If we say before 2017, everyone would be extremely envious when mentioning Zhu Dan.

She is synonymous with good luck.

A rural child with no background entered Zhejiang Satellite TV on his own ability.

The 26-year-old hosted "I Love to Remember Lyrics" and became famous overnight.

From then on, she acted in TV series and released albums, and her fame was endless.

But he left Zhejiang Satellite TV at his peak.

In 2017, he got married for the second time to Yiwei Yi. Since then, he has become a "humble Dan" and his career has plummeted.

No matter how others reminded her, she always covered herself up and didn't want to face it.

In fact, the first half of Zhu Dan’s life was really not easy.

If you understand her past, you can understand why she is so humble and longing for happiness.

Driving 16 kilometers west from Shaoxing City, Zhejiang Province, you come to a place called Qixian.

This is a typical Jiangnan town with simple folk customs.

The most famous person here is Zhu Dan, she is the pride of the whole town.

When Zhu Dan was a child, his father got tuberculosis.

Because she was afraid of infecting her, her mother sent her to live with her grandmother.

It wasn’t until her father passed away at the age of 7 that he took her back.

Therefore, Zhu Dan had no impression of "Dad" and could not remember what he looked like at all.

When he was little, even if his father hugged him, he would always turn his face away from her.

After her father passed away, her grandmother’s family suggested that she give Zhu Dan away.

But the mother feels that she has been very sorry for her daughter in the past seven years, and she will have to take her daughter with her even if she is begging for food.

My mother works as a textile worker, earning 15 yuan a month, and she has to pay off her debt first.

The mother and daughter live in a four-square-meter house and their life is very difficult.

Fortunately, my mother was optimistic by nature, which she passed on to Zhu Dan.

They can always find a little fun in a hard life.

When the snail season comes, they go to the river to catch them and make sauce to stir-fry the snails. It is the most delicious thing Zhu Dan has ever eaten.

Zhu Dan knew that her mother was working hard, but she didn’t say anything about it.

When she was 8 years old, she only had a pair of cloth shoes made by her grandmother, which she wore for a year.

Later, his feet became bigger, the shoes were too small, and the toes were squeezed out of shape. Zhu Dan didn’t tell his mother.

My mother was very distressed when she saw it and blamed her and said: "Why didn't you tell me?"

Zhu Dan comforted her and said: "Mom, I know you have no money, I can wear it Yes, I can persist."

Mom's heart hurt as if it had been scratched with a knife.

Until now, Zhu Dan’s toes are still growing inward, and his toenails are also growing inward. He must go to a specialized master to trim them regularly, otherwise they will swell.

But Zhu Dan blamed himself instead. After his father passed away, he should take on the responsibility of taking care of his mother.

It’s just something as small as the shoes being a little too small. I haven’t hidden it well enough to make my mother so sad. I’ve done too badly.

Later, her mother took her to remarry, and her stepfather also had a girl who was younger than Zhu Dan.

Although her stepfather was very kind to her, Zhu Dan still felt very insecure.

She was very afraid that her stepfather would not like her and would not let her mother have her.

Or he is afraid that his stepfather will bully him when his mother goes to work.

So Zhu Dan has always been submissive, studying hard when he was in school, and taking the initiative to work after finishing his homework when he got home.

With excellent results, Zhu Dan was admitted to Zhejiang University of Communication, majoring in broadcasting and hosting.

After going to college, Zhu Dan took on the financial responsibility of the family.

Use your spare time to work part-time to make money.

She has been a hostess, a model, and even a promoter.

Because of my particularly good performance in milk promotion, I was selected by a manufacturer to take me to Beijing for promotion.

One day in Hangzhou is 80 yuan, and one day in Beijing is 300 yuan.

For the extra 220 yuan, Zhu Dan sat in a sleeper for more than ten hours. When he came back, he caught a cold and a fever.

In those years, Zhu Dan bought all the refrigerators and washing machines at home.

Even his sister’s tuition was earned by Zhu Dan.

But Zhu Dan has also been wronged.

