2. University is not just a human society. When I first entered the university, I heard people say that "evaluating a classmate's ability is basically based on his interpersonal communication, not his score", so I went out of my way to please people around me. If you deliberately engage in interpersonal relationships and neglect the study of professionalism, you will only make friends who can only engage in relationships. If you can get along well with the people around you while focusing on your studies, you can make some experts or be respected.
3. Don't trust the seniors in the freshman year. In fact, I still appreciate the economic-minded students in the university. However, the younger brothers and sisters who have just entered the freshman year must understand the difference. When they enter the school, they will inevitably join many new classmates. There will also be enthusiastic seniors and sisters in the group, talking nonstop. But in their sophomore and junior years, they will find that there are all kinds of things to be busy every day. Where do they get so much time to chat and make friends 24 hours a day? If so, they may want to be more careful. It is possible that non-school personnel pretend to sell things in groups, such as the most common one.
People's hearts may not change, no matter when. Don't treat your roommates and classmates as your good friends too quickly. Although it is a fate that can meet and intersect among hundreds of millions of people, personality and outlook on life may be different. It is lucky to get along well, but don't be sad if you don't get along well. Treat everyone equally. After going to college, we may come into contact with special people (such as depression and physical disability), so please don't point at them and don't care too much about them. The best respect is to treat them as normal people.