Second, in an emergency, speak slowly; Major events, clearly stated; Small things, said humorously; If you are not sure, be cautious; Don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen; Don't talk nonsense. You can't do it.
Third, it is absolutely impossible for a tiger to pull out its teeth from its mouth. But if Tai Sui and the tiger killed you, would you still move? Can you pull it out?
Fourth, people want face and trees want skin. People exist in the society, and they have to play all kinds of roles, especially in the interaction, which needs certain dignity to support. This is the weakness of human nature. Only by understanding this point can we realize the necessity of respecting words.
Fifth, we must be patient with villains and take a step back. It is really impossible to give them our own space. Adults need to be measured and not take worldly things to heart. The villain is so desperate that he will get into trouble if he gets into trouble, but the small number of people in the world can't get into trouble.
Sixth, life is not dependent, that's right. There will be no pie in the sky, waiting for the rabbit to starve to death, but it is not enough alone. Relatives, friends, classmates and fellow villagers are all human resources. No one has three difficulties and six difficulties. If they can rely on it, they will rely on it. If they can't rely on it, they will also rely on creating conditions.
Seven, it is difficult to be a man, it is difficult to do things, and we must improve ourselves in the face of thousands of difficulties and dangers. If things are forced, dare to say no; If it is a legitimate interest, it should be done; Sometimes you even want to be a bully. If you are thick-skinned, you have to bite the bullet.
8. Respect the people who love you. I love you for a reason. Don't ask why. Pay more attention when accepting, but don't cheat others' feelings, even if you are not interested in them, even if they are ugly. This is wealth that you can't buy with money.
9. Be calm when encountering contradictions, be strong when encountering difficulties, fully understand the situation, be cautious when dealing with problems, be patient when being satirized, be restrained when being wronged, be busy and meticulous in work, and be enthusiastic when treating others.
Ten, the real hero, why short of breath, good beginning and good end, can be unbeaten. Endurance can keep us healthy and get things done. Patience is great wisdom, great courage and great blessing. Endure it as thick, endure it as black, endure it as base, endure it as strong, endure it as unbearable for the world, and the average person can't do it without being a temperamental person.
Eleven, the appearance is not annoying, and if you don't look good, you will be talented; If you have no talent, always smile.
12. If you are performing or giving a speech, if only one person is listening, you should go on with your heart, even if no one cheers, because this is the road and cradle of your success. You should not watch others succeed, but hope you succeed.
Thirteen, full of energy, upturned corners of the mouth. Hide pain, sadness and disappointment behind a smile. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.
Fourteen, interpersonal communication, should focus on the future, forget the past. Forgiving others is the best way to treat yourself. Anger for your enemies, burning yourself. Don't be too narrow-minded when you do things. All rivers run into the sea, relying on a tolerant heart.
Fifteen, in the sea of people, if you don't want to be isolated, you must learn how to get along with others. When the Woods are big, there are all kinds of birds. You are not required to like all people, but at the same time there are no best people in the world. Harmony is the most important thing, we should leave steps for each other and give each other face.
Sixteen, don't blame the objective problems, but also find the reasons subjectively. People who complain that others don't know themselves don't know others at first. Those who complain that organizational leaders don't believe in themselves, first of all, don't believe in organizational leaders.
Be a person with personality and give yourself a little confidence. The road to success depends on yourself, and the bright future comes from self-reliance, not giving in to any authority, and recovering self-esteem with your own efforts.
Eighteen, do things aboveboard, don't just please others, don't be emotional, say it to your face, don't say it behind your back.
A famous saying about dealing with people.
1, the first time you dare to laugh at yourself, it shows that you are mature.
2, the ups and downs of life is an invisible meat cleaver, giving everyone a statue.
Don't refuse people casually, and don't promise people casually. Don't make a wish, don't keep people's appetite, and don't try to be brave in meaningless things.
4. Don't force guests to look at your family photo album.
5. Friendship can never be a transaction; On the contrary, it needs the most thorough concept of selflessness.
6. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise is not.
7. Nothing can improve your bowling performance like a bystander. So, don't be stingy with your cheers.
8. Politeness is the golden key of human beings. Friends are the sky, the earth, the indomitable spirit, the wind, the rain and the power.
9. Big things don't mess up, small things don't leak, take them when you should take them, and put them down when you should put them down. Being a man, knowing how to bear is courage, and letting go is wisdom!
10, I don't need to be the subject.
1 1, do your best for others and finally do your best for yourself.
