1, a new starting point (What's the new experience of junior high school life? )

(1) Middle school life has brought us into a different world: challenging courses, novel experimental equipment, colorful clubs, new campuses, new teachers and new classmates. We stand at a new starting point.

2. What kind of influence does middle school have in the course of life?

(1) Every stage of growth has unique value and significance. The middle school stage is a new stage of life development, which is not very long, but it can lay an important foundation for our life.

(2) Middle school witnessed a person's life course from teenager to youth. With the continuous development of body and mind, we begin to explore the mystery of life and unveil the veil of spiritual world with curiosity; With the gradual awakening of self-awareness, we begin to find and know ourselves actively; With the continuous improvement of thinking level and understanding ability, our understanding of the world is more specific and in-depth; With the enrichment of life experience, we begin to consciously hone our will and character and think about the meaning of life, which will give our long life a richer and thicker background.

3, the gift of growth

(1) What growth gifts does life give us?

Middle school life means new opportunities and possibilities for us, as well as new goals and challenges. These are all growth gifts that life has given us.

(2) the performance of growth gifts

Middle school life provides many opportunities for self-development. Collective life cultivates and enriches our personality; The new curriculum leads us to explore new areas of knowledge; Colorful community activities provide a platform for us to develop our interests; Various social practices have opened the door for us to know the society.

Entering middle school, new goals and requirements stimulate our potential and inspire us to constantly achieve self-transcendence. "A new day, a new day, a new day." In the new environment, we have the opportunity to change the imperfect images of parents, teachers and classmates and reshape a "me".

(3) How do we treat the gift of growth?

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." The prologue of middle school life has just begun. Facing all kinds of possibilities and challenges, we should cherish the present, seize the opportunity, start from scratch and make unremitting efforts for a better tomorrow.

(4) What is the ideal "I"?

More and more energetic, persistent and resilient; More and more strong, cooperative and tolerant; More and more independent, dare to express themselves.

Second, teenagers have dreams.

1, the meaning of dreams: dreams are wishes for a better life in the future, which can constantly inspire our enthusiasm and courage for life and make life more colorful.

2. Why should teenagers have dreams?

(1) Weaving life dreams is an important life theme in adolescence. Dreams are wishes for a better life in the future, which can constantly inspire our enthusiasm and courage for life and make life more colorful. Where there is a dream, there is hope.

Characteristics of adolescent dreams

(3) Teenagers' dreams are closely linked with personal life goals. A clear goal in life, like a lighthouse, can help us find our way forward in the vast sea.

(4) Teenagers' dreams are closely connected with the pulse of the times and inseparable from the Chinese dream. Living in this era, we * * * have the opportunity to shine in life, * * * have the opportunity to realize our dreams, and * * * have the opportunity to grow and progress with the motherland and the times.

3. Efforts will change.

(1) What are the different attitudes towards dreams?

Some people give up the dream of teenagers and regard it as a fantasy; Some people insist on turning enterprising into a belief.

(2) How can we realize our dreams?

Teenagers have dreams, not only in their hearts, but also in their actions. Unremitting pursuit and interpretation of dreams can change our lives and ourselves. Efforts are the bridge between dreams and reality. (The importance of hard work)

Hard work is an attitude towards life, an indomitable perseverance and the courage to start again after failure, a firm belief in self and an unremitting pursuit of beauty. (the meaning of hard work)

Hard work requires determination. Ambition is the beacon of life. Teenagers should learn to be determined from an early age, be determined early, have aspirations, have ambitions, and connect their most important life aspirations with the motherland and the people.

Hard work requires persistence. If you don't put your efforts into concrete actions every day, your dream will become a fantasy and you can only draw cakes to satisfy your hunger. As long as you keep working hard, even if the process is difficult, you will have a chance to get closer to your dream.

There is a way to work hard. Arrange, plan and manage time reasonably. Combine work and rest, learn to use your brain scientifically, make a little progress every day, keep learning and thinking in sync, and cherish teamwork.

Lesson 2 Learning the New World

First, learn by growing up.

1. What is learning?

Learning opens the window of life and makes the world in front of us broader and more exciting; Learning expands new channels and allows us to experience different lifestyles; Learning has changed the way of thinking and action, and improved our ability and wisdom; Learning brings more choices and makes us more independent and free.

