Xiao Li's child Wen Wen has been an introverted child since childhood. When he was a child, he used to get into his mother's arms as soon as he saw strangers. Other children play together, but he just watches from a distance and never takes the initiative to join. Xiao Li is worried about going to kindergarten in a blink of an eye. Wen Wen is so introverted and timid. What if the kindergarten can't make friends? If your child is also introverted, parents may wish to try this in order to make friends smoothly!

Preview related scenes in advance.

Many introverted children are accompanied by fear of unfamiliar scenes, which will further deepen his tendency to retreat. Therefore, if he wants to make friends in the new environment, his parents may wish to preview the relevant scenes with their families at home in advance to help him prepare psychologically. For example, if the child is going to kindergarten, the mother can present the scenes in kindergarten, such as playing games together and introducing herself, to the child in a form similar to playing house, so that the scenes in kindergarten will bring him a less tense atmosphere and help him make friends.

Prepare your advantages in advance.

If a child has obvious advantages, his self-confidence will be stronger, which will help him make friends. This strength not only refers to the skills of playing musical instruments and painting, such as eating by yourself and wearing shoes by yourself, which frequently appear in kindergartens. If you can master these skills skillfully, it is also a kind of strength for children and has a strong role in improving their self-confidence. Therefore, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's ability in this respect and enhance their self-confidence.

Prepare an "ice breaking" gift

If your child is introverted, parents can help him prepare some "ice-breaking" gifts, such as snacks and toys that can be shared. Because children are naturally attracted to these things, it can make them more acceptable to other children to some extent. Therefore, parents are advised to try this method.

Avoid staying at home in peacetime.

Generally speaking, introverted children are relatively lacking in social initiative. In this case, parents should help him create an environment conducive to social interaction. He can't always stay at home and keep away from other children. Parents should consciously take their children to places with many children, such as neighborhood fitness equipment, kindergarten doors and other places with many children, encourage him to play with other children, help him accumulate social experience and improve his social skills.

In short, if parents worry that their children are too introverted to make friends, they should actively guide them. However, it should be noted that parents should never force their children to do anything in the process of guidance, otherwise they will even exclude their children from socializing!