12, good words can arouse the goodwill of others; Bad words will arouse others' evil thoughts. Say one more good word and add one more kindness. Be kind, speak well, do good deeds and make good friends.
13, for things, not people; Or be ruthless about things and have feelings for people; Or do first and do second.
14, every milestone in life is engraved with two words.
15, no one is rich, but he is too great to need friends.
16, people should respect themselves, and then people should respect themselves.
17, people, like people, should always be upward and down-to-earth.
18. If a person abandons a loyal friend, it is equivalent to abandoning his most precious life.
19, don't open your heart without knowing the details of the other party.
20. To take a good road tomorrow, we must remember the road we took yesterday and think about the road we took today.
2 1, one should strive for perfection in the field of learning; In the industrial and commercial society, we should communicate vertically and horizontally; Talking and laughing in interpersonal space; Peace of mind in loneliness!
22. If your reasons are justified, don't be afraid to refuse others.
23, blindfolded, does not mean that the world is dark; Blindfold others' eyes, does not mean that the light is your own.
24. Be a mirror and always look at yourself; Be a man like a box, you can lift it freely at any time; Be yourself and keep a record of your merits and demerits; Like a candle, always illuminate others; Be a man like a clock and cherish every minute of your life.
25. Although a broken friendship can be restored, it can no longer reach the level of intimacy.
26. There are four kinds of people in the world: scum, manpower, talents and figures. We should despise scum, be unwilling to be outdone, envy talents and strive to be figures!
27, move with emotion, treat it with courtesy, establish it with virtue, and return it to the public. Be honest, be strict with yourself, persevere and help others with love. To be a man, you should know that people's hearts are easy to convince others with virtue, but it is difficult to convince others with strength!
28. Friendship is like a bottle of wine. The longer the storage time, the higher the value. And once unsealed, it will be enough for an alcoholic to drink too much.
29. Friends are wealth and health is capital.
30. Tolerance and helping others are good ways to get along with others. Gratitude is the virtue pursued by personality; Generosity and honesty are the basis of being a man and doing things.
3 1. Self-discipline, affinity for others, tolerance for life, diligence in knowledge, patience with difficulties and motivation for success!
32, pragmatic, this is the principle of employing people; Be reasonable, this is the principle of being a man; Honor and disgrace and * * *, this is the principle of making friends; Fear of death is the principle of being a man.
33. Things are valuable only if they can be used; People are useful only if they can be used. Do things with all your heart, and be conscientious!
Applause for everyone who sings on the stage.
35. Seeing the pride of others is actually inferiority.
36. Be self-reliant and don't be swayed by other people's words and deeds; One should respect oneself and not be discouraged by difficulties. Be confident in the face of setbacks and be proud in the face of failure!
37. Opening your eyes does not mean facing reality.
38. Do things slowly, don't be too hasty and make mistakes; It's better to be stupid than to be too smart and fail. Doing things can fail, but being a man can't fail; You can fail in the past and not in the future!
39. The natural enemy of interpersonal relationships is speculation, and cracking passwords is sincere!
40, proud and frustrated, don't care; Prosperity and adversity never stop. Be kind to yourself and be very happy; Be kind to others and be extremely happy; Be kind to life and be extremely healthy.
4 1, do things, do good things, do good things, do useful things; Be a good person, be a good person, be a good person, be an excellent person. Do things, strive for diligence in work, and strive for Excellence in results; To be a man, you should have noble beliefs and self-discipline.
Anyone who wants to get help when he is in trouble should be tolerant of others on weekdays.
43. Don't borrow money from your friends. I think many times I lost my good friend because of money.
44. Without mutual harmony, there will be no prosperity of life.
Respect parents, be kind to children, be generous to relatives and friends, and be polite to the public. Treat feelings with understanding; Treat friendship with a persistent heart!
46. If you don't make a name for yourself, sarcasm will disappear; Do more practical things, and honor will come unexpectedly. Be free, independent, self-reliant, not conceited, not conceited, not conceited!
47. Be a man before you do anything. Only when it is in place can we do things successfully.
48. Be sensible, sensible and content. Knowing reason means knowing the truth of being a man and grasping the duty of being a man; Proper limit is to grasp the discretion and be able to relax; Contentment means not being captured by material desires and being content with doing nothing!
49. If you love yourself sincerely, you can love others more sincerely.
50, all good things, start from yourself; All the good things come from my mouth; All good deeds are developed from my heart; All my friends sincerely respect me.
