When I washed my face in the morning, I found that the facial cleanser was almost used up. I was thinking about whether I should take care of the business of an acquaintance and buy a product from her to try it out.

When I got home from get off work and decided to buy an overseas moisturizing facial cleanser in a beauty and health group created by my friend, I discovered that I had just been removed from the group chat by my friend.

I have also experienced being removed from a group chat many times before. What I still remember most vividly is the inexplicable heartache of being removed from a group chat for the first time.

When WeChat, a dating software, first became popular, it seemed that all kinds of group chats were swarming in. Groups such as work groups, classmates, colleagues, and social groups were like rain. The bamboo shoots at the end are uneven and can quickly draw everyone into various groups.

I remember it was one day in 2015. I was still full of enthusiasm and exploration for WeChat. Suddenly I found myself being pulled into a small group. In the group, there were posts posted by the group owner. Announcement, let everyone pull each other, the friends who are in contact, looking at the many friends who have not seen each other for more than 20 years, when I was about to say hello happily, unexpectedly, a line of small words showed "You have been grouped" I was immediately dumbfounded when the host kicked him out of the group chat.

I felt inexplicably hurt, and I really couldn’t figure out how I had offended the group leader before I spoke, and who the so-called group leader was.

With such doubts, I finally called another fan who had my WeChat account. When the fan told me with great apologies on the phone that she was the group owner, my My heart suddenly had mixed feelings, Fa Xiao, did you have any misunderstanding? You used to be the best friends...

I can’t even remember how I ended the call with Fa Xiao at that time. My mind kept thinking about the enigmatic group leader.

Yes, from childhood to middle school, I went to and from school with that group of teachers inseparably. When she, who had always had excellent grades, successfully entered college, I chose to study in a vocational school. I also got a job just as smoothly.

When I was working, I often kept in friendly contact with her when she was in college. One year when I went home, I used my own salary to buy her a dress and a beautiful silk scarf.

Later I started dating a boyfriend, and I often shared my happiness with her. Unexpectedly, after graduating from college, she actually chose to work in the same company as my lover.

I didn’t expect that she, whom I hadn’t seen for several years, would change so much. When she communicated with me in standard Mandarin with a northern accent, I, who was not used to it, especially looked at her. When she came home wearing an extremely hot outfit, I felt an indescribable discomfort.

I don’t know whether it was because I was newly pregnant and had sensitive nerves, or whether it was because she always joked with my lover in front of me, which made me wary. The relationship seems to have faded away.

When I gave birth to my daughter, she quickly got married to a colleague, and later I heard they got divorced. Finally, it seemed that she was transferred to work in the head office in the provincial capital.

From then on, she and I became strangers, and she even changed her mobile phone number. Once my lover came home and said that my fellow villager was really baffled. When he came to inspect the work with the leader, he actually pretended not to know him. At that time, I laughed and said that it is the rhythm of noble people to forget things.

People often say that life is always full of twists and turns, and no one expects it.

When my lover was successfully transferred to the head office at the end of the year before last and was entrusted with the important task of becoming the vice president of the head office last year, one day I suddenly received a message from her who took the initiative to add me to WeChat. I read it. I deleted it without hesitation. When she repeatedly showed her kindness to me in the fellow group, I, who had always been silent, became even more silent.

I will always remember that the year before last, when the group leader of the fellow villagers group initiated a meeting, she actually said in a high-profile manner that as long as that person signed up, she would be absent together with her sister. I had no interest in participating and certainly would not sign up. When they sent many happy photos to the group, I remained silent.

As an Aquarius woman, I never easily make enemies with others. Once we start to be strangers, I will treat them with the mentality of being a stranger for the rest of my life. Since you kicked me out of the group, then We are just like strangers.