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Will deliberately repaying friendship make a friend feel grudge?

A truly deep friendship will not be grudged by anything.

Recently I have read some articles recalling famous people. The vivid and vivid stories of the protagonists in them show us the style of deep friendship.

Senior journalist and essayist Xiao Li and literary master Shen Congwen met in the 1930s. During their decades of getting along, they silently looked after and helped each other, and their friendship lasted a lifetime.

In the early 1980s, Shen Congwen lived in a small and crude house because his policies were not implemented. As a well-known journalist and a member of the Beijing Political Consultative Conference, Xiao Li once wrote a letter to the then General Secretary on economic development issues and attracted attention. Because of this attempt, Xiao wrote to Hu about Shen's problem. The Organization Department of the CPC Central Committee quickly made a decision, and Shen Congwen resolved the housing, salary and car issues at the ministerial level.

However, Xiao said nothing about this matter, and Shen did not know the reason for the resolution of the matter until his death. Even 20 years later, Shen's son Longzhu didn't understand what Xiao helped his father do. Solving problems for friends is done in silence. Deep friendship is rooted in helping each other without the slightest consideration of seeking anything in return.

Modern writers Jin Yi and Ba Jin co-founded "Harvest", a large-scale and influential literary magazine in New China, in the 1950s. After Jin Yi passed away in 1959, Ba Jin became the editor-in-chief. But Ba Jin never forgot the hard work his old friend put in at the beginning.

In 1986, 27 years after Jin Yi's death, "Harvest" held a commemorative event for its founding. Bing Xin wrote in an article: "Harvest, which has been published for 30 years, is an authoritative publication—it was founded by my friend Ba Lao."

Ba Jin, who never revised manuscripts for others I saw that in Bing Xin's manuscript, "Jin Yi" was specially added between "my friend" and "Ba Jin". These few words show Ba Jin's deep concern for his friends and his attitude towards fame and fortune. Deep friendship is so rooted in fame and fortune that we will never forget the dedication of our friends.

Friendship is beautiful and warm. Maybe it’s because people value it so much that they can’t tolerate any flaws, maybe it’s because they’ve been contaminated by too many fireworks and red dust, but friendship is like a prism that changes all the time, reflecting all kinds of scenes. It flutters all the way in the long river of history, causing thousands of ripples, which makes many people’s lives Express a lot of love, hate, and grudges.

However, the style of people making friends before the sages may be able to clear up the fog in people's hearts and realize the true meaning of friendship cultivation.