Some time ago, in order to celebrate the birthday of Korean idols, China fans cooperated with airlines and spent huge sums of money to spray paint on airplanes, which caused public outcry.

In recent years of idolization, fans have performed a lot of fanatical and wonderful behaviors, and staged a series of farce: a few years ago, a star female fan Yang dropped out of school to borrow money from idolization, which led her father to commit suicide by jumping into the sea, and the farce turned into a tragedy, which was embarrassing;

Once, at Xiaoshan Airport in Hangzhou, just to see their idols, a group of young people forcibly crushed the thick glass fence of the airport, causing innocent passers-by to be scratched by broken glass;

Four China fans bought tickets on the same flight as the idol, got in close contact with the idol, got off the plane quickly and got a full refund.

This series of incredible behaviors directly led to all passengers on board being forced to re-check, and the flight was seriously delayed.

Every time I see similar idolization, I am speechless and puzzled: what benefits can such idolization bring me besides short-lived and fleeting pleasure and satisfaction?

It is not impossible to idolize, but the key is to adopt a "cost-effective" idolization method. What are the cost-effective ways to idolize? The idolization method that can bring the greatest help and benefits to your life is the cost-effective idolization method.

Chekhov, the great writer, is also worshipped. At first he admired Turgenev most, and later he regarded Tolstoy as his idol.

1895, Chekhov visited Tolstoy for the first time with the feeling of pilgrimage. Chekhov took great pains for this visit. What clothes to wear, what tie to wear, which pair of boots to wear-just like the anxiety and excitement of every fan before going to see an idol.

In this regard, Puning, a Russian writer and Nobel Prize in Literature laureate in 1933, recorded in detail in Chekhov: "Chekhov spent almost an hour deciding what kind of pants to wear in order to meet Tolstoy. He went in and out of the bedroom, wearing this pair of trousers for a while and another pair for a while.

No, these pants are ridiculously narrow! He said to me,' Tolstoy will think I am a dirty writer. So he went in and changed it, and then came out and said with a smile,' This is as wide as the Black Sea! He'll think I'm a gangster ... "

Puning said: "Although Chekhov respects many people, he is not afraid of them. He is only afraid of Tolstoy, just as people are afraid of people they love or admire. "

Chekhov worships Tolstoy and follows Tolstoy. Under the influence of Tolstoy, he wrote a series of excellent novels such as The Good Man and Cossack.

Tolstoy admired Chekhov very much: "In terms of technology, Chekhov is superior to me. I also want to tell you another advantage of Chekhov: like a few writers such as Dickens and Pushkin, his works can be reread repeatedly ... "

1903 March 3 1 was the last meeting between Tolstoy and Chekhov, and Gorky also attended the meeting.

Tolstoy anxiously said to Gorky, "I am an old man, and I may not understand today's literature, but I thought it was not Russian."

Later, Tolstoy turned to Chekhov and said, "And you are Russian, completely Russian."

Perhaps, Toon felt that this could not fully express his love for Chekhov. He stood up slowly and hugged Chekhov with a smile.

Director Ang Lee's idol is Sweden, movie master and ingmar bergman. He directed 62 films and 170 plays in his life, and won the Oscar for Best Foreign Language Film four times. Woody Allen said, "Bergman is the greatest film artist since the invention of film."

1974, 18-year-old Ang Lee was stunned when he first saw Bergman's film "The Spring of Notre Dame". What he immediately did was sit in the same place and watch it again.

Bergman's "The Virgin Spring" gave Ang Lee surging life motivation. At the age of 37, Ang Lee's first film "Pushing Hands" was released and won the Golden Horse Award in one fell swoop. Since then, he has made great strides on the film road.

In 2006, Ang Lee nearly collapsed during the preparation and filming of Lust, Caution. After being introduced, he got Bergman's permission to meet him in the secret Faroe Island.

When I met Bergman, Ang Lee, a world-renowned director who was over half a century old, fell on Bergman's shoulder and cried like a child when he was in his 80s.

Since then, Ang Lee has successfully completed the filming of Lust, Caution. In 2007, Bergman died at the age of 89. Ang Lee, thousands of miles away, choked several times when he heard the news, and once stopped working.

Every time Bergman is mentioned, he will say, "I can never compare with him." He is a spiritual mentor and will always be my spiritual mentor. "

Ang Lee has his own interpretation of what an idol is: "I think an idol should be a spiritual teacher. When your soul can't be placed and can't be calm, idols will always give you spiritual comfort. "

In 2008, at school, a Singaporean boy aged 13 took Phelps as his life idol.

At the 20 16 Rio Olympic Games, Schooling competed with Phelps, defeated the powerful Phelps, won the men's 100 meter butterfly final, and broke Phelps' world record in this event.

Idols should be lighthouses. When you are hesitant and confused, take a look at the lighthouse, find the direction to ride the wind and waves, and increase the strength to overcome difficulties until you become a lighthouse;

Idol should be a flying flag, a loud horn that inspires and guides us, become a person like idol, an ideal figure in my mind, and make idol proud of the Excellence of his fans.

Can inspire fans and make them better and better, such idols are high-quality idols;

Taking idols as the goal, becoming idols, surpassing idols, and paying tribute to idols with awesome achievements, this is a high-quality fan, and this is a super cost-effective idolization method.