Long time no see, say: "Long time no see"
When a guest arrives, say: "Come"
When waiting for a guest, say: "Welcome"
When visiting someone, say: "Visit"
When getting up to say goodbye, say: "Farewell"
When asking someone for help, say: "Excuse me"
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< p>When meeting for the first time, say: I have been with you for a long timeIf you leave in the middle, say: I'm sorry
Please don't send me off, but say: Stay here
Ask for criticism , say: give advice
When asking someone for advice, say: teach
When asking someone to do something, say: please
To trouble others, say: bother< /p>
Ask for forgiveness and say: forgive me
Say "Hello" when you meet someone. Say "Your surname" when asked for someone's last name. Say "My family" when asked for their address.
I have admired you for a long time and said "Long time". I haven't seen you for a long time and said "Long time no see". When asking for help, you said "Excuse me"
When asking for help, you said "Excuse me". When asking for help, you said "Trouble". When asking for help, you said "please"< /p>
When asking for help, say "please"; when asking for trouble, say "bother"; when asking for help, say "borrow the light"
Please change the article and say "correct"; when accepting kindness, say "appreciate"; when asking for advice, say "enlightenment"
Say "thank you" when receiving help, "take care" when wishing others good health, "congratulations" when congratulating others.
Say "longevity" to old people due to their age, "not well" when feeling unwell, and "not well" when visiting others. "Visit"
When asking someone to accept it, say "Xiao Na"; to give someone a photo, say "Hui Cun"; to welcome the purchase, say "Patron"
To wish someone to take care of him, say "Care"; to praise someone's opinion, say "Good View" ” When returning items, say “return”
When inviting someone to an appointment, say “reward”; when the other party writes a letter, say “favor”; when living at home, say “humble house”
You need to consider saying “consider”; when someone cannot satisfy you, "I'm sorry", ask for forgiveness and say "forgive me"
"I'm sorry" for inappropriate words and deeds. Condolence to others and say "hard work". When greeting guests, say "welcome"
When guests arrive, say "come" and wait. Say "Welcome" to others. Say "Welcome" if you fail to greet them
Say "Please take a seat" when a guest is seated. Say "Please accompany me" when accompanying a friend. Say "Goodbye" when parting.
Leave in the middle of the journey. Say "Excuse me". Please don't send someone off. Say "Stay". Say "Peace" when sending someone away.
Original address: Ancient Social Phrases Author: Huang Xinyang
Say "Long time greeting" when meeting someone for the first time. ; Use "waiting" when waiting for guests;
Use "huishu" when the other party writes; "Excuse me" when asking for help;
Use "please" when asking someone to do something; use "please" when asking for advice; "To teach";
To praise someone's opinion, use "gain"; to ask for forgiveness, use "forgiveness";
To ask for an old man's age, use "longevity"; when guests come, use "to come";
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Use "goodbye" to say goodbye to someone; use "visit" to see others;
Use "stay" to ask someone not to see them off; use "excuse me" to trouble others;
To ask for help, say "borrow light"; to ask for advice, say "ask for advice";
Welcome to buy, say "to patronize"; to say "Long time no see";
To leave midway, use "lost" "compensate"; use "axizheng" for gifting works.
A collection of ancient age titles
Infant: less than one year old.
Children: two to three years old.
The first and sixth years: a girl is seven years old.
The beginning of the year: the boy is eight years old.
Explanation: According to the physiological conditions, boys change their teeth when they are eight years old and girls turn seven years old. They lose their deciduous teeth and grow permanent teeth. This time is called "nian", "nian" or "nian".
General angle: a general term for childhood.
The year of hanging bun: refers to children. (In ancient times, children’s hair drooped, which was extended to refer to minors.)
Huangkou: under ten years old.
Kindergarten: Ten years old. ("Book of Rites? Qu Lishang": "The ten years of life are called youth and learning." Because there is no punctuation in ancient writing, people intercepted the word "Youxue" as the name for ten years old.)
Jin Chai Year: The girl is twelve years old.
The Cardamom Years: The woman is thirteen years old.
Zhixue: Fifteen years old. (The Analects of Confucius: Confucius said: "I am fifteen years old and determined to learn...")
Hairlock: The woman is fifteen years old. ("Book of Rites? Nei Principles": "A woman's hairpin is only fifteen years old.")
The year of the jade, the year of breaking the melon: the woman is sixteen years old.
