In fact, I think it is good to send messages and add small emoticons when chatting and socializing, because this is a way to liven up the atmosphere, and it can also make the atmosphere less serious and make others think you are an easy person. People close to you.
Of course, this needs to be analyzed based on the specific situation. If you are chatting with your superior, your boss, or your elders, then you should be serious at this time. Seriously, don’t send those little expressions as if you treat these things as childish. It will also make the other party feel disrespected, because when you talk about serious things, you should be serious and you should think seriously. You are talking about work. When you are doing business, or when you are greeting your elders, if you send some small expressions or emoticons, this will make the other party think that you are disrespectful.
But if you are just engaging in general chatting and socializing, and your social partners are your peers, or there is no direct working relationship or interest between you and her, I think it is okay to make a small comment. Expressions, because I think sending some emoticons or small expressions during chat can indirectly make others feel that you are an approachable person, allowing you to communicate more smoothly. This is also the real role of emoticons, and I think there are some things you are thinking that cannot be fully expressed correctly through language. If there are some emoticons or some small expressions, it can be more vivid. Express what you want to express effectively, and the other party can also understand what you mean.
So whatever you do or say, you have to pay attention to the occasion. Everyone’s chatting habits are also different. For example, there are some people around me who don’t like to send emojis when chatting. They usually just say what they have to say. Judging from the chat records, what the other party sends is often sentence by sentence. You will never add any emoticons or emoticons at the end, so for this kind of person, you can choose to post emoticons, or you can choose not to post emoticons. It all depends on the relationship between you and her. , if he is really a serious person and has no favorable impression of these emoticons, then if you send small emoticons or emoticons, it will disgust him, and even some emoticons you send, he will not be able to understand at all. What you meant is that it only adds to the embarrassment. But when you are making friends or want to get close to the other person, you can send some emoticons to adjust the atmosphere. You can also use emoticons to test and see what kind of person the other person is. I am a person who likes to post emoticons very much. I may have hundreds of emoticon pictures on my phone. Now, no matter what I want to express, I will always attach a picture that expresses my meaning.