She saw that the girls in the same dormitory were all carefree and could buy whatever they wanted.

But she has to work hard to make money and is not willing to spend it, which will make her sad.

Once she had a falling out with her stepfather.

Once, her stepfather sent her on a train. Seeing her stepfather carrying her luggage, Zhu Dan finally couldn't help it.

She said angrily: "Why are you so useless? As a man, you should shoulder the burden of the family. Why do you let me carry it and support you?"

< p> But after saying that, she regretted it. After getting in the car, she cried and sent a message to her stepfather: "I'm sorry, Dad, I didn't mean it, and I don't know why I said that."

But the stepfather did not blame her. He knew that his daughter worked too hard and he did not care enough about her.

So the stepfather, who was not good at expressing himself, began to write letters to Zhu Dan, caring about her study and life.

Only then did Zhu Dan realize that his stepfather also had his difficulties, but he could treat Zhu Dan and his daughter equally despite such difficulties. Only then did Zhu Dan realize how great his stepfather was.

These sufferings have become her greatest wealth.

Because of his experience in various activities in college, Zhu Dan is particularly responsive and can always respond to various emergencies.

Upon graduation, Zhu Dan stood out from a group of classmates who had no hosting experience and was selected to join Zhejiang Satellite TV.

From then on, a life of cheating began.

In 2004, Zhu Dan began to host the "In and Out" section of "News Evening News" and "Life AB Drama".

Later, because of his outstanding and friendly image, he served as the host of the "Entertainment Fortune" column.

With his career stabilized, Zhu Dan could finally take a breather.

She also fell in love with the young man on the stage.

But in the end, this person was just a supporting role, and the real protagonist was Lin Han.

Lin Han was a cameraman in the station at the time. Because they were both alumni of Zhejiang Media, and they were similar in age, the two often called themselves brothers.

In their spare time, they often take each other’s significant other out to play together.

That summer, they went to Xiangshan to shoot a film together. Zhu Dan, who had just broken up with her boyfriend, was feeling depressed.

On the vast seaside, Lin Han, whose relationship with his girlfriend was also beginning to crack, silently accompanied the girl who was hiding her grievances and worries.

Listening and feeling sad.

That night, the two of them discovered that this kind and natural feeling was the feeling of true love.

On this day, the two people finally confirmed their relationship.

People in Taiwan sincerely wish them well. Lin Han is known as the most handsome young man in Taiwan, and the two of them can be called the "golden boy and girl".

But no one expected that the two would get married after only dating for 6 months, and they would get married and divorced in a flash.

Although Zhu Dan's fame is getting bigger and bigger, her inner insecurity is getting heavier and heavier.

Especially when facing the young and handsome Lin Han, she is very afraid of him. One day I will abandon myself.

So she kept asking him: "Do you really love me? You won't let me go, right?"

Lin Han was annoyed by her questions He said angrily: "You are always so scared, why don't we get married." Unexpectedly, Zhu Dan's eyes shone with light, and he immediately agreed and started planning their wedding.

Even the wedding room was decorated by Zhu Dan. Lin Han just said: "I want a style like a Zen room" and went on a business trip.

Zhu Dan completely catered to her fiancé's taste and did not dare to add any style she wanted for fear that Lin Han would not like it.

But no matter how careful Zhu Dan was, there was still a gap between the two.

First of all, there is a long period of being together less and more apart. The two people's workstations are next to each other, but they can hardly see each other.

Often one has just gotten off the plane and the other is about to leave.

Another one is the gap in status.

Zhu Dan soon became the host of "I Want to Remember the Lyrics" after her marriage. Her elegant and friendly hosting style was deeply loved by the public.

Mr. Hua often made slips of the tongue, and she would correct him tactfully, and she was always so good at smoothing things over.

She is also very good at giving face to guests, partners and staff.

She is articulate and quick-thinking, and she can take care of everyone with a smile.

She suddenly became the "first sister" on the stage. She and Lin Han originally sat together during the meeting. Later, when they walked in together during the meeting, someone always went over to ask Zhu Dan to sit in the first place. Row.