(In the old days, literati used the word "melon" to indicate the year of twenty-eight, which means sixteen years old. It was mostly used for women.)
Weak crown: twenty years old. ("Book of Rites? Qu Li 1": "Twenty means weak crown.")
The Peach and Plum Years: A woman is twenty years old.
Flower years: The woman is twenty-four years old.
Eli: Thirty years old.
Buhuo: Forty years old.
Destiny: fifty years old. (The Analects of Confucius: Confucius said: "When I was fifteen, I was determined to learn; when I was thirty, I was established; when I was forty, I was not confused; when I was fifty, I knew the destiny of heaven; when I was sixty, my ears were obedient; when I was seventy, I followed my heart's desires without exceeding the rules.") < /p>
The age of Zhifei: fifty years old. ("Huainanzi? Original Daoxun": "Boyu was fifty years old, but there were forty-nine years." It is said that there was a boyyu in the Spring and Autumn Period of Weiguo. He kept reflecting on himself, and when he was fifty years old, he knew that he had been forty-nine years. The mistake in the middle of the year is called "Zhi Fei" in later generations.)
The year of Er Shun and Sixtieth Year: sixty years old. (Since ancient times, our country has used heavenly stems and earthly branches to coordinate with each other, which can form sixty pairs of stems and branches, so it is called "Sixty Stems and Branches" or "Sixty Years of Flowers", so the age of sixty is also called the "Year of the Sixty Years".)< /p>
Seventy years old. (Du Fu's "Two Poems on Qujiang": "Drinking debts are commonplace, but rare in seventy years of life.")
Old age: eighty or ninety years old. ("Book of Rites? Qu Li": "Eighty-nine-year-old is called an old man." Based on this explanation, people use the two characters together to refer to eighty-year-old and ninety-year-old people.)
Qiyi: a hundred-year-old person . ("Book of Rites? Qu Li": "A hundred years is called Qi Yi." It means that life lasts for hundreds of years, so a hundred years is called "the year of Qi Yi." Chen Hao, a man of the Yuan Dynasty, explained: "A life span of one hundred years is called "Qi Yi". period; food, daily life, and moving things all need to be nourished, so it is called "Yi")
1. Friendships over the years - break down the differences in age and generation and become good friends.
2. Obsessive friendship - regardless of defects or ugliness, we form friends regardless of you or me.
3. Junzijiao - refers to moral friends, that is, friends who support each other morally.
4. Don’t go against each other - refers to friends who share the same mind with each other and will never disobey.
5. Chuujiao - refers to a friend who has a deep friendship and can share life and death, and endure hardships.
6. Friends of the poor and lowly - friends made when they are poor and down-and-out.
7. Best friend - the friend with the deepest friendship and no suspicion.
8. World friendship - also known as world friendship and world good. Refers to the friendship between the two families for generations.
9. Old friends - historically referred to as old friends, old friends, and old friends. Generally refers to old friends who have friendship.
10. A casual acquaintance - just acquaintance, but not much understanding.
11. Market acquaintance - a friend made by doing business in ancient times. Because of his excessive interest in profit and forgetfulness of loyalty, he was later called a friend of a villain.
12. Bunun friends - according to custom, friends made by ordinary people.
13. Friendly friends between the rich and the poor.
14. Friends in need - friends made in adversity.
15. Friendships made through drinking and drinking.
16. Friendship between childhood and childhood. Also known as the turn of the total angle.
17. Deep-rooted acquaintance - a close friend.
18. The acquaintance of glue and paint - a close friend.
19. Friends of life and death - friends of life, death and sex.
20. Friends by chance - friends made through accidental encounters.
21. Nodding acquaintance - a friend who only nods to say hello in the relationship and has no deep feelings.
22. Casual acquaintance - a friend who has ordinary and superficial relationships.
23. Half-face acquaintance - someone you have met but are not familiar with.
24. The friendship between brothers and sisters who worshiped each other in the old days.
25. Friendship between pestle and mortar - making friends does not mean poverty.
26. A golden acquaintance - a precious and valuable exchange.
In ancient Chinese culture, there were different names and titles for the etiquette of making friends. Here are 20 examples of common friendship titles, namely common friend, Chujiujiao, heartfelt friend, old friend, golden orchid friend, gold and stone friend, gentleman's friend, money friend, irreversible friend, poor and humble friend, divine friend, Stone acquaintance, worldly acquaintance, great acquaintance, forgotten acquaintance, forgetful acquaintance, cut-to-the-neck acquaintance, reincarnation acquaintance, best acquaintance, bamboo-horse acquaintance, etc.
