Honesty is the foundation of being a man. A person who is dishonest will not only be unable to move, but also his friends will be deceived by him.

No one is really stupid enough to trust you, but after being cheated by you, they won't trust you.

It is difficult to build credit, but it is very easy to destroy it.

You don't know at which critical moment you will betray and disappoint you, thus causing unbearable consequences for you.

Two people who kicked off the bridge

When he wants something from you, he puts his posture very low and tries his best to please you; Once you lose the use value, he will turn his back on you. Such people are not only selfish, but also step on you when you are in trouble.

The meanness of human nature is vividly reflected in such people.

People who are used to kicking down the bridge will achieve temporary success, but not for long.

With such a person, not only can't you expect him to help you, but you should also be careful that the other person will stab you in the back.

3. ungrateful people

A person without gratitude is not worth making friends with. Even if you help him again, he will feel taken for granted and ungrateful.

Associating with this kind of person is like beating a dog to get meat buns, and there is no return.

The communication between people is essentially an exchange of values. Since there is no point in helping you, why continue to invest?

Make friends with ungrateful people, and all your efforts will not be rewarded.

4. People who ask blindly

There is nothing wrong with taking advantage. This is the instinct of human nature. When communicating with others, seek common ground while reserving differences.

However, people who only take and are unwilling to pay are not worth making friends.

In such a person's mind, you can't pay enough.

Once, if you can't satisfy his desire, he will treat you as an enemy and point the knife at you.

People who blindly take it are greedy and have no bottom line. As long as the price is reasonable, he will sell it to you.

5. People with extreme personalities

A person with extreme personality is like a hedgehog full of spikes, so you should always be vigilant.

You never know when a needle will prick you and endanger your life.

In their eyes, what the world owes them and those who are better than them are guilty.

To be intimate with such a person, you should not only be invulnerable, but also be careful not to be hurt by him, and always be careful not to be included in the hate list.

6. People who talk about right and wrong

People who can tell you that others are right or wrong can of course tell others that you are right or wrong behind your back. If you don't want to be talked about, slandered or belittled, stay away from them.

Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes. No one can be perfect and no one can make everyone like it.

No matter how good a person is, there are always people who don't like it and always have shortcomings.

Life is only a few decades, don't spend your energy on wrangling and fighting. The meaning of life is not to discuss right and wrong. 1. Jealousy: I can't accept that you are better than them.

Jealous friends can never appreciate you as sincerely as real friends and be happy for you. They often can't accept that you are better than them, and may throw cold water on you when you are happy for some achievements. They may also regard you as a competitor and want the same things as you, or develop the same hobbies as you and want to surpass you. Even if you are in different fields, they want to do the same thing with you.

If they are not better than you, they will try to destroy your happiness. In order not to see you get better, they may even sabotage you in the dark, such as inadvertently urging you to buy a large cup of milk tea when you are determined to lose weight, pretending to inadvertently delete an important document of yours and then saying sorry to you, and pulling you to drink on the important day of the interview. ......

2. control utilization: only treat you as an available object.

False friends who control and use may be hard to find, because their intentions often come into play after gaining some trust from us. But they still often make us feel uncomfortable, because true friends always put themselves in our shoes, but they don't. They just regard us as objects that can be used.

They may get along with you in a seemingly friendly way and make demands on you inadvertently. When they need you to do something, they may inadvertently ask you for help, or unconsciously take away your personal belongings, "May I borrow this?" You may feel confused, but when you try to show that you are embarrassed, their performance even makes you wonder if you are too stingy. So you have been accommodating, and they have no intention of changing their willingness to respect you.

3. Uncertainty: Sometimes you are not sure whether they are still your friends.

They may be friendly or interesting, but they only behave like your friends when they feel right. Maybe you can play happily together, but you can't get their affirmative support when you need support, and you can't find them when you need help when you are in trouble. Another performance of pretending to be friends is that they can act as if they are not your friends when they think it may have a bad influence on them. For example, they may not want to show intimacy with you in front of others, as if they don't want others to know that they are friends with you.

4. Gossip type: tell others' right and wrong in front of you, or tell you're right and wrong in front of others.

At first, you may like them better because of their lively and outgoing characteristics. But you will gradually find that they always like to talk about other people's things, but they don't really care.