>No```you have to love`you can meet someone who can spend your life with you```

Me:

No

Me:

You hurt me

He:

Don’t cry anymore ``It’s time to learn to be strong``

Him:

Yeah

Him:

I know it hurt me from the beginning and I can’t help myself

You are not qualified to tell me to learn to be strong

He:

Promise me to ``find my own happiness``

He:

So I feel that I have hurt two girls in the past 20 years`

It is my lifelong guilt ``I will spend my whole life to repent``` < /p>

He:

Yes````

He:

Will bless

Me:

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Since you have always loved her, why do you treat me like this?

He:

Maybe I love both, but she comes first.

Me:

Understood

He:

If you had encountered it earlier, maybe so many things would not have happened.

He:

I really feel guilty`

Me:

It’s never too late

Me:

Haha

He:

Maybe this reason is not a reason````

Me:

Are we still friends

He:

Promise me to ``find my own happiness``

He:

Maybe I am not qualified to say this`

I got off the plane later. I really want to be with him forever, but the distance...we are too far apart.

Asker: Anonymous

Replies*** 28

I think you can calm down for a while before watching again. The distance will make the relationship weaker, so I can't do it. It will increase the pain of both people. Maybe time can give the answer. Looking at the current passion after some time can make both parties think about the future. For your boyfriend, maybe you are too good and make him feel inferior. Communication between the two parties is very important. Pursue but don't force it, letting yourself go will make you feel everything is wonderful.

Answer: _8888 - New to the Jianghu Level 2 1-10 17:43

You can live without anyone, you are really hopeless and sober, right?

Answer Author: liyuansheng117 - Probation period level 1-10 17:44

You must still have a chance, because he must have loved you once, and I believe he can do it

Answer: Feng Zhiwa - Probation Level 1-10 17:46

Emotions cannot be controlled. Everyone can like many people, but they can only truly love one. His words have made it very clear, He hopes that you will find your own happiness and prove that he is not in love with you. Be strong. There is no right or wrong in feelings, nor can they be obtained without force.

When love is a thing of the past, be free and easy. , be open-minded and leave your smile to the person who hurt you the most. Smart people know that they want to be happy. The beginning of one relationship can be the end of another relationship, so have the courage to look for it. I wish you all the best.

Answer: bingyudian - Manager Level 4 1-10 17:46

Bitch man! Ignore her, love yourself, you can be wonderful without her! < /p>

Answer: Can’t see the future clearly - Assistant Level 2 1-10 17:47

You should be more open-minded as a person, and be friends first!

Answer: wingerrock - Doorman Level 3 1-10 17:47

How much do you love him?

Do you have to be together for the rest of your life? < /p>

My feeling: This is a contradictory and indecisive man

You are only 20 years old, don’t let yourself indulge in such useless feelings

Let’s go Come out

Answer: Su Xiaochen - Magic Apprentice Level 1-10 17:49

I think he is sincere

If he is a serious person in life People, I think your understanding is a kind of beauty.

Of course it is his own choice to become his ex. Since he is so serious about representing you and love, don't give him so much sense of responsibility. The guilt of love. I wish him happiness and be a good friend with him. Your beautiful meeting will be more important...! Met the right person at the wrong time

Answer: 415593086 - Probation period level 1-10 17:50

Perhaps we shouldn’t fall in love too far away in the silent age

What do you love about him? He hurt you and you still love him? He doesn't want to hurt you, and he doesn't want to pursue a love and life that he thinks are unrealistic. Without the same language, love is empty and blind.

You just love him, love him as he was before, and love the memories of being with him, but he is no longer the one you love.

He has changed and made a choice. He has chosen to let you go and give you more choices and more freedom, although this is not what you want. But he really thinks that he will not be happy with you. You are no longer the only one in his heart, and he has new feelings and choices.

He can't give up that relationship for you, maybe he just chose that relationship so that you can have a better destination. He has already chosen and made a decision. It is difficult to be happy with one-way love. You should not close your feelings. Not accepting the love of others for him is emotional, unwise, and unworthy. You will gain nothing except your own spiritual comfort, and the gain outweighs the loss.

Your courage to give up on him will not prove your disloyalty to love, but will prove your understanding of love.

Is this feeling the most important and the highest in your heart? Something you'll never forget?

Theoretically speaking, a woman's love is specific and not lasting. When she loves one person, she will be very specific and can no longer tolerate others in her heart: and when this love fades away, another When the second love comes, you will put the first love in the corner or even disappear completely.

Let yourself have something to do, don’t think about forgetting him, time will help you forget him naturally, open your heart, show courage, come on!

Happiness is something you ask for!

Answer: reggiecn - Qianzong Level 4 1-10 17:53

Leaving him is not necessarily a bad thing, it is naturally the best thing for him to be forceful and not sweet.

Answer: rosekid_2001 - Apprentice Magician Level 3 1-10 17:54

If you had known that sadness would always be inevitable, why would you bother to stay in love...

You should just let it go. Let it go, temporary indulgence will be very painful

But the pain is short-lived, at least compared to you

Answer: ntlove521you - Juren Level 4 1-10 17 :56

Don’t let yourself suffer for too long. Maybe you are too serious.

Maybe he is too confused. This is how feelings are.

Once you don’t like the other person, You will become very heartless

Stop being like this, you have suffered a lot

This is the helplessness of being a woman, a man will give you a break

The last love I will give you is...let go of my hand

Answer: Little Tea Story-Magician 4 Level 1-10 17:58

After reading your conversation

My feeling as a man is that he really doesn’t want to be with you anymore?

If what he said is true, it means that your views on love and worldview are different and there is no basis for being together

If what he said is purely false, it means that his words are for Excuses for breaking up

If he tells a white lie, he may think that it is impossible for you to get together in the future

Then this relationship will be meaningless

I just hope you can relieve your pain!

