This understanding is wrong. Buddha said: Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, and it is rare to have one or two.
This sentence is about life. Everyone has a difficult book to read. You can't say that life without friends is failure. In fact, many friends are actually fair-weather friends, dancing friends, gambling friends, friends who turn their faces and deny people, and the most worthless WeChat friends.
There is no savior in the world, you have to save yourself. As we all know, it is up to everyone to run. The rich have distant relatives in the mountains and the poor have no close neighbors in the downtown area. Don't win by friends.
You should be yourself, be honest with your conscience, be honest with your parents, be honest with yourself, do your best for others, don't be hypocritical, let nature take its course, you should boldly approach the girl you like, boldly confess, and don't shrink back. You will have a girlfriend, a woman who is really good to you, enough for your whole life!