If a person wants to make friends, it's simple. You take the initiative to talk to others, and then keep communicating. As long as you can, you will become friends with others, but the duration of this friendship depends on your actions. When I was in primary school, we were divided into classes every year, and then I made many new friends, but without exception, these friends rarely contacted each other after separation, and then the relationship faded. Now I can't even remember their names. Maybe this is the power of time. After graduating from primary school, I began to sum up my friends. I always felt that I didn't have any friends after graduation, but I was still alone, only to find that I didn't take it seriously. In this way, I began my journey to find good friends. This process is long. Until now, I can say that there is only one real good friend.
In junior high school, I met my best friend. He is my deskmate. We sat at the same table for three years. Together with our primary school classmates, our friendship is very deep. I can feel a kind of strength in him, which is my motivation, because we are not only good friends, but also competitors. We all want to surpass each other. In this way, we went to the same high school with excellent results. I thought our friendship would fade with the passage of time, but I found it was not. Besides me, he also attaches great importance to this friendship. We will still be in touch. Although it is rare, we can feel the excitement of each other and the excitement of having good friends around us.
He cherishes this friendship, and so do I, which I didn't understand until I went to college. Because there is the same example, that is my high school classmate and roommate, and the relationship is very good. Our university is also in the same school, but later there was less communication. Usually I take the initiative to find him out to play and chat with him, but he won't take the initiative to find me. In this way, I began to resist this feeling, because he gave me the feeling that friends were dispensable. If I contact him, he will talk to you. If I don't contact him, it doesn't matter. Perhaps this is his attitude towards this friendship, but I really can't stand it, so our relationship gradually fades away, without enthusiasm or excitement. These two kinds of friendship are completely different extremes.
I think we should make friends with our sincerity. In the vast sea of people, everyone we know is our fate What's the use of this fate if we can't grasp it with our heart? We need to cherish friendship when we make friends. If we remember this friendship now, but it doesn't matter afterwards, then why make friends? This is a waste of youth and time.