take advantage of the benefits to get justice (open-minded) and enter the family business training.

A big shopkeeper is equivalent to a professional manager now.

Qiao Jia's owner: Qiao Guifa, his son Qiao Zhiyong. In the heyday of the Qiao family, the family wealth accounted for one-seventh of the national treasury.

Make good friends and make good marriages: What happens with someone, which makes up my life. Make good friends, make good friends and help good friends. Regular communication, general communication.

No concubinage: to prevent disputes of jealousness and jealousy.

no whoring: avoid bad places and bad habits, and stop making bad friends.

Don't abuse servants: Maids are all married women, so as not to make a scandal.

Don't gamble: prevent financial failure.

no drugs: to protect your health and ruin your family.

Don't drink too much: prevent losing one's will and losing one's morality

The six noes of the Qiao family's family instruction are mainly to avoid disasters by staying away from "pornography and gambling", that is, "abstinence from desire". The first three articles are about "life style" and the last three articles are about "bad habits". Let the children be upright, establish their personality, avoid bad habits, and be pure, gentle and noble at the same time. Parents should have a sense of bottom line for their children's "inappropriate behavior", be gentle and firm.

if you find life boring, it's because you lack higher aspirations.

there are two kinds of family styles: aristocratic family style, which makes the family more prosperous; The bad family style makes the family even worse.

treating others with money can accumulate good deeds. Spending money in bad places destroys morality and does evil, so we should cultivate our morality and oppose arrogance and luxury.

Diligence: People need to be diligent and frugal. Thrift is to reduce some bad interests and hobbies, and even reduce your unnecessary desires.

It is an important form for the Qiao family to control their unnecessary desires and bad interests. Behind thrift is the meaning of controlling desire.

is it a blessing to suffer, or is it a kind of self-consolation?

A child who doesn't know how to give will find it difficult to get help from a noble person in the future. How can he have new opportunities and gradually become a selfish image in his circle of friends? It is impossible for him to have a real noble person. (generosity: light wealth is enough to gather people. )

every time the jstars suffer a loss, they will develop by leaps and bounds.

Qiao's family motto: Only selflessness can praise great achievements, and only great achievements can make great achievements.

there are eight kinds of education for children: teaching by words, teaching by environment, leaving school, on-the-spot education, teaching by example, three views education, ambition education and love education.

Make good use of the home environment to implement intangible education.

three no families: no Dojo, no props and no culture.

Every corner of the Qiao Family Courtyard is a family culture. Family culture permeates the art of family architecture. Door curtains, nave, walkways and even window grilles are all educational cultures.

Children are easily educated invisibly, and environmental education is very powerful. Family decoration not only looks good and comfortable, but also has educational function, and attention should be paid to educational style. Make good use of family environment to implement educational function. If an educational Dojo similar to a school is formed and presented at home, children will be educated 24 hours a day.

books are one of the props. Systematically prepare books for children: to 7 years old, 8 to 15 years old and after 15 years old.

what if the children don't read the books prepared for them?

actually, everyone is watching. Because books will form an environment as long as they are at home. When a child becomes interested in something one day, he will find the answer in the book list. Children at different ages may have different interests in certain things. The book list gives us a guiding significance and makes us more clear in education.

build a family culture.

I hope my children will go to bed early. There is a culture of going to bed early at home.

I hope children don't play mobile phones, and there is a culture of not playing mobile phones at home.

1. Make your body healthier. When helping others, the body will secrete happiness factors and improve all aspects of the body's functions. Taking children to do good deeds together is a good way of education.

2. Children who do good will understand. Know what to do and what not to do, and have correct values. Instead of thinking that it is right when it is clearly wrong, it will not be done when it is clearly right.

3. Doing good makes it easier for children to do business in the future.

since childhood, children will choose the right friends to make good deeds and help others. When children know how to help others from an early age, they will be more willing to choose some positive friends to make friends in the future. Moreover, there may be many more successful people in the charity circle. They are all very loving, responsible and well-organized. When a child stays with people with patterns and responsibilities for a long time, his future circle is good, so his future career will be particularly smooth.