell and shed tears for others until dawn. Tang; Du Mu's Farewell
Red bean shrubs grow in the south and produce many branches in spring.
May you bear more pain as a symbol of our love. Wang Wei's Acacia
Flowers can be folded straight, don't wait until there are no flowers! Don Du Qiuniang's The Lich
A stick of incense and a stick of incense are heartbroken in vain. Li Bai's Qing Ping Diao Er
I don't regret that my belt is getting wider and wider, which makes people haggard for Iraq. Song; Liu Yong's "Fengqitong"
The past is empty, still like a dream. Li Yu's "Midnight Song * How can I avoid the sadness and hatred of life"
Know what I mean, pity you, you must ask for it! Li Yu's The Golden Sparrow
The moon rose to the willow tree, and he met me at dusk. Zhu's Camellia
If you don't see each other when you meet, love will be ruthless. Sima Guang's Xijiang Moon
Ultima Thule is still far from the end, only the mind is infinitely long, and there is no time. Spring In Jade Pavilion；Song of Youth
The sky is not old, and the love is hard to break.
The heart is like a double screen with a Qian Qian knot in it. Zhang Sheng's Chitose
Holding hands and looking at each other, tears swirled in my eyes until there were no words at last, and a thousand words stuck in my throat and I couldn't say it.
Love hurts and leaves since ancient times.
This is a long time, people who love each other are not together, and I even expect to be satisfied with the good weather and scenery in name only.
Even if it is full of emotions, who can enjoy it together? ! Liu Yong's Yu Lin Ling
Flowers bloom and fall, and flowing water gurgles.
One kind of lovesickness, two places of leisure.
There is no way to eliminate this situation, only frown and mind.
Looking around, lonely and sad.
This time, what a sad sentence? A slow voice
There is nothing to say when you go to the west wing alone. The moon is like a hook. Lonely phoenix tree deep courtyard locks clear autumn.
Keep cutting. The reason is still chaos. It's sadness. It's not just the general taste.
How much sadness can you have? Like a river flowing eastward. Young mermaid
A moment that should last forever has come and gone before I know it. Li Shangyin's Jinse
Ten years of life and death are two boundless, disapproving and unforgettable.
Xiao Xuan window, dress up, silently care for each other, only a thousand lines of tears. Su Shi's Jiangchengzi
Looking for him in the crowd, suddenly looking back, the man was there, dimly lit. Xin Qiji's Qingyun Case * Yuanxi
3. Ancient poems about communication with people 1. If relatives and friends in Luoyang ask each other, there is a piece of ice in the jade pot.
—— From "Parting Xin Jian at Furong Inn" Tang Dynasty: Wang Changling Interpretation: Friend, if relatives and friends in Luoyang ask me; Just say I'm still Bing Xin and stick to my beliefs! 2, don't ask each other, afraid to ask each other, asking each other will only increase hatred. -From the Tang Dynasty: Mao Wenxi Interpretation: Don't ask, you are afraid of being asked, asking will increase a lot of grievances.
3, the hotel that asks each other, the cold lamp is amiable. -From "Except Sleeping on the Stone Hill" Tang Dynasty: Dai Shulun's interpretation: In this lonely hotel, the only person who came to visit and mourn was a lonely lamp accompanied by a blind date.
I want to say that I am still resting. But it is a cool autumn.
-From "The Ugly Slave Book in the Middle Wall of Boshan Road" Song Dynasty: Xin Qiji Interpretation: I want to say it but I can't say it. I want to say it, but I can't say it. What a cool autumn! 5, how many things in ancient and modern times, all pay a joke.
-From "Linjiang Fairy Rolling the Yangtze River to the East and Passing the Water" Ming Dynasty: Yang Shen Interpretation: Disturbed through the ages, it became the material for drinking and chatting. 6, dangerous pavilion, talking and laughing on Qianfeng.
-From "Diancrimson Lips Shaoxing Mao Yi Summit Dingding Pavilion" Song: Ye Mengde Interpretation: The pavilion looms on the towering peaks. 7. Tell me, where do you live? Near here, next to the fishing pond? .
-Excerpt from "Long March Tell me where you live" Tang Dynasty: Cui Hao Interpretation: Excuse me, where is your home? My family lives in Jiankang Hengtang.
8. It's the only way through the ages. Why is Niu Shan alone? -From "Nine Days of Mountaineering in Qi 'an" Tang Dynasty: Du Mu Interpretation: Life is short, and it will always be like this. Why are you crying in Niu Shan like Qi Jinggong?
9. it's easy to change, and it's easy to change. —— From "Magnolia Antique Words Cambodian Friends" Qing: Nalan Xingde Interpretation: Now it is easy to heart, but you say it is easy to heart in the world.
10, you ask me good or bad luck? Listen, there is a fisherman singing on the lake! . -From "Answering Deputy Fu Yin Zhang" Tang Dynasty: Wang Wei Interpretation: If you ask the truth of poverty and access, please listen to the fishing songs in the depths of the water pool.
4. The poem describing interpersonal relationship is 1. There is a kind of person who always wants others to be strong when farming, but dies when harvesting.