2. Learning content: junior high school learning includes knowledge acquisition and the cultivation of various abilities.

3. Open the window of learning (how to understand learning correctly? )

(1) In middle school, learning is our important task. Learning in junior high school includes the acquisition of knowledge and the cultivation of various abilities. For example, learn to think with what you have learned, deal with problems encountered in life, learn how to get along with people with different personalities and so on.

(2) Learning is not limited to schools; (3) Learning requires a conscious and active attitude.

(4) Learning is accompanied by our growth. (5) There is no end to learning.

4. Why study? What is the significance of learning for personal growth? )

(1) Learning can not only make us survive, but also make us have a more fulfilling life. Learning opens the window of life and makes the world in front of us broader and more exciting; Learning expands new channels and allows us to experience different lifestyles; Learning has changed the way of thinking and behavior, and improved our ability and wisdom; Learning brings more choices and makes us more independent and free; (2) Learning is to add nourishment to life. Life will wither if you don't study. (3) Learn to light the ever-burning lamp in your heart and stimulate the motivation to keep moving forward. In learning, we share life experiences, gain growth, and at the same time gain others, serve the society and lay the foundation for a happy life.

Second, enjoy learning.

1. Appreciate learning (how to appreciate the pain and joy in learning? )

(1) There is happiness in learning. When we have a strong interest in some knowledge, when we solve a problem by ourselves, when we find like-minded companions in our study, and when we discover our potential, we can all appreciate the happiness brought by learning.

(2) Learning is multifaceted, learning is a process, and we can't always feel happy from it.

(3) There are also efforts in learning. Despite the interest and desire to explore, learning is not an easy task. In the process of learning, we need to concentrate and consume energy, and adjust our bad mood when encountering difficulties and obstacles. All these require us to work hard with a strong will. (4) We have experienced the hard work of learning and gained the fruits of learning. That kind of heartfelt pleasure makes us realize the beauty of learning, which is the wonderful enjoyment brought to us by the learning process.

learning how to think

(1) How to learn to learn?

To learn to learn, you need to discover and keep your interest in learning. "Those who know are not as good as those who know; Good people are not as good as musicians. " With the interest in learning, learning can be a hard but very happy journey of exploration.

Learning to learn requires mastering scientific learning methods. Learning is to be good at absorbing nutrition from life, master some basic learning strategies, arrange learning time reasonably, form good study habits and constantly improve your learning ability. Different subjects have different learning methods, and the learning methods vary from person to person. The method that suits you is the best. A good memory is better than a bad writing.

Learning to learn also means being good at using different learning methods to achieve your goals.

3. What is the relationship between learning interest and personal learning purpose?

Interest in learning is closely related to personal learning goals. A person with lofty aspirations and clear learning goals will have a strong and lasting interest in learning. Even if you are not interested in some subjects for the time being, you can explore appropriate methods in persistence and gradually cultivate your own interest in inquiry.

Lesson 3 self-discovery

First, know yourself.

1. People know themselves (why should we know ourselves? )

A correct understanding of oneself can promote self-development. Everyone is a unique individual. Recognizing our talents and uniqueness will help us to strengthen our confidence in ourselves and develop our abilities better.

Knowing yourself correctly can promote communication with others. A correct understanding of ourselves will help us realize that we can't live without others and society, so as to better understand, tolerate, treat others well and actively communicate with others.

2. Measure yourself with more rulers

(1) How do we know ourselves?

We can know ourselves from physical, social and psychological aspects:

We can know ourselves through self-evaluation and others' evaluation:

Self-evaluation A has a proper self-evaluation of ourselves, which can help us accept ourselves and have a correct attitude towards ourselves, without pride or inferiority; Can help us regulate and control our behavior.

Other people's evaluation B Other people's evaluation is a mirror for us to know ourselves. The evaluation of others helps us to form a more objective, complete and clear understanding of ourselves.

(2) What are the methods of self-evaluation?

Self-observation and analysis.

Compare with others.

(3) How to treat others' comments correctly?

We should attach importance to other people's attitudes and evaluations, but we should also analyze them objectively and calmly. We can neither blindly follow nor ignore them. It is a sign of maturity to face the evaluation of others with a rational attitude. Listen attentively and accept humbly. Pay attention to other people's evaluation, but draw conclusions early; Thank others for helping us to know ourselves more clearly. Face it bravely. Quietly refuse.

