It means a lot to me. But how to make friends and what kind of friends to make are also very particular.
. People with different world outlook and outlook on life have different understandings and views on the principle of making friends. some people
Friends who think they should hand over power, find backers and pull relationships for their promotion; Some people think that you should pay your rich friends,
There are many ways to make yourself rich, I don't think so. My view on the principle of making friends is morality (character)
Give priority to, make close friends, make friends, unite as one, and Qi Xin will work together for common progress.
Morality is not only the foundation of a country, but also the foundation of an individual. China thinkers of all ages have it.
Attach importance to self-cultivation by virtue. Mencius said, "It's not long, it's not valuable, and you can't be friends with your brothers. Friends are friends, and friends are virtuous.
Also, you can't have it. That is: don't rely on old age, don't rely on high status, and don't rely on the strength of brothers.
Make friends. Making friends requires morality, which is unreliable. So we should pay attention to morality when making friends, don't we?
You can make friends regardless of age, status and power. Of course, we shouldn't make friends for status and interests.
The same is true for leaders to make friends. Only by making friends in the leadership position can we make real friends. Ordinary people,
Make friends with the leader, don't treat him as a leader, and don't kneel down to curry favor with him, in order to make intimate friends. Some "huge sums"
The reason why everyone is around, but it is not because of feelings, but because of money. profit taking
The principle of making friends is an unhealthy world view, which leads to two consequences. One is that the world is cold and lacking.
Warm family; The other is the frequent occurrence of corruption cases, which means the total collapse of the same interest subject. Therefore,
The trees scattered and the birds were thrown into the forest. "Friends are friends, friends are virtuous", you can get a bosom friend!
"Communication has principles" means "what kind of friends you make and who you make friends with must have principles". ordinary
Besides paying attention to morality, people don't pay much attention to making friends, and it's not that simple for leading cadres to make friends.
Seemingly ordinary human relations, but there is politics in human relations, so we should be good at looking at and examining them from a political height.
. Imagine why people "get close" to you. Why are you "so good"? Why bother?
Beating around the bush to make friends with you? If you are an ordinary cadre or a cadre without real power,
Will these people still associate with you? In fact, in some people's minds, any form of "investment" includes "feelings"
Investment ",in the final analysis, is to ask for a return. When one day, your "friend" asks for something in return, what do you take?
Come back? I'm afraid I'll risk going to jail and ruining my future, and take the interests of the people and the country.
To pay back.
True friends and pure friendship give people strength, care and courage to overcome difficulties.
, is a beautiful scenery on the road of life. The key is to make friends, and make friends with people who are connected, encouraging each other and all-round.
Friends who are not utilitarian or worldly. The ancients once divided friends into four categories: fear friends, close friends, intimate friends and thief friends.
"Morality, negligence, fear of friends; Priorities can be * * *, life and death can be entrusted, and so can best friends; Sweet talk, games
Collection, intimate friends also; Interests compete, sufferings depend on each other, and thieves are friends. So make more friends, intimate friends, friends.
Beware of those "thief friends" who encounter interests. In the era of "fetishism", we are especially in interpersonal communication.
Remember this, you can't give up the principle of attaching importance to morality when making friends.