It is understood in The Analects that it is very important to make friends in society. A good friend is a book that can open your whole inner world. Confucius said: those who benefit have three friends, friends who are straightforward, friends who forgive, and friends who listen more. Yuji: Open-minded and cheerful personality can also reflect your personality. Friendship: Tolerance is a virtue, and its power is enduring. The indifference and tolerance of friends will give people a power of introspection and find out their own shortcomings and deficiencies. Friends know more: making a knowledgeable friend is like opening a dictionary. His knowledge will be transformed into yours. Confucius said: A loser has three friends. Friends make friends, be friendly and gentle, and friends make friends: if you are violent, a person can ignite a wave of anger and anger, leading to irreparable consequences. Friendly and gentle: too indecisive, wasting life energy. You'll miss the chance. A friend is a friend: my heart is dark and I seek personal interests. Such friends will put chains on themselves. Confucius advocated caring for others as benevolence. It is wise to know others. Benevolence is will, and wisdom is ability. Three psychological principles of making friends: 1, don't grab words.

Have something to say. Don't close your eyes and talk nonsense. Don't touch a friend's secret pain. Silent care, sincere advice and good words ... to make a good friend is to open a window for yourself.