We hope our other half will be equal or higher because of our own improvement. We hope that we can have a * * * in our thoughts and have the same topic with our marriage partners, instead of living together. This is the so-called quality is better than quantity.

I think being picky in this question is derogatory, but in my opinion, being picky is responsible for yourself. We have the right to choose our partner and the right not to choose our partner.