Maybe "forgetting" is the best solution

Maybe "time" is the best way to bring about "forgetting"

If there are so many breakups Reason, you still have to persist in pursuing the love you want

Please "think twice before you act"

What does a person who can break up with you think of your love? ?

If you still want to pursue it, then I wish you good luck! !

Answer: Forest of Forgetting - Apprentice Magician Level 2 1-10 17:58

Stop wasting time, you are finished.

Answer: benkick - Trainee Magician Level 3 1-10 18:00

Friend... I don’t know what to say. In fact, I want to advise you to let go... Really, this is how feelings are. , the greater your hope, the greater the disappointment. Why did you fall to death on a tree? Feelings cannot be forced. The more you want to catch him, the more he will escape. Maybe he is looking for a replacement when he comes to you. But on the other hand, since he can be with you for eight months, it proves that he has feelings for you. He doesn't need his pity, so even if he comes back to you again, it won't be out of love for you. , on the contrary, he will miss his ex-girlfriend even more. If you still love him, just let him go and not pester him. Because he thinks you can’t give him happiness. Then let him find happiness. Maybe you can calm down. He will come back to you... The most important thing now is that you must not pester him. This is just my personal idea and I don't need his sympathy... Just relax and relax, even if you are just a friend. If Your love is forced on each other. No one will be happy... let alone a lifetime, it is just pain... I believe that if he really loves you, he will come back to you... Letting go does not mean giving up. It is short-lived. The separation does not mean a permanent separation.. I pray for you...

Answer: ぁbaby Faith - Assistant Level 3 1-10 18:01

I think, You can leave him.

Because although his words may seem hesitant, he is actually very firm. He does not intend to be with you anymore.

And if he has someone else in his heart, you will often be unhappy even if you are together.

Answer: emmawu1214 - Assistant Level 2 1-10 18:06

Oh, what is love in this world!

Answer: annddy19 - Trainee Magician Level 3 1-10 18:07

I have an example exactly like yours, and they are two people with different backgrounds

That boy and I are good friends. He was born in an ordinary environment, but there is a girl from a very good family who loves him but he ignores her

I don’t know if this will continue There are no results, but I feel that persistence will always pay off. You will get the happiness you want, live and learn to be strong...

Answer: again o again - Probation period level 1-10 18:09

He doesn’t even like you, and it’s useless for you to keep pestering him. Unless the girl he likes doesn't like him, then you still have a possibility... But for a person who can love two girls at the same time, it's hard to say that he won't like three or more at the same time in the future! ~

Answer: sunweed - Trial Period Level 1 1-10 18:10

I really want to hear the story between you, transnational love, a bit like the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl! Ha ha! It can be seen that the man likes the original one. After all, you are far apart, so it may be difficult to meet! +QQ:87855622 Tell me your story! How it started...and how it ended!

Answer: was25 - Manager Level 5 1-10 18:30

Although it is useless, I really want to say that time can dilute everything. What I feel I can’t think about now will be long after Looking back, you will feel that you are very naive, why are you stuck in an alley and can't get out? You have to meet so many people in your life, why do you decide not to trust people because of him? What if he looks back now? If you say you are willing to be with you again, what is your decision? When we are together, you have to worry about whether he will leave again. If he reluctantly stays with you and feels that he has been wronged and given in, he will only think more about the past. That woman is better, and what you can't get is the best after all, so both of you will suffer. Now think about it, if they are happy, it is because of you; if they are not happy, and that woman helps you bear the pain, you still have to Thank her--

Answer: Lost 99 - Probation Period Level 1-10 18:31

Let me analyze it. He must be the first person you love. , things like feelings cannot be left behind. To fall behind is to fail. You are the second person he loves. Everyone's first time is so important. You love him so much now because he is your first love. On the other hand; he also had his first love. It's a pity that his first love is not you, and he also hopes that his first love will blossom and bear fruit. If you want to maintain your relationship, you should spend more time together. It is absolutely impossible to separate the two places. You want him to feel that you are the best for him. He may have connected with his first love during your time apart. Men are not very reliable to begin with. If you want to win him back, just listen to me. Don't give in. Find an opportunity to play happily with him for a period of time. Pay attention to details. When you are with him, you must dress up beautifully and sexy. When you play with him, don't regard him as your boyfriend. friend. Just treat him as a normal friend. You must be happy yourself. At that time, I think he will take the initiative to approach you. Don't lose your virginity to him easily! You must be a smart woman. Let him feel that he is wrong and don't say no to love easily.

Answer: Lenovo Master - Trial Period Level 1-10 18:36

I personally think you have no chance. After all, talents and looks are in line with China’s national conditions. You are As a foreign student, he is a domestic college student. Of course he will have low self-esteem. When you get married in the future, I believe your ability will definitely be higher than his. Then he will become a "tracheitis" in the social circle. After seeing you and his Conversation, I think he is indifferent to your hard pleas. This does not mean that he has no feelings for you, but it only means that this society does not accept such an arrangement. If I were him, I would not dare to climb up to this level. Gao Zhi, after all, as a man, you need to have your own career, and you also want to have a lover who you can rely on. I would like to advise you not to continue this impossible love. I also believe that you will regain your love after a while. Cheer up and continue with your current life.

Answer: zero3160 - Probation Level 1-10 18:45

You still have a chance, he still loves you!

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Answer: Huan Die in the Black Forest - Magic Apprentice Level 1-10 18:53

The most important thing is to cherish yourself, and wait for you to look back after a while. When you do, you will regret it. There are many good men, but maybe he is not the person you want to grow old with.

Answer: Mu Yufengqing - Assistant Level 3 1-10 19:14

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