Friend, what is a friend? People who care about and help each other are called friends. You can also say that like-minded people are friends. A true friend is someone who can help you when you are in trouble, that is, when you are in trouble, you can see the truth. In life, you may meet many friends, friends from all walks of life, who usually speak very well. You can come to me when you are in trouble. When you are really in trouble, you may not have time to avoid you. In life, each of us will encounter difficulties and setbacks. When we are proud, friends, people we know and people we don't know will come to you to be friends and even call you a brother. People who think you are useful and powerful will try their best to please you. When you are in trouble, they will not only help you, but even hit people when they are down.
In ancient times, people said that if you know what he said, you should not believe what he said, but listen to what he said and watch what he did. Whether you are friends or not depends on your daily life. See if a person is kind to his parents and has a little filial piety. If a person doesn't even love his parents, he can still love others, even his home, his wife and children, and he can't even take care of others. There are many things we must observe. Look at people's attitudes and ways of treating others. Whether there is enthusiasm in life, especially for life, some people muddle along. Without any enterprising spirit, can such a person be his friend if he is opportunistic and sweet-mouthed in life?
Some friends who spill meat will only eat, drink and have fun with their friends. Being a man has no sureness and dignity. When I have nothing to do, I will come to you for a drink and take your money. I will avoid you when you are in trouble and need help. When you had no money, you had already left. Friends, friends with principles. We live by the rules. When you have a contradiction, we don't help you solve it, but expand the contradiction, so as not to make things small and the world chaotic. Don't make friends without any principles and basic qualities, that is, friends with incorrect views.
Borrowing money is not the best way for friends. I think it's best for friends not to have anything to do with money. If money is involved between friends, it is easy to lose friends anyway. Everyone is selfish. Everyone loves money. Doing business with friends, partnering with friends, will lose friends. Especially friends do business, because everyone has their own way of doing things in business. You don't have to make money in business, but you may have to pay compensation. Speaking of compensation and income, they are barely scraping together. It is most likely to produce contradictions.
If we use borrowing money to test whether we are friends, it is possible that when we borrow money, our friends may really have no money or encounter difficulties. For friends with different family conditions, it is trivial to lend you 10 thousand. If you are a friend with family difficulties, lending you 1 ten thousand may be all your savings.