Meaningless social interaction

When people reach middle age, they are basically in a state of being old at the top and young at the bottom. At this time, the burden on the shoulders is the heaviest and most unbearable. slack off.

When people reach middle age, their career is also on the rise. At this time, all energy should be used to work hard in order to achieve better results.

When you reach middle age, you should stop wasting time and feelings on those who are not worthy of it, because time is precious and feelings are also precious.

When you reach middle age, you should stop contacting the following people. It is meaningless.

Relatives who come and go. Basically, the way people get along with each other is: only when they come and go can they be friendly, but when there is no contact, they become strangers. The same is true between relatives.

If you pay a lot to a relative of yours, you often give him things, throw money to him during the New Year and holidays, and you help with both big and small matters; but on the other hand, the other person treats you poorly. If there is no effort at all, and even going to his house for a meal is difficult, then there is no need for such relatives to continue to communicate with each other.

You treat people as relatives, but they don’t treat you as relatives at all, or in the eyes of such people, interests are far more important than relatives. When people reach middle age, their hard-earned money should be used to support their family and children. Stop making such meaningless contributions. Stop interacting with and contacting such relatives.

A hypocritical friend. Some people can talk nicer than anyone else, and they can use their words to coax people, but in fact, they have no true feelings at all. They can neither fight with you in pain, nor can they fight with you in adversity, but they only want to I will share the joys with you and enjoy the blessings with you.

If you ask for something from him, he will find various excuses to refuse; seeing that you are in trouble, he would like to use his own two legs to escape. And when you no longer have any benefits or advantages to take advantage of, he will come back to please you.

When a person reaches middle age, he should be able to see some people and see through some things. Making friends with such people is equivalent to wasting one's friendship on an unworthy person. Such friends, They are not really friends at all. For this kind of person, it is best to cut off all contact to avoid being deceived and used by him again in the future.

Classmates who have long forgotten the friendship between former classmates. The friendship between classmates who once studied together on the same campus is really unforgettable, but the most important thing is that not everyone finds it unforgettable.

Some people have forgotten all about that friendship, and may feel like strangers when they face you again. But on the surface, he will still keep in touch with you. The reason is that when you reach middle age, you should have certain interpersonal relationships, and he regards you as his current network.

If you tell him some things that you have experienced together on campus in the past, he will not be able to talk to him at all because he has already forgotten them; if you tell him too much, he will be very unhappy. Be patient, because that's not what he cares about at all. He only cares about whether you are useful now and whether you can come in handy in the future. For such students, the best way is to completely disconnect.

The opposite sex chatting on the Internet. Some people like to chat with the opposite sex on the Internet. Most of the chat content is somewhat ambiguous, and they regard it as a hobby and for fun. Two people have never met, do not understand each other, and have no idea what kind of person the other person is. They are just chatting with each other in a virtual world about useless things. Apart from wasting time, what is the meaning of this approach? ?

When you reach middle age, the whole family is pointing at you. If you have that time, how about working harder and making more money for your family? Small talk will not lead to a happy life, and may lead to marital conflicts. If you are smart, stop contacting such people.

When people reach middle age, they should learn to block out of their own world those people who there is no need to continue to interact with. Some people are really not worth it; some interactions are really meaningless, and no longer contacting them is the wisest choice.