Second, do your best.

Accept and appreciate yourself.

(1) Why do you want to accept yourself?

Just as there are no two identical leaves in the world, there are no two identical people in the world. Each of us has our own characteristics in personality, interests and so on. As we get to know ourselves better, our self-image will become clearer and clearer.

(2) How do we accept ourselves?

To accept yourself, you need to accept all of yourself. Accept your own advantages and your own imperfections; Accept not only your personality, but also your figure and appearance; Accept your present and past.

It is easy to accept what you are satisfied with, and sometimes it is difficult to accept what you are not satisfied with, which requires optimism, courage and wisdom.

(3) How do we appreciate ourselves?

We should learn to appreciate ourselves. Appreciate your own uniqueness, your own advantages, your own efforts and your contribution to others. Appreciating yourself is neither arrogance nor arrogance. People who appreciate themselves can show their elegance and see the beauty of others; You can applaud yourself or others.

I want to fly higher.

How can I be a better self?

To be a better self, we must foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. We should be good at using our own advantages and strengths and show our talents to the maximum. To be a better self, you need to take the initiative to correct your shortcomings. Correcting shortcomings requires determination, confidence, courage and perseverance, and the process of correcting shortcomings is the process of self-improvement and self-development. To be a better self, you need to constantly stimulate your potential.

A better self grows in the process of getting along with others and is realized in the process of bringing benefits to others and society.

(2) How to recognize human potential?

Everyone has different potentials. As far as intelligence is concerned, we all have many kinds of intelligence to varying degrees. Everyone has his own strengths, which need us to explore, try, discover and activate.

(3) How to explore your own potential?

By cherishing your hobbies, focus on your favorite fields; Discover the needs of others and society through extensive participation in various activities; Through active cooperation, you can better stimulate your potential by completing tasks with others.

(4) What are the methods to correct the shortcomings?

Describe your shortcomings in detail. Start with small shortcomings, which are the easiest for you to correct. As long as you do it, even if you only do part of it, give yourself affirmation or reward. Ask a trusted person to help you. Make a public commitment to correct shortcomings. Use your previous successful experience to correct your shortcomings.

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Unit 2 The Sky of Friendship

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Lesson 4 Friendship and growth go hand in hand.

First, stay with friends.

1. My circle of friends (What happened to our circle of friends when we entered junior high school? )

With the growth of age, some people may find that their communication scope has expanded, their circle of friends has also expanded, and their activities with friends have become richer; Some people may find that their circle of friends is smaller than before, but they have deeper contacts and closer friends.

2. The power of friendship (What influence do friends have on us? )

Friends have a great influence on a person, and our manners, hobbies and even personalities are more or less influenced by friends. We will pay attention to what our friends are doing; We will try something that our friends find interesting. With optimistic and cheerful friends, we will become open-minded; When we get along with helpful friends, we will become caring.

3. Why do we need friendship?

Friends have witnessed our growing process together, and we need sincere and friendly friends. Because of friends, we are less lonely, warmer and more comfortable. Because we have friends, we feel our own value and enjoy ourselves more; Because of having friends, we have learned to get along better with others and enjoy the fun of communication.

It is beneficial to make friends with honest, upright and knowledgeable people. Friends enrich our life experience, and friendship makes us realize the beauty of life more deeply.

Second, talk about friendship.

1. The characteristics of friendship (how to correctly understand friendship? )

Friendship is a close relationship. Everyone has different understanding and needs for friendship, and we all hope to get understanding and support, loyalty and trust, affirmation and care in friendship. Being with friends can give us recognition and spiritual satisfaction. Friendship is equal and two-way. Accept help and learn to help each other; Feel caring and learn to care about each other. We share with each other and experience positive emotions when we get along. Friendship is the meeting of hearts. The beauty of friendship lies in that it can transcend material conditions, family background, academic performance and so on. Like-minded and like-minded friendship can stand the test of time and the baptism of wind and rain.

2. Clarification of friendship

(1) Is friendship immutable?

Friendship is not immutable. I have changed, the other person has changed, or the environment has changed. In these changes, some friendships have been maintained, while others have gradually faded out. We should learn to accept the disappearance of friendship and accept new friendship.

(2) Will competition hurt friendship?

