After a woman gives birth, the most important time is the confinement period. There are many folk opinions and precautions for women during the confinement period. Once the confinement period is not done well, it will inevitably cause problems. The body suffers from some confinement diseases. The most important thing is to maintain a good attitude during confinement, but many women cannot do this.
Yanyan herself never thought that after giving birth to a baby, she would become very hypocritical and shed tears at every turn. She would also suffer from the physical pain caused by breastfeeding after giving birth, as well as the pain of taking care of the baby every day. The hard work made her very tired. She felt like a machine, constantly feeding and taking care of the child. Sometimes her temper would become very irritable, and she would want to quarrel with her husband whenever she disagreed. I couldn't help but want to cry. Every time I cried, I would think of what my mother said to me.
Yanyan’s mother cried a lot when she was giving birth to Yanyan and was in confinement, which caused the root cause of the disease. She often felt that her eyes were dry, painful, and very uncomfortable, and she needed eye drops all year round. Potion.
So, when Yanyan was in confinement, Yanyan’s mother kept telling her not to cry. Crying would be very bad for the body. Fortunately, Yanyan’s husband was considerate and would notice sometimes. When her mood changes, he doesn't care much about it, and he will take time to take her out for a walk and relax.
So is it because postpartum women want to cry because of "hypocrisy" or for some other reason? This is a situation that many mothers who have been in the confinement period will have. During the confinement period, their mood will be inexplicably low. Sometimes they just want to cry uncontrollably and become particularly sensitive. In fact, this is a kind of normal phenomenon. The main reasons for this phenomenon are
1. Postpartum hormone changes in the body
After pregnancy, the hormones in a woman’s body will undergo great changes, and the hormone levels in the body will rise rapidly. After the baby is born, the hormone levels in the body will drop rapidly in a short period of time. Such large hormone fluctuations will have a great impact on the mother's mood. Therefore, the mood will become very low after delivery, and very... sensitive.
2. Change of identity
When you are pregnant, the pregnant woman is the treasure of the family. The whole family has to surround them and pay all kinds of attention to them. This kind of attention is After the baby is born, part of it will be transferred away, and the baby will naturally become the protection object of the whole family. Therefore, many mothers cannot accept such a change in identity, because their treatment is also different, and their families seem to care more about the baby. , for myself, I am not as protective as I was when I was pregnant. I feel very disappointed and have a huge psychological gap.
3. Physical discomfort
Whether it is a mother who has a normal delivery or a caesarean section, the body needs a period of recovery after giving birth. During this recovery time, the mother’s The body may experience some discomfort, such as the discharge of lochia, wound recovery, etc. During the confinement period, most of the time is spent in bed. You often stay at home and cannot go out often. You feel like you are grounded. The mother will feel particularly wronged, and therefore her mood will change.
In addition to these, there are also some family factors that will also affect the mother's mood, such as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and some family conflicts that will affect the mother's postpartum mood. If mothers often cry during confinement, it actually has certain effects
1. Affects vision
Generally, people are in a bad mood or have other emotions, such as anger and sadness. , when you are stressed, you will want to cry. These bad moods have a great impact on the liver, and if you shed tears often, it will also have an impact on the eyes, causing problems such as decreased vision and dry eyes.
2. Affect lactation secretion
Some negative emotions of women during the confinement period have a great impact on milk secretion. Studies have shown that women’s mood swings during lactation If so, it will affect the secretion of milk. If the mother often cries during confinement, the secretion of milk will be reduced, which will prevent the baby from getting enough milk and affect the growth of the baby.
3. Affects the care of the baby
After the baby is born, the baby needs careful care. Mothers must be very careful. If the mother is in a bad mood during confinement, she often If you are depressed and shed tears, you will not be so dedicated when taking care of your baby, and you will be less thoughtful in taking care of your baby.
It is very important for mothers to maintain a good mood after childbirth. Therefore, during the confinement period, family members must take good care of the mother and be tolerant to them. Don’t focus all your energy on the baby. Maternal mothers should also pay more attention to it, so as to facilitate the recovery of postpartum women and the healthy growth of babies.
Did any mothers cry often during confinement?