Friendship between ordinary people - refers to the communication between ordinary people who get along as equals.
The quote comes from "Historical Records: Biography of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "I thought that a friend of commoners would not deceive each other, how could it matter in a big country?"
杵非交 - refers to a friend who does not mind being poor and lowly. The words come from "Dongguan Hanji? Wu Youzhuan": "Then we became friends between the pestle and the mortar."
Friends of the heart - refers to friends who talk about everything and confide in each other. The words come from Bai Juyi's "A Hundred Rhymes of Poems in Daishu": "There is no separation between the heart and soul, and the body and mind are unruly."
Old friends - refers to old friends. The poem comes from Du Xunhe of the Tang Dynasty's poem "Walking with Old Friends in the Mountains": "Sitting late at night in the mountains, we have few friends at home."
Jinlan Zhijia - refers to friends who have a close friendship and are like brothers. The quote comes from "Shishuoxinyu·Xianyuan": "The monkey, Ji and Ruan are as close as a golden orchid."
Jinshizhijia - refers to a friend whose friendship is as solid as gold and stone. The words come from the "Book of Han? Han Xin Biography": "Although I think that the King of Han is a friend of gold and stone, I will eventually be captured by the King of Han."
The friendship of gentlemen means that the emphasis is on morality rather than plainness. superficial friends. Quotation from "Zhuangzi Shanmu": "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as sweet wine."
Jianjiao - refers to friends with deep friendship. The quote comes from "The Biography of Du Jing": "Kong Dian in Kuaiji was a man of great integrity, and we made friends as soon as we met."
Inseparable acquaintance - refers to a friend who shares the same affection and has a profound friendship. The quote comes from "History of the Northern Zhou Dynasty? Biography of Li Jing": "Although he lived alone in poverty, he did not suffer from hunger and cold, and he became an irreplaceable friend with Fan Yang and Lu Daoyuan." The quote comes from "The Book of the Later Han Dynasty? Song Hong Biography": "(Emperor Guangwu) said to Hong: 'As the proverb says, wealth is easy to make friends, and wealth is easy to wife, how about human feelings?' Hong said: 'I heard that the knowledge of poverty and lowliness should not be forgotten, and the wife of chaff will not go to the court. . '"
Shenjia - refers to a friend who has the same mind. The words come from "Jiang Biao Zhuan": "Gu and Tzuyu can be said to have a spiritual friendship, which is not what foreigners have heard of."
Shijiao - refers to a friend whose friendship is as solid as a rock. The quote comes from "Historical Records? Biography of Su Qin": "This is the so-called person who abandons his hatred and gains the friendship of stone."
World friends - refers to friends who have been friends for generations. The quote comes from "Book of Jin? Biography of He Shao": "Taibao and Yi have been friends for many generations."
Shuojiao - refers to a friend with a very strong friendship. The words come from "Selected Works? Ruan Yu's "A Letter to Cao Gong and Sun Quan"": "But endure the king's orders, and clearly abandon the friendship."
The acquaintance who forgets the years - refers to not being friends based on age or seniority. Only friends made by virtue of their character can be made. The quote comes from the "History of the South? Biography of He Xun": "Weak Guanzhou promoted talents, and Fan Yun of Nanxiang praised his countermeasures, so we finally forgot about our friendship."
Old friends - refers to regardless of identity , a close friend. The quote comes from the "New Book of Tang? Biography of Meng Jiao": "Xiaoyin Songshan, sexual intercourse, less harmonious. When Han Yu met, they were forgetful friends."
The acquaintance who cut his neck to death - refers to the same life and death. ***A friend in need. The quote comes from the "Historical Records? Biography of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "The two died and fell in love with each other, and they became friends who cut their necks."
Friends in the second generation - refers to becoming friends with both father and son. The quote comes from "History of the Song Dynasty? Biography of Shao Bowen": "Bo Wen joined his father's religion, and when he came out, he served Sima Guang and others, and Guang and others also lived in fame and position, and became friends with Bowen again."
Best friend - refers to the friend with the deepest friendship. It comes from Meng Jiao's poem "Encouragement to Study": "When you reach nirvana, you will never be alone, and your best friends will never doubt you."
