I accept it, but my wife must also accept it.

Before I got married, I felt that marriage and love were not sacred, but at least they were full of ritual. Before I got married, I saw some news about wife swapping and thought it was too unbelievable and I couldn't accept it. It was called a perversion.

I have been besieging the city for more than eight years, still struggling with daily necessities. The scenery of each besieged city is completely different, but basically every besieged city has to face a hillside. There is no need to argue too much about diet for men and women. Slowly I came to understand the behavior of wife-swapping.

Compared to one-sided cheating, cheating, mistress, left breast and right breast.

Open marriage is not a required answer, but it can be one of the pre-selected answers.

It is also one of the manifestations of the increasingly equal social relationship between men and women.

It’s just that it deviates too much from tradition, so it will be scorned by many people. Whether they are in marriage or have not yet entered the siege.

After returning to married life, food, clothing, housing and transportation, and crossing the hurdle of daily necessities, we can talk about whether to open up or not. Those who can have smooth contact and listening in an open marriage can only do so after their material life is stable, their relationship lasts for more than 10 years, and the wall is high and thick. Only then can you get involved. Because sex is just one of the instincts of humans and animals. Emotion is the ultimate link between all things.

Some people have said that marriage is just a way of life. If you choose this way of life, then two people have to book the rules together. Don't stick to a framework. Just find the direction that makes the two of you most comfortable. After all, life is only once.

Open marriage is a sexually free lifestyle instigated by the Western "sexual revolution" and "sexual liberation". It believes that although married, both spouses still have free and equal rights and can Have sex with people of the opposite sex other than your partner according to your own wishes. The so-called "My life and my body are my own. I decide everything about me!"

This concept is completely wrong, absolutely wrong. No one has any reason or qualification to have such an extremely irresponsible attitude towards themselves and life, and to use extreme individualism and selfish liberalism to find rational reasons for indulging desires and enjoying themselves in time. An open marriage can only bring irreparable harm and bitter consequences to yourself, your family, your children, and society.

First of all, it is causing harm to your body. Open marriage advocates extramarital sex, which brings many unpredictable risks to oneself. When you have sex with a stranger other than your partner, you don’t know whether the other person has STDs or AIDS, and you don’t know what kind of person you will meet. In the past, PUA artillery was notorious and had a bad impact on society. Some people maliciously spread AIDS, causing lifelong harm to many ignorant women. This is a bloody lesson.

Second, open marriage makes couples no longer trust and be loyal to each other, and are replaced by suspicion, jealousy, anger and even violence. People are human, and everyone longs for security, and longs to be loved and respected. Timothy said, "Even in heaven, loneliness is a troublesome thing. Only love can make people feel satisfied." Open marriages destroy couples. The killer of love between people, people are tortured like hell in betrayal and resentment, leading to the breakdown of families and the disintegration of marriages.

Third, open marriages have led to an increasing number of broken families, a sharp rise in divorce rates, fewer and fewer healthy families, and more and more problem teenagers. Teenagers engage in immoral sexual promiscuity, neglect their studies due to the temptation of pornography, become pregnant, have abortions, take drugs, commit violence, have sexual promiscuity, contract sexually transmitted diseases, and even contract HIV, becoming victims of the ignorant ideas of liberalism.

Marriage and family are the cornerstone of modern society. The dissolution of marriage directly shakes the foundation of society, threatens the progress, survival and development of human civilization, and will eventually lead to the demise of human society. Regardless of individuals, communities, or nations, whether rich or poor, high or low, high or low, in ancient times, today, or in the future, all promiscuous behaviors that violate traditional sexual morality will definitely violate the laws of nature, destroy social order, and will eventually be affected by nature. and social punishment.

Oaths of eternal love, eternal love and eternal love, never to be separated. Since ancient times, traditional families in Chinese society have generally regarded the fidelity of love between the two sexes as a virtue, and the husband and wife share family responsibilities and raise their children as virtues.

The unity of sex and marriage, and the unity of sex and love within marriage, are completely in line with the laws of nature and present the truth, goodness and beauty of the innocent relationship between the sexes. Only in this way is the road to happiness.

The so-called open marriage is nothing more than a pseudo-marriage under the guise of marriage.

Incest among couples is neither in line with family ethics nor in line with cultural traditions, and goes against normal human nature.

In human society, there have always been a handful of incredible people doing amazing and incredible things. They openly use the flag of an open marriage to engage in lewd and scandalous acts that are not allowed by the law and despised by society. Ten years ago, two wife-swapping incidents that caused a sensation on the Internet were typical examples of open marriages.

Ma Yaochun, an associate professor at a university in Nanjing, became deeply involved in it because he registered as a member of a couples dating website, and established his own "wife-swapping game" group. At its peak, there were more than 190 members with low moral character. From participating in Wife swapping and sexual intercourse with multiple people at the same time. In 2010, the man was sentenced for gathering a crowd for lewdness. Specific reports on his case can be found online by searching.