Lin Han was actually very unhappy, feeling that her self-esteem had been trampled on.

More than a year later, the two divorced, but at this time Zhu Dan suddenly "exploded" and it was rumored that she had cheated on Tao Zhe during their marriage.

In 2008, Zhu Dan was invited to host the Hangzhou Animation Festival, and Tao Zhe was the guest.

After the show, the two were photographed traveling to the West Lake together, and they were very intimate during the period.

Tao Zhe also massaged Zhu Dan thoughtfully, which made it difficult not to think about it.

In fact, the two had already known each other in May 2007, during the recording of Zhejiang Satellite TV's "Real Boys Dreaming of the Olympics".

Tao Zhe took the initiative to ask Zhu Dan for his phone number, and then the two began to develop in secret.

According to friends, the relationship between the two developed very quickly. Just two months later, when Tao Zhe held a concert in Shanghai, Zhu Dan went to Shanghai to watch it in the rain and was arranged to meet Tao Zhe's parents. Sit together.

After this incident, Tao Zhe denied it outright, but Zhu Dan's statement made people think.

She said: "Tao Zhe is a special friend."

Some insiders revealed that this was the main reason for Zhu Dan and Lin Han's divorce.

Zhu Dan accidentally sent the ambiguous email to Tao Zhe to her husband, which led to the divorce.

Although I don’t know if this is the truth, it is true that they are divorced.

This scandal brought devastating damage to Zhu Dan's career.

Rumors of suspected marital infidelity are very detrimental to hosts who need national recognition.

Zhejiang Satellite TV's top executives were furious and removed Zhu Dan's hosting duties from "Citizen Action" on the spot.

Immediately afterwards, she was originally scheduled to be the host of the "Journey to the West" audition, but it was also cancelled.

Zhu Dan was secretly "hidden".

Blessings and misfortunes depend on each other. This one was hidden in the snow, but the reputation of Zhu Dan increased greatly.

In 2009, photos of Zhu Dan and the famous musician Song Ke kissing passionately on the street were suddenly exposed, and there were even reports that the two were getting married.

Song Ke even booked the entire bar to celebrate Zhu Dan’s birthday in 2010.

But less than a year later, the two announced their breakup.

This breakup caused Zhu Dan to fall into depression for a time.

Because Song Ke broke up with her suddenly, without any warning.

We had a happy meal together the day before, but today I couldn’t get through to him anymore. Finally, I got a message saying “Let’s break up” and I couldn’t contact him again. On.

Zhu Dan could not believe that this was true for a while, and had to rely on a psychiatrist for help.

Later, Zhu Dan revealed his true feelings during an interview with Li Jing: "Maybe my desire to get married and have children was too strong and I held on too tightly, so he was afraid."

In Zhu Dan's heart, Song Ke is really a good man suitable for marriage, so she is eager to catch him.

Such strong feelings made Song Ke, who had been single for so many years, feel tremendous pressure.

He felt that he couldn't face it, so he broke up unilaterally.

Zhu Dan once again fell into her own insecurities.

Because of her poor condition, Zhu Dan wanted to change her environment. At that time, many satellite TV stations offered her an olive branch.

Zhu Dan abandoned his old club and threw himself into the arms of Hunan Satellite TV. This was really an extremely stupid decision.

Although Hunan Satellite TV sincerely gave her two programs: "China's Strongest Voice" and "My Chinese Dream".

However, Zhu Dan's performance in the program was not good. Her generous and calm hosting style was incompatible with the young and lively style of Hunan Satellite TV.

Privately, it was difficult for her to integrate into this team, and she felt extremely uncomfortable staying here.

So Zhu Dan turned to Hunan Satellite TV’s entertainment resources and started filming.

While filming the movie "Xiu Chun Knife", she met Yiwei Yi.

Because of her inexperience, the swordsmanship sequence always failed to film well. The anxious Zhu Dan was scolded by the director, and she squatted in a corner and cried silently.