2. Interpersonal relationship is the communication between people, which is expressed in a modern way as "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" in the Bible.
3. Friends are a kind of interpersonal relationship outside the five ethics. It is precisely because people have not clearly defined the meaning of this term that they must ask their friends to share life and death.
No one can survive without colliding with others. He had to push his way through the crowd in various ways, offending others and tolerating others at the same time.
5. There is no perfect thing and no perfect person. The key is to know what you want. If you get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you will get nothing.
6, happiness is the most important, who, what, what makes you happy, you are with them. What makes you unhappy, you leave him. No conditions, you have to leave him if you create conditions.
7. I would rather swallow the dross with good people than have a feast with bad people.
8. Be careful when choosing friends, and be more careful when changing friends.
9. Drive your own car. Don't stop to say hello to your colleagues on bicycles. People will think you are showing off.
10, self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise is not.
1 1, secretly exhort your friends, they must praise your friends in public.
12. Friendship is that two hearts treat each other sincerely, instead of one beating the other.
13, if you want to get the friendship of others, you must be friendly to others first.
14, playing with other people's feelings, in fact, your feelings have been hurt.
15, the first time you dare to laugh at yourself, it shows that you are mature.
16, compromise, but also adhere to their most basic principles.
17, don't overestimate your strength in the collective, because when you choose to leave, you will find that the sun will rise even without you.
18, a person who only cares about himself when he is young will become a very stingy person and a hopeless miser when he is old.
19. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that require time, energy, consideration and dedication.
20, although a person can choose many roads, but can't walk two roads at the same time.
2 1. Look at yesterday clearly, grasp today in a down-to-earth manner, and watch tomorrow happily. Ask for experience from yesterday, achievements from today and motivation from tomorrow.
22. When speaking between friends, the language needs to be careful. Adults should step by step and not spread bad words, which can promote the friendship between the two sides. Reducing right and wrong is an important part of promoting interpersonal relationship. Good words should be spread more, and bad words should not be spread at all.
23. If a person abandons a loyal friend, it is equivalent to abandoning his most precious life.
24. If you are happy, just smile and let everyone know. Sad, just pretend nothing happened.
25, don't be a hedgehog, don't make enemies with others, don't make enemies with others, don't be with anyone for a lifetime. There is no need to take these things to heart.
26, see through but don't say it. A lot of things, as long as you know, there is no need to say.
27, in the case of not violating the principle, tolerate others, help if you can, don't push people to the wall and leave a way out.
28. Insist on saying nice things about others behind their backs, and don't worry that these nice things won't reach the ears of the parties.
29. As long as you are willing to praise others, you are the biggest winner.
30. Respect people who don't like you.
3 1, don't ask for money with friends, don't lend money to friends. If you lend money to others, just like Mr. Hu Shi, I don't want to come back if I borrow it. There is no money between people, which makes our interpersonal relationship more successful.
32. Although a broken friendship can be restored, it can no longer reach the level of intimacy.
33, interpersonal relationship, is to establish a reasonable interpersonal relationship from the perspective of ethics.
34. Never entangle with anyone, including the person who is most unfriendly to you. You engage in your interpersonal disputes, and I am busy with my business.
35. People who don't like it can respond with a silent smile; The person you like, that's casual, because your love will be unstoppable, unstoppable.
36. Giving up is a kind of wisdom, and defect is a kind of grace.
37. Be a man before you do anything. Only when it is in place can we do things successfully.
38. If you accept yourself sincerely, you can accept others more sincerely.
Poetry expresses the friendship between friends. However, China holds our friendship, and heaven is still our neighbor. Said to send Du out of Shu.
I advise you to have a glass of wine. There is no reason not to go out. -Wang Wei's "Send Yuan II An Xi"
Sailing alone in the blue sky, I can see the Yangtze River flowing in the sky. -Li Bai's Farewell to Meng Haoran on the way to Yangzhou.
Even if the Peach Blossom Pond is deep, it is not as deep as Wang Lun's sending away my love. -Li Bai's "To Wang Lun"
A gentleman is poor, who wants to meet today without paying for drinks? -Gao Shi "Don't move big"
If you think of a gentleman, you will send him to the south.
Make friends with each other, why should we be flesh and blood? -Han Yuefu Folk Songs >
Wan Li is still close to its neighbors-the Three Kingdoms. Cao weizhi >
Know each other far and near, but Wan Li is still a neighbor-Don Zhang Jiuling >
Young people learn new things, but they miss their old friends on their deathbed-Don Hanyu >
Take literature as your friend and virtue as your neighbor —— Tang Zuyong >
Make friends at the end of life, not for ups and downs. -Don Helan Jin Ming >
There is no distinction between young and old in life. Why should we get along first? -Tang Du Fu >
Painting friends need to be indifferent, mountains like paper don't like harmony-Green Weng Zhao >
The postman who came to meet the north broke the plum blossom and gave it to his friend in the mountains. There is no better gift in Jiangnan, and flowers will send spring. -Lu Kai's Poems for Ye Fan in Southern Song Dynasty.
