1 is not desirable because there is nothing in itself. It is normal for students to help each other. If Xiao Qiang doesn't contact Xiaoli, it will cause misunderstanding.

2. Disapprove, the reason has been explained in question 1.

Supplement: Everyone will inevitably be talked about, which is not terrible. If you change yourself and lose your friends because of a few words from others, you will lose your values and opinions. It is not good for your own development and making friends!

I hope I can help you! Hope to adopt!