Competition doesn't necessarily hurt friendship, the key is our attitude towards competition. If we can accept and appreciate the achievements of our friends, we will not indulge in the pain of loss. Self-reflection and encouragement in the competition, we will gain more.

(3) Do friends need principles to get along?

Friendship cannot be without principles. Friendship needs trust and loyalty, but "loyalty" and "being friends" do not mean doing anything for friends indiscriminately. In fact, when friends go astray, they will hurt their friends and friendship without giving advice or even adding fuel to the fire.

Lesson 5 the wisdom of making friends

First, make the tree of friendship evergreen.

(1) How to establish friendship?

To build friendship, you need to open your heart. In the process of establishing friendship, there will be surprises, accidents and a little adventure. In any case, open your heart and express yourself actively so that friends will not miss each other.

Building friendship requires continuous action. Have proper expectations before you act. Even if the other party refuses, it doesn't mean you are not good. If at first you don't succeed, don't be discouraged. As long as you treat others sincerely, we will have a chance to find friends.

(2) What methods can help to establish friendship?

Smile. Remember each other's names. Really awesome. Look for similarities. Listen patiently and be curious.

Maintain friendship

(1) How to protect friendship?

Caring for friendship requires mutual care. Understand the needs of friends, stand by them when they need it, and express their concern and support with actions. Protecting friendship requires learning to respect each other. Everyone is an independent individual, so we should give our friends some space and grasp the boundaries between them. Friends need to be honest with each other, but this does not mean that they are unreserved; Give your friends positive and reasonable advice, but don't make decisions for them. In order to protect friendship, we need to learn to handle conflicts correctly. When there is a conflict, we can negotiate with each other and find a mutually acceptable solution. If handled properly, conflicts can bring each other closer. In order to protect friendship, we need to learn to bear and treat the injuries in making friends correctly. When a friend betrays himself or does something that hurts the friendship, we can choose to tolerate each other or end the friendship. Both need courage and wisdom. Smart people should learn to choose: which friends can make deep friends; Which friends can maintain a good relationship; Which friends can gradually alienate or even keep their distance.

(2) What are the basic strategies to deal with conflicts?

Stay calm. Communicate honestly and don't shy away. Handle in time. Dare to take responsibility: don't put all the responsibility on the other side. Empathy.

Second, the new time and space of network communication

1. Make friends online (What are the characteristics of online communication? )

(1) Communication on the Internet is characterized by virtuality, equality and autonomy. It connects people from all corners of the country with strangers, allowing people to freely vent their inner happiness, troubles, loneliness and pain, relieve stress and expand the circle of interpersonal communication. (benefits)

(2) The network opens another window to the world, but sometimes it closes the door to communicate with people. (disadvantages)

Be careful when making friends with netizens.

(1) Why make friends carefully?

To make friends online, you need to consider the influence on your study and life, learn to distinguish rationally and choose carefully. For making friends, the network is just a tool, and the key lies in how we use it.

(2) How can we make friends carefully?

To make friends online, you should learn to distinguish rationally and choose carefully.

There are many uncertain factors in the communication of virtual world, so we should have a certain sense of self-protection. For example, refusing an invitation from a stranger; Personal home address, economic status, contact information, etc. , should be kept confidential; Learn to ask for help when you encounter problems. You need to be careful to turn online friends into real friends. Online communication can meet some of our psychological needs, and we don't have to bear so much pressure and responsibility in real communication. We should learn to communicate with peers in reality, increase our true and intimate feelings and lay a reliable foundation for friendship.

(3) What are the advantages and disadvantages of network communication?

Communication in the network can meet some of our psychological needs, and we don't have to bear so much pressure and responsibility in real communication. However, virtual communication can hardly touch the reality in life.

No matter how beautiful online life is, we can't just stay here. Learn to communicate with peers in reality, increase real and intimate feelings, and lay a more reliable foundation for friendship.

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Unit 3 Teacher Friendship

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Lesson 6 between teachers and students

First, get close to the teacher 1. Understand the profession of teachers.

(1) What is the role of teachers?

As educators, teachers are one of the main inheritors of human civilization.

In modern society, teachers have developed into a specialized profession. Teachers are professionals who perform their educational and teaching duties and undertake the mission of teaching and educating people.

(2) What are the requirements of the times for teachers?

Today's teachers should strive to be good teachers with ideals and beliefs, moral sentiments, solid knowledge and kindness.