5 1, bones should be strong, qi should be soft, ambition should be big, courage should be small, heart should be empty, words should be true, wisdom should be increased, and blessings should be cherished. A man should communicate with courtesy and righteousness, and discipline himself with shame!
52. Ten taboos for being a man: avoid vanity, laziness, arrogance, rudeness, greed, selfishness, dishonesty, evil persistence, disloyalty and lying.
53. Treat people with peace and principle, treat things clearly and decisively, and treat things with integrity, simplicity and understanding. You are aboveboard without prejudice in your heart, and aboveboard without yourself in your heart.
54. Judging others is actually a lack of self-affirmation.
55. Be expert and broad-minded. You can work part-time, but only full-time. Be an innocent person, do things with your heart, not seeking perfection, but seeking perfection!
56. Respect people who don't like you.
57. Have knowledge, responsibility, wisdom, make friends, study hard, be cautious, live diligently, aim high and be full of enthusiasm!
58. Rude people are not born, rude things are not successful, and rude countries are not at peace. Be polite, respect people, respect people, respect people!
59. A gentleman and a gentleman are friends with the same way; Villains and villains are like-minded friends.
As long as you are willing to praise others, you are the biggest winner.
26 rules for dealing with people
Looks are not annoying, and if you don't look good, you will be talented; If you have no talent, always smile.
2. temperament is the key. If you can't learn fashion, you'd rather be simple.
3. When shaking hands with people, you can shake hands for a while. Sincerity is a kind of wealth.
It is not necessary to use "I" as the subject.
5. Don't borrow money from friends.
6. Don't "force" guests to look at your family photo album.
7. When fighting with others, please sit next to the driver first.
8. Insist on saying nice things about others behind their backs, and don't worry that these nice things won't reach the ears of the parties.
9. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.
10. Drive your own car and don't stop to say hello to your colleagues who ride bicycles. People will think you are showing off.
1 1. Visit your colleague when he is ill. Sit naturally in his hospital bed and wash your hands carefully when you get home.
12. Don't let everyone know the past.
13. Respect people who don't like you.
14. Things are not people; Or be ruthless about things and have feelings for people; Or do first and do second.
15. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise is not.
16. Nothing can improve your career like watching. Forgive k? Yu? Craftsman 2 ash? Yo? What happened to acetylene?
17. Don't take others' kindness for granted. You know, gratitude.
18. The "myna" on the banyan tree is talking, just talking but not listening, and the result is a mess. Learn to listen.
19. Respect the master and cleaning aunt in the reception room.
Remember to start with "we" when you speak.
2 1. Give a hand to everyone who sings on the stage.
22. Sometimes you should know perfectly well that your diamond ring is expensive! Sometimes, even if you want to ask, you can't ask, for example, how old are you?
23. If you talk too much, you lose. Pray in crowded places.
24. change the unspoken "no" into "it will take time", "I'll try my best", "I'm not sure" and "I'll call you when I decide" ...
25. Don't expect everyone to like you. It's impossible. Making most people like you is a sign of success.
26. Of course, you should like yourself.
Talking about dealing with people
Talking about dealing with people
(a) quietly listening to your songs, let me feel a lot of life, realized that people should be low-key, modest, sincere, cherish friends or relatives who have accompanied you!
(2) After reading the Wisdom of the Marsh and listening to the Etiquette of Treating People with Things by Professor Zhao Yuping, I learned a lot and became more polite to people; At the same time, I also hope that others can treat me sincerely, but when things don't develop in the direction I expected, I feel a little lost. Finally, I tell myself: Just be yourself and don't become an annoying person.
(3) Just as there are no two identical leaves in the world, everyone has his own unique Excellence. Being good at tolerating others' shortcomings and appreciating others' Excellence is not only reflected in an open mind, but also a kind of wisdom to treat people. The sooner you find your best position, the more you can give full play to your potential and embrace success.
(4) Do things by yourself and judge behind your back. Pay too much attention to the voice in your ear, be indecisive and timid, and finally get tired and sleepy. Even if it is done well, there will be people pointing fingers; Even if you are in a mess, you can still hear hymns. The only thing that can save you is yourself. You don't have to dwell on external judgment, fall into the eyes of others and distort yourself to please the world.
(5) After studying in the north for 10 years, the only thing that is gratifying is to know some good friends and learn a little about dealing with people. Many times, if I don't compromise, I will have a good result and do nothing. When I have to solve people and things in a cruel way, I can't be vague at all
(6) Recently, I saw an ancient costume and a modern costume, and it was suddenly enlightened. The reason for dealing with people is clear. Living in the sun, we should cherish living in the dark and create light.
