I have a classmate who came back from being a soldier in college, went to college for further study, and then always felt uncomfortable getting along with him, feeling that he had more experience as a soldier than I did? Actually, I think you should look at this problem correctly. Being a soldier has its advantages. But when a soldier has no shortcomings, he is more self-disciplined and disciplined, but he is more rigid in social interaction. So you don't need to feel inferior, learn from him and make friends with him.