Zhou Yiwei saw it and came over to comfort her. He also personally taught her how to do the sword scene.

Such a random move made Zhu Dan feel warm in her heart. Maybe she needed the love of others too much.

The two soon got together. Before the movie was finished, the two were holding hands on the road.

In 2017, the two got married, and soon Zhu Dan gave birth to a daughter.

Zhou Yiwei has attracted a lot of attention because of his relationship with Zhu Dan, and the popularity is getting higher and higher.

In the following years, everyone said that he was a "soft ricer" and relied on Zhu Dan to become famous. This made the always arrogant Yiwei very unhappy.

So in interviews, he always couldn't help but express his high status in the family.

Lu Yu once asked him who took care of his daughter more when both husband and wife were filming.

He smiled contemptuously and said: "Her filming is not filming in my standard sense."

He also said that he would not cooperate with Zhu Dan in filming because she is "unprofessional."

His remarks once again plunged Zhu Dan, who had worked hard to create a beautiful marriage image, into a whirlpool of public opinion.

Have to work harder to prove his happiness.

In 2019, when Zhu Dan hosted "The Man Doing Housework", he couldn't help but want to "show happiness", but he overturned the car.

She revealed that she and Yiwei Zhou had only had two quarrels in all the years of marriage.

After one quarrel, Yiwei Yiwei said two serious words to her. She would never dare to quarrel with him again in her life.

He said: "I am giving you a step now. If you don't come down, the step will be gone."

With such machismo, Zhu Dan When I say it, I feel really proud.

Li Dan and Fu Seoul next to them were both confused and didn’t know how to answer her words.

I really can’t praise it enough.

Li Dan shook his head and said, "humble."

These are not the only humble things about Zhu Dan.

Zhu Dan gave birth to a daughter and a son to Yiwei Wei, but Zhu Dan almost took care of the two children alone, and she still had to find time to do programs to make money.

But Zhou Yiwei said: "I won't take care of them much. Children are born with their own scripts. This is their fate."

Zhu Dan is trying his best to bask in his happiness, while Zhou Yiwei is trying his best to tear down the wall.

Zhu Dan focused all her thoughts on how to make everyone think she was really happy, and her professional skills became worse and worse until she made a big joke.

She hosts fashion festivals and is so "face-blind" that it makes people despair.

First she called Guli Nazha Dilireba, and then to smooth things over, she called Reba Nazha.

Immediately afterwards, Lin Yun was called Yoona. What was embarrassing was that Korean movie star Yoona was also present that day, and the whole audience was embarrassed.

After this wave of suffocating operations, in the face of criticism from netizens, Zhu Dan posted a "three consecutive admissions of error" on Weibo.

In addition to the words of apology, he also advertised the brand, promoted the new column, and showed off his personal photos.

Faced with her response with such low emotional intelligence, netizens couldn't help but wonder.

Where has the intellectual and majestic Zhu Dan, who was surrounded by the "first sister" aura, gone?

Many people say that it was Zhou Yiwei who ruined Zhu Dan.

She is like a "person in a condom", living in the illusion she has spun, and no matter how hard others pull her, she can't come out.

Because I love my husband too much, I am humble. Because I cannot get the recognition and praise from my lover, I feel low self-esteem, so that I begin to doubt my abilities and become less and less confident in doing things.

When a person has low self-esteem, no matter how great her achievements are, she will feel that she is not worthy and will feel ashamed that she does not have the ability.

Zhou Yiwei grasped this point. Compared with Zhu Dan's inferiority complex, his strong self-confidence made him become a god-like figure in front of Zhu Dan.

She admires him because he has something that she will never get in her life.

Such a smart woman lives under the disapproval and suppression of her husband. Her hidden emotions and messy thoughts affect her work performance, and she cannot concentrate on her work at all.

She is excellent, and her former heights will never be reached by many hosts.

It was humble love and her lover's disapproval that made her lose her once shining self.

In her humble marriage, she is getting further and further away from the confident Zhu Dan in "I Love to Remember Lyrics".