No matter where you are, you can only get along like a duck to water if you have good interpersonal relationships. Now let's do a test to see if your interpersonal relationship has passed. The following is my psychological test: Have you passed the interpersonal relationship? Welcome to read the collection.
When you walk towards a sleeping baby, his eyes will suddenly open. How do you think the baby will react?
A burst of crying
Smile happily
Continue to sleep
Are you ready? Don't peek at the answer!
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allow
steal
look
answer
situation
Answer analysis:
You are a person with no self-confidence. You are afraid of dealing with people and exposing your shortcomings, so you are trapped in your own small world. If you can make changes, make yourself confident and take an active part in some group activities, I believe you will make many friends.
B You are a confident person with excellent communication skills, and it is extremely easy to get along with others, but you should be careful not to be too confident, thus ignoring the thoughts and feelings of others.
You are a very introverted person. Relatively speaking, getting along with others is not as happy as being alone, so you don't want to make friends at all, and you don't feel the need to get involved in other people's world. But you need to pay attention to teamwork in your work, so I suggest you change this shortcoming more.
Good relationship
1, how to establish a good interpersonal relationship with people?
Communication is the most important part of interpersonal relationship. It is a process of transferring emotions, attitudes, facts, beliefs and ideas between people. So good communication refers to a two-way communication process. You're not speaking alone, you're not casting pearls before swine, you're not letting the other person sing a monologue, but you're listening to what the other person is saying with your heart. To understand what the other person is thinking. How does the other person feel? Give your thoughts back to each other. In the process of communication, misunderstanding may be caused due to the characteristics of the communicator or the way of communication. Therefore, the sender and the receiver must clarify whether what they receive and understand is consistent through constant feedback.
In addition, there are many simple things that can help us build good interpersonal relationships with others: deep self-awareness and acceptance. Always keep a sincere attitude. A humble and gentle heart. Moderate self-expression. Respect others and appreciate yourself. Find a partner with the same values. In addition to interpersonal barriers. Service life view. Obey the rules of the group. Positive interpersonal growth.
2. How to maintain good interpersonal relationships and live in harmony?
The external expression of interpersonal relationship is ethics, which is a reasonable division between people. Yan Yuan's The Analects of Confucius: "Qi Jinggong asked Confucius about politics. Confucius said to him:' monarch, minister, father, son, son', which explained the meaning that monarch, minister and son should keep their duties. Interpersonal relationship is based on this, so that each component can have appropriate thoughts, words, behavior patterns and values according to its role, responsibility and position, so as to achieve a good organizational atmosphere and improve organizational efficiency. Improving the ability to communicate effectively with others is the first condition to maintain good interpersonal relationships.
The following general rules provide reference: imagine from each other's position, care about each other, and communicate with enthusiasm, respect and understanding. Understand communication barriers and try to break through them. Have the willingness to communicate with others, listen with an open mind, and never make a value judgment immediately, but it is best to imagine from the other party's position and viewpoint. Be a good listener and listen to each other's thoughts and feelings with your heart, not just literally. Then tell each other frankly, what did we hear? What are your feelings and thoughts? Be considerate, we don't have to agree with other people's different opinions, but if we can understand others, we will be very happy ourselves. Strengthening your understanding of yourself and knowing what you will say is also one of the skills to maintain good interpersonal relationships with others. Be good at handling your emotions, and don't let bad emotions affect your relationship with the people around you.
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