Especially those young people who have just come out to enter the society, with their hearts full of enthusiasm, their minds filled with chivalry, and the idea that they are brothers if they smoke two cigarettes and drink twice in school. People you meet in the future will just meet by chance and will not have too much emotion for you. Take me as an example. My first job was at my last company.

That company is engaged in e-commerce. The boss is very talkative and has good brainwashing skills, so I worked in that company for two years. The company is not big and the number of people is only ten fingers, so it is easy to encounter people. Together, and because I had just entered the society, I had the fresh feeling of being brothers all over the world, and I immediately became very familiar with my colleagues, especially those of the same age. Later, in order to make it easier to work, I moved to a dormitory provided by the company. Dormitory living.

After I arrived at the dormitory, my enthusiasm became even more out of control. I also had no idea about money. I ordered late-night barbecue almost every night. I bought it and treated my roommates to it. At that time, I thought, I’m going to treat you. Others will always remember your kindness. After all, you are always soft-spoken, so more than half a year has passed. Indeed, we have been able to get along with each other for more than half a year. They are the kind of people who talk about everything, such as difficulties at work, and complaining. The boss, some grievances suffered, and even some topics between men would be easily talked about. At least on the surface, the relationship was really like brothers. Later, some colleagues left one after another. Those who left may never see each other again. After leaving, I couldn’t even send a few messages. There is a colleague who I have spent the longest time with and who I trust the most. He is quite different in age from us, and he is not very popular. I am more mature and steady, and I also think others are pretty good. I personally want to have some trustworthy friends outside who can take care of each other, so I go out to eat, or the boss treats me, or I treat them.

Before he got the news, he was the first person I notified. He would often buy and drink together. If he asked me to go out for something, I would go out. He would also go out, and once I was sick, he would go to the hospital with me. In short, the two of us ate and lived together for more than a year, until later, I was unable to work in the original company due to some things. I resigned and returned to my hometown. I left my job for half a year. I didn’t talk to my colleagues for much in the past six months. Occasionally, I sent him messages twice. It’s strange to say that I thought we would have a lot to talk about, but The chat didn't last long, at most five or six sentences, and then I returned to my original city and found a new job. Maybe I wasn't very used to the work, which was very depressing and had no place to express myself. I was always drinking alone. At this time, I still missed the old one. day, so I thought of him and wanted to make an appointment to have a drink together. When I opened WeChat and sent a message, a red exclamation mark appeared!

Oh, I realized at this time that I can’t go back to the past. If you leave, you will leave. If some people leave, you may never see each other again in this life. At this time, I remembered what my former boss said. One sentence: You are colleagues here, and you will have a good time. Once you leave my place, you will be a stranger. You may not say hello if you meet on the street. You will meet many people in your life. Many times you think that the person you meet may stay with you for a lifetime, but often it only takes a moment. How can people develop strong emotions when they meet by chance? Except for parents, Wife and children, no one will volunteer to help you and support you. In the end, people have to rely on themselves. There is a lyrics that goes like this. The older a person grows, the more lonely he becomes. The longer he lives, the easier it is to get used to loneliness and the easier it is to enjoy loneliness. . . .