2. Teachers with different styles

(1) Why do teachers have different styles?

Because of the differences in age, knowledge, experience, personality, emotion and way of thinking, each teacher has different methods and expressions to solve problems, thus showing different styles. Respecting teachers' "differences" can help us get closer to teachers and get to know them better.

(2) Why should we accept different styles of teachers?

Everyone has the image of a good teacher, and our favorite teachers may have different styles. Teachers of all styles should be respected. We should learn to accept different styles of teachers.

(3) How do we get along with teachers of different styles? (How to treat it)

Admit the differences between teachers. Discover the advantages of different styles of teachers. Understand the purpose of teachers' educational behavior. Try to understand the original intention and intention of teachers' educational behavior and better understand teachers. Active communication.

Second, communication between teachers and students.

1. Learn from each other.

(1) Why do you want to communicate with the teacher? What is the relationship between teachers and students? )

The ancients said, "Teaching and learning learn from each other." Teaching and learning is a process in which teachers and students accompany each other, promote each other and grow together. On the one hand, our study is inseparable from the guidance and guidance of teachers; On the other hand, our interaction with teachers can also promote teachers to "teach" better.

(2) How do we communicate with teachers? How to establish a teacher-student relationship that benefits both teaching and learning? )

Facing the guidance and guidance of teachers, active participation, diligent study and curious attitude will help us communicate with teachers. Expressing one's views and opinions to teachers sincerely and appropriately is not only a positive feedback to teachers, but also a new resource for teachers and students to learn together; Sharing your learning experience and achievements with teachers can promote the progress of teachers and students.

Learning to treat teachers' praise and criticism correctly is an important part of our growth. Teacher's praise means affirmation, encouragement and expectation, which encourages us to study and develop better; Teacher's criticism means caring, reminding and persuading, which can help us to reflect on ourselves and improve our shortcomings. When dealing with the teacher's criticism, we should pay attention to the content and intention of the teacher's criticism and understand the teacher's good intentions.

Be a teacher and a friend

(1) What is the good state of communication between teachers and students?

Students are willing to learn, teachers are entertaining, teachers and students respect each other, care for each other and work together, which is a good state of teacher-student communication.

(2) How to establish a good relationship with teachers?

Mutual respect is the beginning of establishing a good relationship with teachers. Mutual respect between teachers and students means respecting each other's personal dignity, personality differences and labor achievements. Respecting teachers and attaching importance to morality is a fine tradition of the Chinese nation, and it is also our basic moral cultivation as a "younger generation". It not only reflects our inner feelings and attitudes, but also reflects our daily communication with teachers. In the interaction between teachers and students who treat each other as equals and promote each other, we can become friends of teachers. Teachers are the guides of our knowledge learning and our spiritual growth. Teachers give us life care and emotional care, and we should also take the initiative to care for and understand teachers.

(3) What should I do if I disagree with my teacher?

Self-reflection, calm and objective analysis of the reasons. Reflect on what you are not doing well and how to change. If you are a teacher, think about how to communicate with the teacher.

Believe in goodwill and be more tolerant and understanding. Believe in the teacher's kindness, be willing to understand the teacher, be reasonable and appropriate, take the initiative to admit mistakes and be unreasonable.

Be honest with each other and pay attention to communication methods. Take the initiative to exchange views with teachers and express their views clearly, calmly and frankly, which is well-founded; Choose the right time, place and occasion; Choose expressions that teachers can easily accept, such as whispering and writing notes.

Seek common ground while reserving differences and take the initiative to care. Most of the differences between teachers and students are caused by improper communication methods. We should find out the similarities, reserve different opinions and respect and care for teachers.

Lesson 7 Family Love

First, the meaning of home

1. Life House

(1) What is family?

Family is a relative living organization formed by marriage, consanguinity or adoption.

(2) What does home mean to us? (relationship with family? )

Home is where we live physically and mentally. Everyone has his own home. Our life is given by our parents, and our growth is inseparable from the upbringing and support of our families.

2. China people's "home"

(1) Why should we honor our parents?

In China culture, home has profound meaning and rich connotation. In the eyes of China people, home is the same living body that has been handed down from generation to generation and is a sweet, warm and relaxed haven. Filial piety is an important spiritual connotation of China's family culture. Respecting the elders is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation and the legal obligation of every citizen in China.

