Whether a person is worth dating depends not on whether the other person has money, but also on the other person’s character.

If you make "careless friends", it may cause you to deviate from the direction of life and sink deeper and deeper into the path of sin.

When interacting with others, please remember the "four sentences" said by Zeng Guofan: Dignity and seriousness are the appearance of nobility; humility and an appearance are the appearance of nobility; having a heart to give things to others is the appearance of wealth; and things that fall into place are wealth. Mutually.

In fact, Zeng Guofan’s "Four Sentences" also tell us that "love comes from the heart." You can identify a person's heart by looking at his or her appearance, and you can know whether you can have a deep friendship. .

The "Book of Changes" says: A gentleman carries his virtue with kindness. A person has "thickness", which is the wisdom accumulated in life. He can think about things first and then proceed without going astray; he does not speak rhetorically, maybe not much, but he is sincere and every word is meaningful. To the point, it’s words that help others, not hypocrisy.

When people interact with each other, they don’t mean to flatter each other, say a bunch of flattery, or to achieve ulterior motives, so they pretend to be close to you, and then get benefits, then betray you, or even join others. Hit you. It's really "a dog bites Lu Dongbin, but it doesn't recognize a good heart", which is extremely disgusting.

“Humility makes people progress, pride makes people fall behind.” This is the truth we have always admired. The more humble a person is, the more he lowers his posture. Just like the sea, he is at the lowest point in the world, but there is always water from the river flowing in, making it vast and boundless.

Those who always hold their heads high are actually like the empty shells in the ears of rice, they will never mature because there is nothing inside. Those who lower their heads are not afraid of anything, but that after years of ups and downs, their minds have matured. In the future, they will work hard and walk with their heads down.

Therefore, humble people and people who know how to tolerate others are more worthy of association. The longer we interact with each other, the more we tolerate each other's shortcomings. We can understand each other throughout our lives and become people who understand ourselves.

The more humble and tolerant a person is, the quieter his face will be and he will not be complacent. Such people are often secretive, neither humble nor arrogant, neither arrogant nor impetuous, and can deal with the ups and downs of life calmly. Such people deserve your attention.

There was once a story about a man who collected scraps. Because he worked diligently and paid fair prices, he later became rich and established a company. But he was unhappy because the more money he had, the more he felt that he had wronged others and was taking advantage of others, which made him very uneasy. He lives in a mansion but feels unhappy. So, one day, he went to the temple and asked the old Zen master, "Why are people unhappy?" The old Zen master smiled and said nothing and invited him to drink tea. As a result, when the old Zen master poured water, the water in the tea cup overflowed and flowed. On to his clothes. He was puzzled by "How could a good tea drink turn into an unhappy tea drinker?" The old Zen master said, "Because it is too full." From then on, he realized something - money comes from the people. Use it for the people. He became philanthropic and although he had less money, he was very happy and had a sense of accomplishment.

In fact, life is like a teacup. You always fill it with everything, and if you fill it with anything else, it will overflow, causing you to be embarrassed. Only by letting go of some things in life can we put in more needed things. Don’t be too perfect in this life!

If you are with people who are kind and charitable, you will become richer and richer, which is the wealth of your soul. You will feel the joy of helping others, and you will also feel the relief after giving up, and you will become more and more "kind".

If you are with someone who is kind and charitable, if you encounter difficulties, you will get help from them, instead of being like "the tree falls and the hozens scatter", looking down on you when you become poor.

Being a human being is not about "three days of fishing and two days of drying the net". Only by perseverance can one become great. If you are with someone who has no ideals, you will probably fail in everything you do.

If you get close to those people who "start well and end well", you will grit your teeth, work harder, and push your ideals higher. "You are not a true man until you reach the Great Wall."

Many times, our ideals are not very far away, but that you have worked hard for a long time but finally gave up. Many years later, you will find that you were just a little away from success, and you even touched it as soon as you stretched out your hand. Unfortunately, you just missed success.

"Everything will eventually turn out to be rich", that is to say, "the more persistent a person is, the luckier he will be; the harder he works, the more successful he will be." From now on, you should also be a perseverant person and make more friends with such persistent ideals. When you are tired and endure it, it becomes sweeter; when you are tired and you endure it, it becomes easier.

Whether a person can have a deep friendship depends on the above "four sentences". Friends don’t care about quantity, rely on quality. A person worth getting along with is a helpful friend and a good teacher.

Author: Buyi coarse food.

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