Open communication channels. Their hearts are full of expectations of growing up, but also full of uneasiness of growing up. There are too many things they want to do but don’t know how to do. This is what they do at this age. Reasons for recklessness and impulsiveness. At this time, parents should provide guidance or demonstrate, and must not stop or ridicule their ideas. This will have a great impact on the child's self-confidence and perseverance, and will also affect his recognition of himself when he grows up! When a child does not want to communicate, give the child time to let him know that his parents welcome him to talk about his own affairs at any time, and let him know that his parents support his decisions and ideas. For parents who maintain free communication with their children, this is easy to do, but for parents who have poor communication with their children, it will take a longer time and energy, because you have to gain the trust of your children first and get their approval. Be friends.