1, friends are straight, friends forgive, and friends listen more, which is beneficial. -"Article 16 of the Analects of Confucius"
It is beneficial to make friends with honest people, honest friends and well-informed people.
2. Make friends, don't spend money, spend money.
Between friends, if there are financial transactions, it is easy to produce contradictions, so that the two do not contact.
3, chivalrous heart to make friends, normal heart to be a man. -Tao Jin Yuanming, Migration.
Su Xin: Simple in heart. Make friends with chivalrous spirit, sense of justice, courage and be a simple person.
4, marry a wife and take virtue without color, and make friends without paying.
To marry a wife, you should marry a virtuous woman, not just looking at beauty; Make friends, have heart-to-heart, and don't want money.
It is good to know each other, but it is urgent to help others. —— Ming Kuangkun's "Convenient Map Compilation"
Making friends means helping each other. It is very important to help others when they are in urgent need.
6. Water the trees and roots and make friends. -Haoran's Sunny Days
When watering a tree, water should be poured on the roots to benefit the whole tree. To make friends, both sides should be sincere in order to become bosom friends.
7. Check before making friends, and trust after making friends. -"Small window, method"
Before making friends, do a survey; After making friends, you should trust him.
8, children would rather not study, not a day near bandits. -"Qi Lu Deng"
It means that the younger generation would rather not study than make friends with bad people. It means that young people should be especially careful when making friends.
9, making friends should not be excessive, and those who abuse will come. -Ming Hong Yingming's "Caigen Tan"
Before making friends, you should look at each other's personality, not too much, so that those who are pleasing to the eye can't get close to you.
10, the way of loyalty, the meaning of making friends. -Romance of Sui and Tang Dynasties
As a courtier, you should be loyal to the victims, and so should those who make friends.
1 1, friendship is not known until you die; A poor and rich, even a state of intercourse; One is expensive and the other is cheap, but friendship is visible-Historical Records
On the occasion of life and death, we can see the depth of friendship; Only when the rich and the poor are different and their status is very different can the authenticity of friendship be tested.