(2) How can we be filial to our parents and respect our elders?

Filial piety is present. Filial piety to parents and elders and caring for family members are not just a matter of growing up. From now on, we should express our filial piety with actions. Respect. Respect parents and elders and listen to their opinions and teachings. If you have different opinions, don't rush to refute them, but communicate rationally. Listen. Close and harmonious relationship with parents and elders, and listen to their voices. Keep in touch with your parents and elders when they are not around. Gratitude. Gratitude, gratitude, express gratitude with actions.

Second, love is at home

1. Appreciate the family (how can we appreciate the family? )

Reason: Everyone has a feeling of giving up on their family. This kind of feeling, either because they gave us life, or because they worked hard for our lives, or because they shared our joys and sorrows, or because they were important influencers in our lives, or because they were companions and witnesses of our growth, is family.

Performance: The love between relatives is meticulous, affectionate, empathetic to each family's affection, warm and harmonious, stumbling, reserved and deep, and natural and easy-going. Sometimes we may ignore it because of its triviality, and sometimes we seem to feel the affection we long for, and even deny the existence of affection.

Change: In real life, due to the departure of relatives and the appearance of new members, our family structure will also change. However, as long as you feel it with your heart, you will find that your family is still there, although the form of expression may change.

2. The collision of love

(1) What happened to our relationship with our parents?

When we entered junior high school, we realized that we had grown up and the relationship with our families had undergone subtle changes. On the one hand, we hope that our parents will respect us adults and not interfere too much in our lives; On the other hand, in the face of parents' trust and letting go, we sometimes feel lost and uneasy, expecting more attention and care.

We began to examine the love our parents gave us, questioned our parents, and even challenged their authority and experience. The collision between parents and children is increasing, sometimes accompanied by sweetness, sometimes tension and even conflict. This is an unavoidable problem when we grow up.

(2) Why do we have conflicts with our parents?

As two generations, because we are very different from our parents in thought, knowledge and experience, our understanding and feelings about the problem will inevitably be different, and conflicts are inevitable. If it is not handled well, the contradiction between parents and children will hurt the feelings of both sides and affect the harmony of the family. Effectively resolving contradictions requires both parents to set an example and our own efforts.

3. Communicate and pass on love

(1) How do we communicate with our parents?

As children, we can't choose our parents' looks, personalities, wealth, attitudes towards us and ways to educate us, but we can try to accept their parents' practices and understand the love contained in their behaviors. We can try to let our parents know about our changes and needs and express our love in a way that they can accept.

Love needs care. The skills of interactive communication and the wisdom of dealing with conflicts are the lubricants of love between parents and children. Love deepens in communication, and the contradiction between parents and children needs to be solved through good interactive communication.

We should learn how to deal with conflicts. If you have conflicts with your parents, you can choose a way that does not hurt your parents' feelings and does not affect the parent-child relationship. After all, you are a junior. You should respect your parents, be polite to others, try to avoid harsh language, especially offensive language, and grasp the bottom line of your behavior.

(2) What are the communication skills with parents?

Pay attention to the facts. Seize the opportunity and pay attention to your attitude. Selection method. Consider the environment.

Third, make the home better.

1. Modern family

(1) What changes have taken place in modern families?

With the evolution of social history, the structure, scale and concept of modern families have changed to varying degrees. Families are getting smaller and smaller, and family relationships are getting simpler and simpler. From the big family with children and grandchildren in the past to the miniaturization of today's family, the family structure in China has undergone great changes in the past decades. With the migration and flow of population and the enrichment of modern communication means, the communication and communication methods of family members have changed greatly. The family atmosphere is becoming more and more equal and democratic.

(2) What is the important content of modern family life?

Caring about world and state affairs, discussing social and life issues, learning modern scientific and cultural knowledge, creating learning families and participating in community activities have become important contents of modern family life.

2. I contribute to a harmonious family.

(1) Why do families have conflicts?

In a family, grandparents, fathers and children have different values and lifestyles. These differences may bring contradictions and conflicts between family members and affect family harmony.

(2) How to build a harmonious family?

Everything goes well at home. Harmony among family members is an important condition for family happiness. This requires mutual understanding, trust, consideration and tolerance among family members.

Effective communication can enhance understanding and resolve contradictions and conflicts.

(3) How to adjust the contradiction or conflict between family members.