In 2004, Su Jing and his wife founded the "Couple Bar" website, started "couple making friends", and published self-reported online articles promoting open marriage. In 2006, Su Jing participated in the "Temperature Decoding" video program of Ifeng.com and talked openly about her experience of "couples making friends". After being expelled from their original employer, the couple traveled to Beijing, Shenzhen and other places and continued to operate and spread the bad culture of wife-swapping and gathering for sexual intercourse through various blogs, websites and other forms. Although its website with various names has been banned many times, its evil has not been eradicated at present, and there are still articles on the Internet about being outstanding.

Even if it is another type, a man and a woman who do not interfere with each other's private life, have their own love outside of marriage, and have normal psychology, can no longer care and love each other. Maybe there are just some people who say they can do it, but we have nothing to say.

Open marriage generally means that there are no restrictions on each other's sexual needs and behaviors within marriage, and you can freely choose the sexual friendship you like outside marriage. There are many forms of open marriage, such as each playing his or her own role without interfering or interfering with each other, such as the couple making friends together, going out together to find other couples or single men to join in the sex life that belongs to two people, etc.

This issue cannot be treated with a single blow. It has its own reasons. There is no right or wrong in an open marriage, because this is a decision made after mutual consultation between the husband and wife. It’s OK if everyone agrees. If you advocate loyal love, then close the door to marriage and let the two of you protect a warm home together. If you are open-minded and believe that sex and love can be separated, then you can try a richer life outside of marriage.

But in real life, two people are loyal to love, and it is very rare for you and me to be together for the rest of our lives. More than 95% of most couples have one or both parties secretly engaging in activities outside of marriage. If one day they are discovered, they will often fight or get divorced directly.

Now we have to talk about the root cause of extramarital sex. One, dullness; two, indifference to each other; three, quarrel; four, animality.

Real friendship between husband and wife can avoid the above-mentioned marital crises. Families where couples make friends generally have deep feelings, are considerate of each other, and are willing to satisfy each other's animal needs outside of marriage. This adds a fresh element to the marriage, making the marriage no longer dull and making each other more passionate. If two people have great mutual tolerance and understanding, they will rarely quarrel.

Therefore, couples making friends is a more advanced marriage model. It is a niche phenomenon in our country, but it has a history of nearly a hundred years abroad. This is not a scourge, but a more humane choice made by two people in order to explore the true meaning of life. ;

Not only can I not accept it, I also strongly oppose it. I am a rural woman, a traditional woman, a conservative woman, some "feudal" women, a not open woman.

Those who propose open marriage are not humans but beasts and hooligans. They are the main culprits who destroy happy families, destroy happy marriages, mess up society, and corrupt the nation.

Love is both noble and selfish, and cannot be tainted or tainted by others. Marriage between husband and wife is also selfish and does not allow a third party or more to participate and share.

The husband is his wife's private "property", and the wife is also her husband's private "property". No one can infringe, share or possess it.

In an open marriage, a man can enjoy a married life with whichever woman he likes, and a woman can enjoy a married life with any man she likes. Are such men and women still human beings? What is the difference between it and animals? Is there still love in the world? Is there still marriage? If society is not completely in chaos, will mankind still develop?

In the name of openness, couples have promiscuous sex with other people. Not to mention sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS and other diseases are like floods pouring into the world. Whose pregnancy and child are they? Who will raise her and whom will she marry?

It is hard to imagine that a husband would comfort other queens and then comfort his own wife, and then suppress other women and then suppress his own wife. In the same way, a wife can be rubbed by someone else and then be rubbed by her husband. After being touched by someone else, a wife can be touched by her own husband. In this way, both men and women can enjoy it together. Wouldn't that be a step backwards, back to primitive society?

How do others open up? I don't care and I can't control it. My husband belongs to me personally, and I belong to my husband personally. No one can share or possess it. No one can come in and ruin our lives, our families and our marriages.

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As for the marriage model, everyone can choose freely.

1. Ordinary people basically cannot accept a completely open marriage, and they do not have the financial foundation to support such a married life.

Face the reality, it would be nice for a poor man to have a wife, but how can he dare to expect an open marriage? That kind of marriage has no constraints at all, and you can come and go freely. There is no difference between yes and no. Unless you are attractive enough, you can attract many members of the opposite sex to maintain an open marriage with you.

2. This marriage pattern may exist among relatively wealthy people.

For example, people with a solid economic foundation such as a certain celebrity or a certain boss. They may be looking forward to such a marriage, in which the first wife will not interfere with their extramarital affairs, and they will continue to provide financial resources to the first wife, so that each can enjoy their own affairs without interfering with each other. On the surface, their marriage is a perfect whole, with children, a family, good financial conditions, and a happy marriage. However, such a marriage may collapse at any time. Unless the two people stick to their promise not to divorce, or one party will lose a lot of property due to divorce, etc. As a result, a seemingly happy marriage actually existed in name only.

Personally, my concept of marriage is relatively conservative and I cannot accept such a marriage at all.

There is no difference between an open marriage and a PC. It is possible to change partners every day, and changing partners again and again will definitely bring about the infection of various diseases and cause trouble to each other.

