In China culture, bridge stands for understanding and communication. The two cities in the book were originally created by two good friends, but separated by a stone bridge, but they are no longer in contact with each other. What caused them to break up and finally make up? Sometimes escaping is just a kind of rest, which gives you more courage to face life. So when you feel too nervous, it's good to escape. But the problems you avoid will never be solved by your escape. You can only rest in escape, and you must never be depressed in escape.
If you hurt friends around you intentionally or unintentionally in your life or work, you should take the initiative to apologize to each other. Don't think that the other person is the opposite sex and can't let go of face. You know, only a sincere and timely apology can make the other party change your stone method and forgive your wrong behavior. Faith can move mountains. As long as you sincerely apologize to each other, they will usually forgive you. Don't be perfunctory when apologizing, it will only deepen the other party's dislike for you. Be sure to let the other party see your sincere apology and forgive your mistakes.
Some people especially love face in front of the opposite sex, afraid that the other party will embarrass themselves and dare not apologize to the other party. In fact, this kind of worry is often unnecessary. The other party may not be as unreasonable as you think. To say the least, even if the other person "vents" in front of you, it's because you did something wrong to him, which is understandable. And instead of letting him bury his dissatisfaction in his heart, let him vent it!
When misunderstood, we don't have to be angry, because things will always be clarified, and maybe it will be sunny after misunderstanding. When you do something wrong, you apologize to others. This is a sign of honesty and maturity, and it is a valuable virtue. In particular, men take the initiative to apologize to women, but also show respect for women, and will win each other's goodwill.