Friends between friends - refers to friends in childhood. The quote comes from "Shishuo Xinyu? Fangzheng": "The Emperor said: 'How about chatting about the old and reminiscing about the friendship between bamboo horses?'" Polite titles among relatives and friends
Parents are called Gaotang, parents, and knees.
Parents are called father, family strict; mother, family loving.
After the death of the father, he was called: "Xianfu, Xianyan, Xiankao".
When the mother dies, she is called: Xianmu, Xianci, Xian*.
Brothers and sisters call themselves brother, brother, sister, or sister.
Brothers are called Kunzhong and Sizu.
Husband and wife are called husband and wife, spouse, and partner.
The names of deceased peers are: deceased brother, deceased brother, deceased sister, deceased wife.
Other people’s parents call them: Your Majesty, Your Majesty.
Although brother and sister are called brother and sister.
Although people's children are called: son and daughter.
The wife's father is called: father-in-law, father-in-law, Taishan.
Other people’s families are called: Fushang, Zunfu.
The names of my family are: Humble House, House, and Thatched Cottage.
Men and women are collectively called men: men are called men, and women are called women.
The death of five parties in the couple means: widowed.
The teacher is called: mentor and master.
Students are called disciples and students. The school said: Hanchuang.
Classmates are called classmates.
A collection of ancient names for making friends
Since ancient times, people have had many unique names for making friends. Here are a few examples for readers’ reference.
Old friend: old friend. For example, Du Xunhe, a poet of the Tang Dynasty, said in "The Love of Friendship with Old Friends in the Mountains": "Sitting late at night in the mountains, the friendship with old friends at sea is rare." The poet Lu Xilin of the Tang Dynasty, "Chicken Lying in the Mountain": "The beauty of the beauty is exhausted, but the friendship with old friends is light on the white wall."
Sujiao: friendship between friends during the Spring Festival. Du Fu, a poet of the Tang Dynasty, wrote in "The Bookstore of the Old Husi School": "Then there were works by Shanyang, which I am ashamed of Uncle Bao's knowledge of. The old acquaintances were all in pieces, and tears were hanging down from the white heads."
Lan Jiao: "Yi?" "Xi Ci Shang": "When two people are of the same mind, their strength is as strong as gold; when two people are of the same mind, their stench is like orchid." Later, "lanjiao" was used as a metaphor for people who have the same spirit.
Financial friends: friends who use money to make friends. "Warring States Policy? Chu Ceyi": "Those who make friends with money will lose their wealth and the friendship will end; those who make friends with sex will lose their beauty and love you."
Xinjiao: a close friend. Bao Rong of the Tang Dynasty wrote in "Farewell to the Scholars of the Xiao Dynasty": I leave my heart to Xijing, and my soul is filled with sorrow and cannot easily wake up. From then on, no one came to visit the poor sick, and the horseshoe ruts and the grass were green. ”
Senior friends: refers to people or families with whom we have had friendships in previous generations. Hu Yin’s "He Yuan Yuan Zuo" of the Song Dynasty said: "Senior friendships are said to be close, and we should not let them grow distant as we age." "
Best friend: deep friendship, also refers to the friend with the deepest friendship. "Southern History? Biography of Condi": "A good student of allusions, I am an acquaintance of Wang Jian. " Meng Jiao, a poet of the Tang Dynasty, "Encouraging Friends": "The truth is clear, and the best friend is indifferent. Life is quiet and turbulent, don't be tired of admonishing others. "
Cutting neck friends: refers to friends who share life, death, and adversity. The saying comes from "Historical Records? Biographies of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "The soldiers are in love with each other, and they are friends who cut their necks." "Historical Records: Biography of Zhang Er and Chen Yu": "When Yu was young, he became acquainted with Zhang Er. The two of them fought each other to death. "
Wangnianjiao: Refers to good friends formed by like-minded people regardless of age or seniority. The phrase comes from "The Biography of He Xun in Southern History": "(He Xun) is weak in the crown, the state promotes talents, and Nanxiang is a model When Yun saw his countermeasures, he praised him greatly, and they became friends for many years. "
Buyijiao: a friend of the poor and lowly. It also refers to not being arrogant about one's power and position, but getting along as equals as acquaintances of the poor and lowly. The quote comes from "Historical Records? Biography of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "I think that the friend of the commoner is not a good friend." How can we bully each other in a big country? ”
Light friendship: Friends who are not made because of power. The Tang Dynasty poet Luo Binwang’s "Ode to Water": "In the end, we should rely on the best and be willing to make friends with others." ”