A gentleman is poor, who wants to meet today without paying for drinks? -Don't be big.
Friends are friends, and comrades are friends.
A husband won't cry or leave the room. -Lu Guimeng's "Separation" in the Tang Dynasty
6. A seven-character poem about friends and getting along is 1. How many times can you laugh in your life? You must be drunk when you have a beer fight. -Don Cen Can's night gathering with the judges in Liangzhou Pavilion.
Since we left each other, we drifted like clouds, and ten years passed like running water, until we finally got together again. -Tang Wei Wu Ying's "Old friend Liang Chuan in Huaishang/Old friend Hui Liangzhou in Huaishang"
We were all unhappy until the end of the day when we met. We understand. What is the relationship between acquaintances? ! -Tang Juyi's Pipa Trip/Pipa Introduction
4. Mochow has no confidant in the road ahead, and no one in the world knows you. -Tang Gaoshi's "Two Poems of Biedongda University"
5. Making friends in the world needs gold, not too much or too deep. -Zhang Tang Wei, Master Anbi
6. If relatives and friends in Luoyang ask each other, a piece of ice heart is in the jade pot. -Don Wang Changling's Lotus Inn and Xin Qiji
However, as long as China keeps our friendship, heaven will remain our neighbor. -Tang, "Farewell to the Governor's appointment to Shu Ji"/sent to Shuchuan.
8. I advise you to drink more, there is no reason to go out. -Wei's "Cheng Wei Qu/Send Yuan Er Shi An Xi"
9. The old friend resigned from the West Yellow Crane Tower, and fireworks went down to Yangzhou in March. -Tang Li Bai's Yellow Crane Tower Meng Haoran's farewell on his way to Yangzhou
10. Meeting and getting drunk is the leading edge, and it is a stormy place. -Stone's "Queqiao Xiantanabata"
Explanation:
1. How many times can you laugh in life? Everyone must be drunk when we meet today.
2. Floating like a cloud, after we leave; Time flies, I don't think it's been ten years.
3. People who are also reduced to the world, since they meet, regardless of whether they have met before, will be in the same boat and respond with one voice. Then why care if they knew each other before?
Don't worry about not seeing your bosom friend when you go here. Everyone in the world doesn't know you, Dong!
Secular people need gold as a link to make friends with each other. Gold is not used much, so friendship is naturally not deep.
6. If my relatives and friends in Luoyang ask about me, please tell them that my bright heart, like ice in a jade pot, is flawless.
Although we live far apart, there is no need to be sad. There are intimate friends in the sea, even if they are far away, they are like close neighbors.
8. After drinking this cup of bar again, I will never see my old friends again, expressing the author's parting feelings with friends.
9. The old friend waved to me frequently, bid farewell to the Yellow Crane Tower, and went on a long trip to Yangzhou on this catkin-like and flowery March spring day.
10. It was the fate of previous lives that made us meet and know each other and get drunk together. After the rain cleared, the wind and rain dissipated, and all the banquets in the world came to an end. That's my way.
The Story of Friendship: Friendship in Guan Bao
"Guan Bao" refers to Guan Zhong, a famous politician in the Spring and Autumn Period, and his friend Bao. Guan Zhong had business dealings with Bao when he was young. After making money, Bao knew that Guan Zhong's family was poor and always gave him more. He never thought Guan Zhong was greedy. Guan Zhong does things for Bao, but he doesn't always do everything well. Bao doesn't think Guan Zhong is stupid, but he understands that this is limited by objective conditions. Guan Zhong became an official and was fired three times. Bao knows that this is not Guan Zhong's bad character, nor his bad work, but his timing and luck ... Guan Zhong sighed deeply: "My parents gave birth to me, and Bao Shu knows me!" Bao Shu Ya later recommended Guan Zhong as the minister of Qi, and helped vigorously carry out the reform, making Qi the first overlord in the Spring and Autumn Period. Nowadays, people often describe this friendship as "friendship with Bao".
Six principles for friends to get along with:
1. Sincerity. Friends must get along sincerely. Without sincerity, there will be falsehood, and falsehood and hypocrisy cannot be called friends. Therefore, getting along sincerely is the most basic and minimum requirement and principle for friends.
2. trust. Friends should have mutual trust. Trust is the basic condition for becoming friends, because only with trust can we have real friends, not ordinary friends, not fair-weather friends, but people who trust.
3. Don't cheat. There should be no cheating between friends. There are many liars now, and those who can be called friends must not be liars. If there is cheating, they must not be friends.
4. Dare to admit mistakes. When people get along with each other, it is inevitable that misunderstandings will occur, and it is inevitable that they will hurt their feelings because of a temporary impulse. Therefore, another important principle among friends is to dare to admit mistakes and sincerely admit mistakes to friends.
5. Respect each other. Good friends must respect each other. You respect me one foot, I respect you one foot. Such a friend is a good friend and can gain recognition and respect from others. Caring for each other is the most important.
6. Be outspoken. For true friends, you must be outspoken when you get along with them. You won't hide what you said, and you won't watch your friend jump into the fire pit. This is an important principle, and you must do it.