Professor: Maybe it's puberty. Everyone is like this in adolescence. First, it repels the contact of the opposite sex, then gradually wants to contact with the opposite sex, and then gradually develops a good impression and dependence on each other in contact, and gradually forms what is now called puppy love. Of course, if we have a good grasp of puppy love, we sometimes have personal analysis and answers to any problems in our study. When we are sad or frustrated, personal comfort is also a way to restore ourselves from a lost state to a happy state, which is of great help to our body and mind, study and work.
Disadvantages: but if you don't grasp it well, all the advantages will become disadvantages. If you fall in love in adolescence, immerse yourself in the so-called two-person world and have no intention to study, it will make the relationship between the two sides tense, neglect your studies and hurt your expectations and those of your parents and teachers. If it's only unilateral depravity, then the advantages you once attracted to the other side will disappear, and you will also make the other side feel that you are useless ~ ~ ~ ~
This is my personal opinion! Hope to adopt!