I always heard others say that they live happily after marriage, so I began to yearn for marriage. Especially after meeting him, I wanted to have a family even more. But after getting married, what did my husband do? It broke my heart that he wanted to divorce me for the sake of his parents. He usually used violence against me when he was angry, so I had no nostalgia for him and the two of us went through the divorce procedures.

The process of getting to know Jia Zheng was an unusual experience. In 1999, I accidentally listened to a marriage search program on a radio station, and Jia Zheng happened to participate in that program. With the mentality of making friends, I wrote a letter to Jia Zheng. Jia Zheng replied quickly, and we began to exchange letters.

I have no special feelings about Jia Zheng. I just think he is an honest and responsible person and is trustworthy. After several correspondences, Jia Zheng asked for telephone contact, but I refused to provide my phone number. Reluctantly, Jia Zheng left me his home phone number, hoping that I would take the initiative to contact him. By chance, I called Jia Zheng. Since then, our phone calls have increased and our letters have gradually decreased.

One day two months later, Jia Zheng and I made an appointment to meet. Jia Zheng is thin and wears glasses, which makes him look quite elegant. He warmly invited me to go shopping and have a meal in People's Paradise. His generosity and forthrightness at that time only increased my affection for him. In the car taking me home, he actually held my hand. I was suddenly startled: He was so brave. Although I didn't reject him, I was still quite scared. After all, it was the first time I was held by a strange man. But I don't hate him.

At that time, the pressure at work made me eager to find someone to talk to and eager to have someone to accompany me to relax. Jia Zheng knows Wuhan well. He talks eloquently every time he is with me, which makes me feel that he is a very good young man.