Here, I suggest that everyone collectively boycott open marriages. Everyone is welcome to leave comments and messages.

Haha, is this marriage? What’s on people’s minds these days? Primitive society?

Okay, based on what you said, I will list the following situations for you. If you can accept it, I have nothing to say. Your marriage will happen without disturbing each other’s private lives: < /p>

1. After your husband or wife earns money, instead of supplementing the family income, they go out to find one of "him" to eat, drink and have fun.

2. If you are a man and your wife has someone else’s child outside, and you don’t know whose child it is, will you still have to take care of her various reactions during pregnancy when you come back? Because you are not going to Do you care about each other?

3. Your family is well off and there is no shortage of money. "He" is having fun with his beloved one in other places. You are sick at home and need help. You call him. Do you think he Will I return home in time to help you?

4. If you were a man and your wife was playing outside with 4.5 men at the same time, would you still call her to ask her to take a rest, or would you just go and play with her with a condom?

5. When a man suddenly has a child outside and he doesn’t know what to do, should the woman comfort him and ask him to be careful next time?

6. If a man or woman brings her and other people’s children home, do you also have to take on the responsibility of a mother or father? Because you have to care about each other!

7. If your family situation is average and "he" wants to ask you for money to buy a car or a house for him, do you also have to contribute some money? You should support each other when he is in trouble. Care!

8. "He" has no money to take drugs outside and needs it urgently. Do you want to help him when he is in trouble, or go out and buy some for him?

I am so angry at your question that I can’t even remember it. Who would have such unbearable thoughts in their mind? Why get married if you don’t want others to manage your private life? What's the point? Just for a mutual concern?

If you feel good about the above, then I have nothing to say!

In your eyes, marriage is just a piece of waste paper, and love in your eyes is just like a child playing house!

Marriage is the grave of love, but people believe that marriage without love is immoral, and finding happiness in immorality-adultery.

I’ve seen some people say that open marriages are about playfulness and indulgence, so they pursue open marriages. This is really a misunderstanding.

What I understand as an open relationship is to give the other person freedom, and not be stipulated that you must belong to only one person. You can only be unique with the other person, so there is no such restriction.

Having freedom does not mean that you will definitely develop relationships with other third parties. Just like the law does not prohibit smoking, smoking is personal freedom, so it will lead to everyone in the country smoking every day? You are allowed to smoke, but you don't smoke. This is self-discipline.

In an open relationship, two people can grow old together and stay together for life, without "cheating" on each other. It relies on mutual love for each other and self-discipline, rather than relying on morality and law. The law does not rely on public opinion to condemn cheating.

Of course, whether it is an open marriage or not, the pursuit of growing old together is not the primary goal. The pursuit of true love and being loved is more important. Strange bedfellows without feelings, forced to grow old together helplessly, are meaningless and not worthy of envy.

First of all, there is no complete definition of this open marriage. Does it mean openness and independence in life, sex, and finance? If so, then analyze the pros and cons:

Advantages: 1. Life and economic freedom, you can do whatever you want, men can have three wives and four concubines, women can take off their pants as long as they are willing The groom changes every night.

That’s it, I can only think of this as a benefit. Here comes the problem:

1. Excessive dealings lead to the disease, and you might even get pregnant.

2. Who is the father of the child? Except for the mother who is real, the others are all fake. Who will raise him?

3. Men who are short, ugly and poor will probably be eliminated by the laws of nature. Women are ugly enough to have little impact, and there are still men who are not picky eaters and have special hobbies.

4. The mother-in-law does not want to marry her daughter and receive a bride price.

5. I predict that housing prices will plummet, developers will run away, and banks will collapse. With freedom and openness, there is no concept of home. The hotel industry, pharmaceutical industry, toilet paper industry, and elderly care industry will become the pillars of the national economy, helping the economy to rapidly transform and achieve a soft landing in de-realization.

6. The number of love-hate cases has increased, causing social instability. The lifespan of beauties and handsome men is greatly shortened, which in the long run leads to a decline in the population and an improvement in the natural environment.

Since it is an open marriage, don’t get married.

Some people actually say that it is popular in the West. I don’t know which country it is from, so I can go and experience it first. You can swap wives if you like in this game! Or go to the animal world to experience it.

This question is similar to "Can you accept same-sex marriage?" "Can you accept DINK?" etc.

Personally, I think that as long as it does not violate local laws, all behaviors are acceptable. Tolerated

Everyone’s ideological, moral, and physiological needs are different. Some are congenital defects, and some are acquired changes. It is difficult for you to condemn any form in the name of morality. After all, human beings They are a group with diverse personalities, and what human society needs more is reasonable tolerance!

As any small group with special hobbies in an ordinary social background, the basic thing to do is: do not disturb others, do not harm others!

To break this sentence down, it means that if you are a gay couple, please do not selflessly show affection on a crowded street; if you are an open couple, please do not promote this kind of life to outsiders everywhere. Method, just play well in your own small circle, otherwise, you will be denounced by more "discipline committees" like the poster