I have a good relationship with you

It does not mean that I can be infinitely tolerant

No matter how good the relationship is

You still have to know how to measure

1

I watched a video a few days ago. My boyfriend took his girlfriend to a party. At the party, the boyfriend made a joke with the people at the same table. The girlfriend was not happy when she heard it. Get angry at your boyfriend like you do at home, even drop your chopsticks and walk away. Everyone at the table advised him to pursue his girlfriend back, but the man did not pursue her. He just said: It’s my fault. I spoiled her rotten. It’s time to let her grow up? The implication is that he will break up with her. .

I believe that this kind of thing will happen in life. There are always some people who can’t control themselves or control their temper just because they have a good relationship with them. That’s not true. Everything that needs to be said will be said when it shouldn't be. Such people do not know how to measure themselves in the eyes of others, and may even make people feel that they have brought a time bomb with them when they go out. They don't know when it will explode, and they will not be able to get down the stairs.

Some good relationships have slowly become alienated because of this, because their lack of understanding of propriety will make people feel very uneasy. Even if they can tolerate it at the beginning, they will gradually become more distant. I couldn't bear it any longer and had to end this relationship in the end.

2

In getting along with others, it is very important to know how to measure something. Once you cannot grasp certain things within a certain degree, it is easy for others to have negative feelings towards you. Bad feeling.

Everyone has their own principles and bottom lines. When you get along with them, you have to keep a certain distance and don’t touch their principles and bottom lines, because others treat you well and recognize the difference between them and you. Having a relationship does not mean that you can do whatever you want to them. When you need help, he or she will be willing to help you without saying a word, but every time after helping you, you rely on your good relationship to not even say thank you, and then continue to ask for help from him or her. You Think about it, if you were him or her, would you continue to help?

No matter how good the relationship between two people is, we must know how to measure it. If others help us, we don’t need to say how much we will repay, but at least we should not push ourselves too far and treat others as a fool. In the process of getting along with them, if you say something wrong, they will forgive you once or twice, but if you always do that, others will not be willing to forgive you, and will re-examine the relationship between you.

3

Sometimes, no matter how familiar you are with a person, even if they are as close as the boyfriend and girlfriend we mentioned at the beginning, you should not say something regardless of the occasion. Bad words.

Some people choose to be friends with you and are willing to have a closer relationship with you. That is because they trust you and recognize you, but you do not know how to think that you have a good relationship and that they can If you are infinitely tolerant of you and don't worry about other people's feelings, they will no longer maintain such a good relationship with you.

4

In a person's life, communicating with others is also a very important knowledge. No matter who you are facing in communication, you must know how to measure. Only in this way can you Only when you gain respect from others can you be respected by others, otherwise you will be criticized and alienated by others. Therefore, no matter what other people’s status is, you must also know how to control others, give them the respect they deserve, and know what to say and what not to say on any occasion. , what should be said must also be grasped.

We must cherish those people who have a good relationship with us, thank them for their recognition of us, and know how to use discretion with them, and do not hurt others and ruin such a beautiful relationship because of certain words. In short, remember that no matter how good the relationship is, you still need to know how to measure it.