Looking for something that I think is important

Be it an ideal

Be it love

I need something like this

Remind me

I don’t rely on the inertia of living

Living

I woke up in the morning and sorted out the signing last night. The author Qi Fanqi was in In the WeChat group, when we were sharing notes about writing exchanges with us, I saw the text in my classmates’ QQ space that I had excerpted in my notebook, and I was deeply moved by reading it again.

When I was at school, I was used to getting up early, used to writing and reading in the morning, and used to do a lot of things I wanted to do in the morning! I admit that I am a person who has particularly good energy in the morning, so I will devote myself to what I am best at when I have the best energy - writing.

Whoever you are will meet you! Where you spend your time is where your future lies! I found that this was not true at all. I am now a senior in college and I don’t have many friends around me. If I am talking about friends who have experienced some things together, Brother Ming is definitely one of them!

He is getting better and better in my eyes now, and I watch him grow his business little by little! I bought a car a little over a year after graduating from college, and my career is flourishing. I admire him very much. Even if he runs a dessert and milk tea shop, he still has the ambition to be the No. 1 brother in Chongqing! Sometimes what poor people lack most is ambition! If you don’t even have the ambition to think about it, why would you dare to do it? I think you are bragging! Seeing that he has now turned eight or nine dessert shops into chain stores, and Mr. Zhang’s brand is becoming more and more famous, I am really happy for him!

There are also two students in the same class, Wang Kai and Tang Juan, from Chongqing University of Arts and Sciences, the school next door, who previously led their own businesses. Now they have also opened two Lipu suit experience stores. There is a Yongchuan Olan Peninsula store, a Yongchuan Times Street store, and an online WeChat mall. Seeing that the careers of my friends who have worked together are getting bigger and bigger, I am really happy for them!

Everyone is busy pursuing what they think is important! It’s great to be busy, but you’ll be even more tired when you’re idle! ——Li Shanglong "You either stand out or you're out"

Graduation is about to happen. If you think about it, there are still regrets about love! During the school's opening season in September every year, I see the freshmen and junior students in the school wearing military training uniforms, arms around each other, holding hands, and the sweet and warm scene makes me feel a little envious! Sometimes they don’t envy the appearance of falling in love. What they envy is that they can find someone they love in a short period of time! I feel like this sentence is like what Yang Yi said to Xu Lai in "Embarrassed in Hong Kong": "I don't like Andy Warhol, I like his way of expressing pop art!"

Sometimes The older people grow up, the less they dare to start a relationship at will! Because the more you know, the more you fear losing! Because I don’t want to settle into a relationship casually and cause some harm to each other! At the same time, because the older I get, I admit that I am a bit realistic when I think about it. What I'm thinking about is that I'm about to graduate. Maybe what I like about someone now is more about whether she and I can have a future that I can see, rather than just having fun! It's not like those military training students in the university who like each other based on their eyesight, sixth sense, and comfort with each other! Some people say that you don’t need a reason to like someone, but you need a reason to break up with someone!

I have become more and more rational about love, but of course I have also become timid. On the one hand, I am muttering to myself that it is time to find a girlfriend, and on the other hand, I am talking about feelings. Let things take their course and remain indifferent! I don’t know when I became entangled and sentimental? I feel that maybe because I have read too many extracurricular books, my brain is filled with too many other people's thoughts. In fact, how can emotional matters have anything to do with so many people? If you like each other, then sincerely do so; if not, just be yourself and wait for good news!

Regarding what I currently consider important: writing.

Since you haven't found the relationship you want, you might as well invest in learning a specialty in yourself. When I make this skill irreplaceable, then I will be really good! I like to read Miss Shiyin’s article on the Internet. “Before you are good enough, please don’t expect me to take the initiative to understand you.” Just like this title, when I don’t find a suitable relationship, I will look for a relationship that may lead to a relationship. Skill!

The little girl Shang Afan said: "It is better to read articles and make friends if you want to contact us." This girl born in 1998 is so innocent and cute that people pity her! Although I am considered a novice, sometimes I will receive some friends who ask me for WeChat and QQ accounts. I will reply to them in the same way in the future! Haha, I will also give it to netizens on WeChat and QQ. I was listening to Li Xiaolai say in "Seven Years is a Lifetime" in Himalayas: "We must keep an open attitude in doing things. When he talked about using Twitter, everyone was working hard. When the number of followers increased, he became the person who followed the most people on Twitter (a large number of well-known Twitter users, friendly strangers), and gradually the people he followed continued to influence him. "So all the friends he has are as long as everyone Sincerely make friends, welcome to flirt, I will still give you my contact information!