You should have your own principles. Once tolerant, it will become weak. Don't be particularly nice to anyone. Once generous, it becomes a matter of course. Don't let your kindness become a weakness in dealing with others. You know, people who are willing to embarrass you will never be worthy of your kindness. The premise of a good life is not to wronged yourself.
(8) The label is that you should not be so naive, be cautious and rational in making decisions, be mature and generous in dealing with people, and be calm in the face of changes.
(9) Treat people with sincerity, treat people with courtesy, be tolerant and generous, learn to empathize and know how to treat people.
(10) Sometimes I really want to laugh at some people. They are in a mess and even talk to me about filial piety.
(1 1) Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. Doing good deeds cannot become moral kidnapping.
(12) People should be careful when they are alive and make more friends. Say seven words to everyone, not all the truth. It's hard to draw bones when drawing tiger skin.
(13) There are some people in the circle of friends. You can clearly understand his values, his way of dealing with people and his position, so you can find a cause and effect of fate from him. These causal superposition is the truth of this world.
(14) What you can see, you never need to listen to a word from others. Trust is the way to deal with people.
(15) Those who lead an honest and clean life will lead an honest and clean life, will not accept unreasonable troubles, and will not affect their mood because of unimportant things. The world is colorful, mature, learn to be calm and deal with people better. I wish myself and the people around me better and better, world peace and sweet dreams every night.
(16) Today, three years later, I ask myself, I have been adhering to this method of dealing with people for three years. I only pay attention to the present, I pay attention to the present love, I insist on everything I want to accomplish now, and try my best to give everything the best result, even if I try my best to make up for all kinds of problems and mistakes. Sometimes I don't even dare to think about the future, because I know it doesn't make much sense, and I'm too weak to support all my fantasies.
(17) Kindness is the key to a person's life, whether he is stupid or sweet-mouthed. Whether they can speak and be competent is the key; No disguise, no perfunctory, no deception is a person's truth. Knowing tolerance, respect and understanding is a person's goodness. More important than anything!
I am lazy and stupid, and I don't know how to get along with others, but I never give up loving you.
(19) With the growth of China, I suddenly found that there are fewer and fewer desires at present. No flattery, no flattery, Dont Ask For Help, no compromise, no flattery. The years are getting older, but the heart is getting richer. It's time to be myself. I like to do things in my own way, instead of blindly taking care of others and imprisoning my sincerity and compromise.
20. The so-called laity doesn't listen to pop songs, read simple articles or love money like life. But carefully live in the eyes of others, and even set the standard of dealing with people in a self-righteous way.
Reading this book tonight reminds me of what you said to me when we first met! You taught me how to get along with people!
(22) I especially appreciate Dong Qing's remark that you should strive to be what you want your future children to be. Although my parents love me very much, I know more about the influence of improper family on my children. Suitability is really important. You don't have to look at anyone's face. Children's self-confidence and self-confidence often come from parents' self-confidence, and children's quality often comes from parents' behavior. The best way to cultivate children is often not education, but influence.
(twenty-three) study hard, work and life will be rich; On the other hand, I don't like studying, and my work life is lacking. Over time, everyone grew up in different living environments. Generation after generation, the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. Not only economically, but most importantly, spiritually, the basic quality of communication with people.
I think the way I deal with people can make everyone like me, at least not yet. It turns out that every time, what I do moves only myself.
(25) Seeing two beautiful and fashionable girls in high-speed railway station, it's a pity that dealing with people is really boring.
(26) The so-called poor support and rich support is not as good as education. How far a person can go does not depend on how high his IQ is, but on whether he has the upbringing to deal with people.
(27) Let you be gentle immediately ~ ~ Want to play with gentle you. And know how to change; Change your mentality of interacting with others; Know how to let go.
I heard someone talking about a friend behind his back yesterday. I don't know her very well. At least in my contact, she has always been more considerate and decent than most people. I don't know why she is so puzzling. There are too many people's stupidity and unprovoked malice. I used to know this as a joke, but now I must seriously admit it. The smug face is really ugly, which is why the so-called evil consequences are forgotten.
(29) People behave differently. You can have a high emotional intelligence, but maybe everyone has a different meaning to the word friend, so I will have a long snack in the future.
(30) Two photos in the same place at the same time only have different angles, different focal points and different feelings. Just like dealing with people, the starting point is different, the focus is different, and the result will be very different!
I am really not an annoying person, and I am honest with others, at least. Normally, I won't argue with you. But I'm not happy about one thing, so let's not be happy.